{"id":9442,"date":"2016-06-02T17:42:42","date_gmt":"2016-06-02T15:42:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/?p=9442"},"modified":"2016-06-02T17:42:42","modified_gmt":"2016-06-02T15:42:42","slug":"a-jane-me-te-vertete-mesuesit-dhe-armiq-te-prinderve","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/?p=9442","title":{"rendered":"A JAN\u00cb M\u00cb T\u00cb VERTET\u00cb M\u00cbSUESIT DHE ARMIQ T\u00cb PRIND\u00cbRVE?"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"mesuesitdhe-prinderit\"<\/a>Nga Arlinda Sukaliqi<\/em><\/p>\n

N\u00eb nj\u00eb bised\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebndomt\u00eb dy n\u00ebna q\u00eb po merrnin f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre nga kopshti zhvillojn bised\u00eb\u00a0 rreth f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre\u00a0 se si ato ndjekin kopshti dhe si k\u00ebt\u00eb vit do t\u00eb shkruhen n\u00eb klas\u00ebn e par\u00eb.Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb njer\u00ebs n\u00ebn\u00eb i del f\u00ebmia dhe ajo i drejtohet atij :zemra mamit dole,eja te mami t\u2019i lidh mami lidhcat e k\u00ebpucave.I drejtohet n\u00ebn\u00ebns tjet\u00ebr me krenari: a dini ju zonj\u00eb se djali im ky pik\u00ebrisht, ky q\u00eb po ia lidh lidhsen,eja zem\u00ebr vazhdon ajo ta lidh dhe kepuc\u00ebn e tjet\u00ebr, q\u00eb tani vazhdona ajo di t\u00eb shkruaj dhe t\u00eb lexoj. A nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb mrekulli?<\/p>\n

\"baneri-web-sajte-origjinali\"<\/a>Un\u00eb i kam lexua me dhjetra e qindra p\u00ebrallla deri tani me ilustrime ,dhe kam menduar q\u00eb ta an\u00ebtar\u00ebsoj n\u00eb ndonj\u00eb kurs t\u00eb gjuh\u00ebve t\u00eb huaja s\u00eb shpejti. Zem\u00ebr, vazhdon n\u00ebna, eja k\u00ebtu ta vishi dhe pallton,ma jep nj\u00eb dor\u00eb opaa,ja dhe tjetr\u00ebn shum\u00eb mire ,prita sa ta mberthej…<\/p>\n

Duke mos folur asgj\u00eb n\u00ebna tjet\u00ebr, n\u00ebna llafazane vazhdon bised\u00ebn e saj me l\u00ebvdata t\u00eb shumta duke mos ditur se vet ato veprime ta saja paraqesin nj\u00eb foto tipike t\u00eb nj\u00eb prind\u00ebri t\u00eb pap\u00ebrgjegjsh\u00ebm i cili e ka m\u00ebsuar f\u00ebmij\u00ebn t\u00eb jet\u00eb i varur nga prind\u00ebri n\u00eb \u00e7do veprim t\u00eb tij.<\/p>\n

Si tu spjegosh prind\u00ebrve\u00a0 e t\u00eb mos zemrohen\u00a0 q\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs para se t\u00eb hyj n\u00eb klas\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e\u00a0 nevojshme t\u2019i m\u00ebsohet lexim i e as shkrimi,sepse p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb\u00a0 arsye ata shkojn\u00eb n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb, pra p\u00ebr t\u2019i m\u00ebsuar k\u00ebto gj\u00ebra.Se m\u00eb t\u00eb nevojsh\u00ebm jan\u00eb t\u2019i m\u00ebsohen t\u00eb zot\u00ebroj shkatht\u00ebsit\u00eb e shprehit\u00eb elementare jet\u00ebsore si :lidhja vet\u00eb e k\u00ebpuc\u00ebve,t\u00eb vishet\u00a0 e t\u00eb \u00e7vishet vet,t\u00eb mbaj drejt\u00eb lapsin,vet\u00eb t\u2019i p\u00ebrgadis\u00eb gj\u00ebrat e veta personale p\u00ebr shkoll\u00eb etj.T\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebto gj\u00ebra mundohen t\u2019ua m\u00ebsojn\u00eb edukatoret\u00a0 n\u00eb kopshte f\u00ebmij\u00ebve.E them “mundohen” sepse shum\u00eb prind\u00ebr\u00a0 shpesh her\u00eb\u00a0 e n\u00ebnvler\u00ebsojn\u00eb pun\u00ebn dhe p\u00ebrpjekjet e tyre .<\/p>\n

