{"id":8080,"date":"2016-03-10T10:02:40","date_gmt":"2016-03-10T09:02:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/?p=8080"},"modified":"2016-03-10T10:03:30","modified_gmt":"2016-03-10T09:03:30","slug":"me-shume-dashuri-respekt-e-vleresim-per-grate","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/?p=8080","title":{"rendered":"M\u00eb shum\u00eb dashuri, respekt e vler\u00ebsim  p\u00ebr grat\u00eb"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em><a href=\"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/gjeke_gjonaj.jpg\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-833\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-833 alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/gjeke_gjonaj-300x278.jpg\" alt=\"gjeke_gjonaj\" width=\"300\" height=\"278\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/gjeke_gjonaj-300x278.jpg 300w, https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/gjeke_gjonaj.jpg 318w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>Shkruan Gjek\u00eb Gjonaj<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Derisa m\u00ebngjesin e t\u00eb martes po kaloja rrug\u00ebs p\u00ebrball\u00eb\u00a0 shkoll\u00ebs s\u00eb mesme\u00a0 n\u00eb Ulqin trotuaret e mbushura me lloj-lloj lulesh e dhuratash\u00a0 m\u00eb soll\u00ebn nd\u00ebrmend fest\u00ebn e 8\u00a0 marsit, dit\u00ebn kur grat\u00eb duhet t\u00eb mendojn\u00eb\u00a0 p\u00ebr vete dhe p\u00ebr grat\u00eb e tjera, t\u00eb reflektojn\u00eb\u00a0 se pa marr\u00eb parasysh se cil\u00ebs kultur\u00eb, nacionalitet i takojn\u00eb, jan\u00eb gra dhe jan\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjta. Simbolika e k\u00ebsaj dite m\u00eb kujton\u00a0 n\u00eb grat\u00eb fisnike e t\u00eb pamposhtura t\u00eb fshatit tim t\u00eb lindjes \u2013 Trieshit, por edhe\u00a0 ato\u00a0 t\u00eb\u00a0 trevave tjera t\u00eb Mal\u00ebsis\u00eb s\u00eb Mbishkodr\u00ebs, t\u00eb cilat shekuj me radh\u00eb u p\u00ebrballuan me\u00a0 ashp\u00ebrsin\u00eb e jet\u00ebs. N\u00eb kremten e Dit\u00ebs Nd\u00ebrkomb\u00ebtare t\u00eb Gruas mu kujtua fakti i hidhur\u00a0\u00a0 se\u00a0 mbi supet e k\u00ebtyre grave t\u00eb r\u00ebndomta\u00a0 fisnike shqiptare ( mal\u00ebsore) mbizot\u00ebroi\u00a0 rob\u00ebria mashkullore, varf\u00ebria p\u00ebr t\u00eb rritur f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, pesha e lot\u00ebve dhe padrejt\u00ebsit\u00eb e shumta. Grat\u00eb e asaj kohe ishin\u00a0 simbol i sakrific\u00ebs dhe p\u00ebrkushtimit n\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb shqiptare q\u00eb ngrit\u00ebn\u00a0 vlerat e edukat\u00ebs n\u00ebp\u00ebr breza. Ishin\u00a0 ato zonja fshatare t\u00eb cilat krahas pun\u00ebve t\u00eb sht\u00ebpis\u00eb punonin pun\u00ebt m\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnda\u00a0 krah p\u00ebr krah me burrat . Ishin ato gra e vajza q\u00eb\u00a0 i binin shatit n\u00eb ar\u00eb nga m\u00ebngjesi\u00a0 deri n\u00eb dark\u00eb. Banin dru e uj\u00eb n\u00eb shpin\u00eb. Kryenin edhe shum\u00eb pun\u00eb tjera t\u00eb r\u00ebnda fizike.\u00a0 N\u00eb k\u00ebto rrethana\u00a0 k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsin\u00eb e k\u00ebsaj feste nuk e ndjenin,\u00a0 nuk e shijonin dhe nuk e p\u00ebrjetonin. Festa e tyre kalonte pa dhurata. Jo pse nuk e meritonin, por sespe i takonim nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebrie tejet patriarkale , ku gruaja \u00ebsht\u00eb trajtuar si\u00e7 thot\u00eb populli \u201c mos o Zot e ma keq\u201d apo \u201c zi e ma zi\u201d dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb shfryt\u00ebzuar n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn m\u00eb mizore ( \u00e7\u2019njer\u00ebzore) , p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos th\u00ebn\u00eb m\u00eb shtazore, njashtu si bag\u00ebtia dhe kafsh\u00eb pune.<br \/>\nN\u00eb rrethana t\u00eb k\u00ebtilla grat\u00eb, n\u00ebnat dhe motrat tona\u00a0\u00a0 k\u00ebnaqeshin\u00a0 me nj\u00eb urim zemre nga bashk\u00ebshorti, f\u00ebmij\u00ebt , v\u00ebllez\u00ebrit apo familjar\u00ebt e tjer\u00eb\u00a0\u00a0 n\u00ebse kujtoheshin.\u00a0 Fatmir\u00ebsisht\u00a0 grat\u00eb shqiptare\u00a0 si\u00a0\u00a0 gur t\u00eb \u00e7muar\u00a0 q\u00eb shndrit\u00ebn shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb shqiptare nuk u dor\u00ebzuan n\u00eb asnj\u00eb \u00e7ast para sfidave q\u00eb ua imponoi tirania e jet\u00ebs, duke e ruajtur dinjitetin dhe krenarin\u00eb e tyre p\u00ebrgjat\u00eb viteve. Sot n\u00eb mileniumin e ri\u00a0 grat\u00eb shqiptare p\u00ebr dallim nga ajo koh\u00eb e pakoh\u00eb\u00a0 kan\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb respekt, m\u00eb shum\u00eb kujdes, m\u00eb shum\u00eb liri, m\u00eb shum\u00eb\u00a0 vlera, m\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb drejta. Roli i saj\u00a0 \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb i madh