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Nga ALBINA OSMANI-MARKASHEVIQ<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00eb nderuar t\u00eb pranish\u00ebm, t\u00eb dashur miq dhe familjar\u00eb,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sonte, me shum\u00eb emocion, mall dhe krenari, q\u00ebndroj para jush n\u00eb em\u00ebr t\u00eb familjes sime, si vajza m\u00eb e madhe, p\u00ebr t\u00eb kujtuar dhe nderuar baban\u00eb ton\u00eb t\u00eb shtrenjt\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ka kaluar nj\u00eb vit nga ndarja jon\u00eb me t\u00eb. Nj\u00eb vit q\u00eb na ka treguar sa e madhe \u00ebsht\u00eb mungesa e njeriut q\u00eb ishte shtylla, forca dhe mb\u00ebshtetja e familjes son\u00eb. Nj\u00eb vit me dit\u00eb t\u00eb mbushura me mall, me kujtime q\u00eb na ngrohin zemr\u00ebn dhe me nj\u00eb boshll\u00ebk q\u00eb asgj\u00eb nuk mund ta mbush\u00eb. Koha ec\u00ebn, por malli dhe dashuria p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbeten t\u00eb pandryshuara.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ai ishte shum\u00eb m\u00eb tep\u00ebr se nj\u00eb baba. Ishte streha jon\u00eb, siguria jon\u00eb dhe burimi i nj\u00eb dashurie t\u00eb pakufishme. Na dhuroi nj\u00eb bot\u00eb t\u00eb pasur shpirt\u00ebrore, na edukoi me ndershm\u00ebri, dinjitet dhe dashuri p\u00ebr njer\u00ebzit. Na la vlera q\u00eb jan\u00eb pasuria jon\u00eb m\u00eb e \u00e7muar dhe q\u00eb do t\u00eb na udh\u00ebheqin gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ai ishte nj\u00eb personalitet i ve\u00e7ant\u00eb, intelektual, sociolog dhe publicist, por, mbi t\u00eb gjitha, nj\u00eb njeri me shpirt t\u00eb madh, zem\u00ebr bujare dhe fisnik\u00ebri t\u00eb rrall\u00eb. Njeri i bes\u00ebs, i ndershm\u00ebris\u00eb dhe i parimeve t\u00eb pal\u00ebkundura, me karakter t\u00eb fort\u00eb dhe dinjitet q\u00eb nuk e p\u00ebrkuli asnj\u00eb rrethan\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ai e dinte se fjala ka pesh\u00eb, se mendimi ka p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi dhe se shkrimi \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019i l\u00ebn\u00eb gjurm\u00eb koh\u00ebs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dhe ndoshta kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nga ngush\u00ebllimet m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdha q\u00eb mund t\u00eb kemi: njeriu mund t\u00eb largohet nga kjo bot\u00eb, por nuk largohet nga jeta e atyre q\u00eb e kan\u00eb dashur dhe nga kujtesa e atyre q\u00eb e kan\u00eb vler\u00ebsuar. Libri \u201eShkruaj, sepse ekzistoj\u201c \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb e shpirtit dhe mendimit t\u00eb tij, q\u00eb sot b\u00ebhet pjes\u00eb e kujtes\u00ebs son\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb moment t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb, n\u00eb em\u00ebr t\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00ebs sime, Suad\u00ebs, motrave t\u00eb mia, Valdetes dhe Rinit\u00ebs, hall\u00ebs Shpresa, nipave, mbesave dhe gjith\u00eb familjes, ju shpreh mir\u00ebnjohjen m\u00eb t\u00eb sinqert\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb atyre q\u00eb u angazhuan me p\u00ebrkushtim dhe dashamir\u00ebsi p\u00ebr p\u00ebrgatitjen dhe botimin e k\u00ebsaj vepre: dr. Nail Draga, n\u00eb cil\u00ebsin\u00eb e redaktorit; Ali Salaj, si recensent; Esat Mehmeti, si lektor; dhe Gazmend \u00c7itaku, si redaktor teknik.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ju nuk jeni vet\u00ebm miq t\u00eb tij, por edhe bashkudh\u00ebtar\u00eb n\u00eb rrug\u00ebtimin intelektual, njer\u00ebz me t\u00eb cil\u00ebt ka ndar\u00eb mendime, ide, p\u00ebrvoja dhe vlera njer\u00ebzore.