C’FAR\u00cb I ZEMERON MESUESIT?<\/strong>
\nKur f\u00ebmij\u00ebt fillojn t\u00eb ndjekin klas\u00ebn e par\u00eb ,m\u00ebsuesit shpesh her\u00eb hidh\u00ebrohen p\u00ebr gj\u00ebra t\u00eb vogla.Disa f\u00ebmij\u00eb nuk dijn\u00eb vet\u00eb t\u00eb veshin pallton ose t\u2019a heqin ate,,nuk dijn\u00eb p\u00ebr \u00e7ka u sherben \u00e7anta qe kan\u00eb n\u00eb krah\u00eb,dhe as \u00e7ka ka brenda .Ka nga ata f\u00ebmij\u00eb q\u00eb mbajn\u00eb lapsin n\u00eb dor\u00eb vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u00eb\u00a0 pickuar shokun,ose nx\u00ebn\u00ebs q\u00eb gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb koh\u00ebs b\u00ebn\u00eb zhgarravina dhe ato vazhdimisht i fshin.T\u00eb mos flasim p\u00ebr orjentimin e t\u00eb shkruarit n\u00eb fleore sespse asnj\u00ebri s\u2019e ka,nj\u00ebri shkruan ,prapsh,tjetri n\u00eb an\u00ebn e gabuar,tjetri kalon flet\u00ebn ose faq\u00ebn.N\u00eb situata t\u00eb tillla kur m\u00ebsuesja afrohet q\u00eb ta p\u00ebrmirsoj ose ndihmoj nx\u00ebn\u00ebsin situata acarohet,vjen deri t\u00eb mosmarrveshja,nx\u00ebn\u00ebsi\u00a0 b\u00ebh\u00ebt konfuz,zemerohet duke iu drejtuar m\u00ebsues me fjal\u00eb t\u00eb tipit: jo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb ashtu si thua ti, mami ma ka m\u00ebsuar keshtu…Shtrohet pyetja si t\u2019iu spjegohet prind\u00ebrve\u00a0 qe mos t\u00eb luajn rolin e m\u00ebsuesit t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn n\u00eb fillimet e para t\u00eb nx\u00ebn\u00ebsit n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb? Dhe\u00a0 a jan\u00eb me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet m\u00ebsuesit armiq\u00ebt e prind\u00ebrve? Nuk\u00a0 besoj sepse m\u00ebsuesi i cili n\u00eb situate. ne nj\u00eb aktivitet jasht\u00eb shkollor ku gjendet m\u00eb 20 f\u00ebmij\u00eb jasht\u00eb shkolle i cili duhet t\u2019i vesh ,t\u2019i gjej ushqimet n\u00ebp\u00ebr \u00e7anta, t\u2019i veshmbath,t\u2019i arg\u00ebtoj,t\u2019i m\u00ebsoj, t\u2019i udh\u00ebheq, dhe t\u00eb ruaj jet\u00ebn e tyre si t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs se tyre nuk besoj se \u00ebsht\u00eb armik po mik besnik.<\/p>\n

Te dashur prind\u00ebr si institucionet parashkollore si m\u00ebsimdh\u00ebnesit kemi nj\u00eb qellim: ta zbukurojm\u00eb jet\u00ebn e k\u00ebtyre vog\u00eblush\u00ebve,tu m\u00ebsojm\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb sa m\u00eb t\u00eb leht\u00eb e me adekuate shprehit\u00eb ,e shktht\u00ebsit jet\u00ebsore,ti ndihmojm\u00eb t\u00eb rrit\u00ebn si njer\u00ebz q\u00eb do din\u00eb t\u00eb respektojn\u00eb tjetrin nes\u00ebr.F\u00ebmij\u00ebt jan\u00eb pasuria m\u00eb e madhe n\u00eb bot\u00eb ,shpresojm\u00eb q\u00eb prind\u00ebrit nj\u00eb dit\u00eb ta kuptojn\u00eb dhe t\u00eb binden\u00a0 q\u00eb m\u00ebsuesit jan\u00eb udh\u00ebrrefyesit e tyre\u00a0 m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre,e jo armiq.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Nga Arlinda Sukaliqi N\u00eb nj\u00eb bised\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebndomt\u00eb dy n\u00ebna q\u00eb po merrnin f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre nga kopshti zhvillojn bised\u00eb\u00a0 rreth f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre\u00a0 se si ato ndjekin kopshti dhe si k\u00ebt\u00eb vit do t\u00eb shkruhen n\u00eb klas\u00ebn e par\u00eb.Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb njer\u00ebs n\u00ebn\u00eb i del f\u00ebmia dhe ajo i drejtohet atij :zemra mamit dole,eja te mami […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":9443,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"","_seopress_titles_title":"","_seopress_titles_desc":"","_seopress_robots_index":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[12],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9442","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-opinione"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9442","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=9442"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9442\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9444,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9442\/revisions\/9444"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/9443"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=9442"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=9442"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=9442"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}