n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri, ndon\u00ebse\u00a0\u00a0 ndihet\u00a0 realiteti i dhimbsh\u00ebm\u00a0 i nj\u00eb patriarkalizmi q\u00eb ende dep\u00ebrton dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb i pranish\u00ebm\u00a0 n\u00eb venat e shoq\u00ebris\u00eb shqiptare, sikurse\u00a0 edhe paragjykimet. N\u00ebse grat\u00eb shqiptare d\u00ebshirojn\u00eb t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb barabarta\u00a0 duhet n\u00eb rend t\u00eb par\u00eb t\u00eb angazhohen m\u00eb shum\u00eb dhe seriozisht n\u00eb fuqizimin e tyre intelektual, n\u00eb\u00a0 aft\u00ebsimin profesional, t\u00eb mb\u00ebshtet\u00ebn n\u00eb vlera morale dhe njer\u00ebzore p\u00ebr arritjen e synimeve t\u00eb tyre,\u00a0 ta ngrisin z\u00ebrin e tyre kund\u00ebr dhun\u00ebs,diskriminimit\u00a0 e padrejt\u00ebsive tjera q\u00eb u b\u00ebhen edhe n\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb\u00a0 postmoderne.<\/p>\n<p>Ne shqiptar\u00ebt kudo q\u00eb ndodhemi\u00a0\u00a0 n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb dit\u00eb t\u00eb bekuar p\u00ebr k\u00ebto burrnesha\u00a0\u00a0 duhet t\u00eb krenohemi p\u00ebr virtytet dhe vlerat e tyre q\u00eb\u00a0 nga mbret\u00ebresha Teut\u00eb e cila sundoi n\u00eb vitet 230-228 para epok\u00ebs s\u00eb re, Mamica, motra e vog\u00ebl e kryetrimit ton\u00eb komb\u00ebtar, Gjergj Kastriotit- Sk\u00ebnderbeut, e madhja e Rilindjes son\u00eb Komb\u00ebtare\u00a0\u00a0 Elena Gjika, nobelistja shqiptare, humainstja m\u00eb e madhe\u00a0 e njer\u00ebzimit N\u00ebn\u00eb Tereza\u00a0 dhe\u00a0\u00a0 Shot\u00eb Galica, simboli i q\u00ebndres\u00ebs s\u00eb femr\u00ebs shqiptare e deri tek figurat m\u00eb t\u00eb ndritura q\u00eb p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsojn\u00eb femr\u00ebn n\u00ebp\u00ebr t\u00eb gjitha\u00a0 fushat e jet\u00ebs politike, kulturore, shkencore, arsimore,\u00a0 administrative e struktura t\u00eb tjera t\u00eb larta shtet\u00ebrore e\u00a0 nd\u00ebrkomb\u00ebtare.<\/p>\n<p>Grat\u00eb dhe vajzat shqiptare e ken\u00eb merituar dhe e meritojn\u00eb respektin e shoq\u00ebris\u00eb. Ato nuk k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb\u00a0 t\u2019u falet asgj\u00eb, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 respektit dhe vendit q\u00eb\u00a0 e meritojn\u00eb. K\u00ebrkojn\u00eb sepse kan\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00eb, t\u2019u mund\u00ebsohet dhe t\u2019u lejohet t\u00eb d\u00ebshmojn\u00eb af\u00ebt\u00ebsit\u00eb e veta. Barazia gjinore nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb l\u00ebmosh\u00eb. Ashtu sikurse edhe ne burrat, edhe grat\u00eb jan\u00eb nga i nj\u00ebjti brum\u00eb: mish, gjak e kock\u00eb. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb dit\u00eb kremteje\u00a0 grat\u00eb k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb dhe presin nga ne meshkujt pak nderim, pak kujdes dhe m\u00eb shum\u00eb dashuri p\u00ebr to. K\u00ebrkojn\u00eb\u00a0 respekt p\u00ebr vlerat q\u00eb p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsojn\u00eb si gra, si n\u00ebna dhe si intelektuale e profesioniste t\u00eb afta.\u00a0 Duan m\u00eb shum\u00eb\u00a0 se nj\u00eb lule apo\u00a0 nj\u00eb dhurat\u00eb modeste, edhe pse 8 Marsi \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht dit\u00eb lulesh. Ato v\u00ebrtet\u00eb e meritojn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Shkruan Gjek\u00eb Gjonaj Derisa m\u00ebngjesin e t\u00eb martes po kaloja rrug\u00ebs p\u00ebrball\u00eb\u00a0 shkoll\u00ebs s\u00eb mesme\u00a0 n\u00eb Ulqin trotuaret e mbushura me lloj-lloj lulesh e dhuratash\u00a0 m\u00eb soll\u00ebn nd\u00ebrmend fest\u00ebn e 8\u00a0 marsit, dit\u00ebn kur grat\u00eb duhet t\u00eb mendojn\u00eb\u00a0 p\u00ebr vete dhe p\u00ebr grat\u00eb e tjera, t\u00eb reflektojn\u00eb\u00a0 se pa marr\u00eb parasysh se cil\u00ebs kultur\u00eb, nacionalitet [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":833,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"","_seopress_titles_title":"","_seopress_titles_desc":"","_seopress_robots_index":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[12],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8080","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-opinione"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8080","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=8080"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8080\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8081,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8080\/revisions\/8081"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/833"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=8080"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=8080"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=8080"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}