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kontributi dhe bashk\u00ebpunimi juaj n\u00eb p\u00ebrgatitjen e k\u00ebtij libri jan\u00eb d\u00ebshmi e miq\u00ebsis\u00eb s\u00eb sinqert\u00eb, e respektit t\u00eb nd\u00ebrsjell\u00eb dhe e dashuris\u00eb p\u00ebr dijen dhe kultur\u00ebn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fal\u00ebnderimi shkon edhe p\u00ebr organizator\u00ebt e k\u00ebsaj mbr\u00ebmjeje, Qendr\u00ebn p\u00ebr Kultur\u00eb, n\u00eb krye me drejtoresh\u00ebn Adriana Hoxha, p\u00ebr p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsuesit e mediave dhe p\u00ebr secilin prej jush q\u00eb, me pranin\u00eb dhe respektin tuaj, po nderoni kujtimin e babait ton\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dhe tani, dua t\u2019i drejtohem babait tim\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Babi im i dashur,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nuk e di n\u00ebse ka nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019ia treguar nj\u00eb babai, edhe pas largimit t\u00eb tij, se sa shum\u00eb e duan vajzat e veta. Por, n\u00ebse dashuria mund t\u00eb d\u00ebgjohet p\u00ebrtej heshtjes, at\u00ebher\u00eb dua ta dish se ne t\u00eb duam sot po aq sa dje dhe do t\u00eb t\u00eb duam n\u00eb \u00e7do dit\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u00eb vij\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ti nuk je m\u00eb mes nesh si dikur, por je n\u00eb secil\u00ebn prej nesh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Je n\u00eb kujtimet tona, n\u00eb edukat\u00ebn q\u00eb na dhe, n\u00eb fjal\u00ebt q\u00eb na m\u00ebsove, n\u00eb vlerat q\u00eb na le dhe n\u00eb krenarin\u00eb q\u00eb ndiejm\u00eb kur p\u00ebrmendim emrin t\u00ebnd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sonte nuk po themi lamtumir\u00eb\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sonte po themi se ti vazhdon t\u00eb ekzistosh n\u00eb nj\u00eb form\u00eb tjet\u00ebr: n\u00eb familjen t\u00ebnde, n\u00eb shkrimet e tua, n\u00eb librat e tu dhe n\u00eb kujtes\u00ebn e njer\u00ebzve.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Na mungojn\u00eb z\u00ebri yt, era jote, k\u00ebshilla jote, prania jote dhe dashuria e pafund q\u00eb na fale. Na mungon ajo siguri q\u00eb vet\u00ebm ti dije t\u00eb na e jepje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Babi, ti nuk na le vet\u00ebm kujtime. Na le dashurin\u00eb, bes\u00ebn, dinjitetin, ndershm\u00ebrin\u00eb dhe shembullin e nj\u00eb njeriu q\u00eb q\u00ebndroi i pal\u00ebkundur n\u00eb parimet e tij, pavar\u00ebsisht v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsive. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb trash\u00ebgimia jote m\u00eb e madhe dhe ne do ta ruajm\u00eb me krenari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ne duam t\u00eb jemi shembull, ashtu si\u00e7 ishe ti p\u00ebr ne. Duam q\u00eb, kur t\u00eb na shohin t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, t\u00eb njohin tek ne vlerat q\u00eb na ke trash\u00ebguar dhe t\u00eb kuptojn\u00eb se forca jote vazhdon t\u00eb jetoj\u00eb p\u00ebrmes nesh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pusho i qet\u00eb, babi im i dashur!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ne do t\u00eb vazhdojm\u00eb t\u00eb flasim p\u00ebr ty. Sepse, p\u00ebr sa koh\u00eb q\u00eb emri yt shqiptohet me dashuri, ti do t\u00eb jesh gjithmon\u00eb mes nesh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ti do t\u00eb jetosh n\u00eb \u00e7do hap tonin, n\u00eb \u00e7do sukses, n\u00eb \u00e7do p\u00ebrqafim t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve tan\u00eb dhe n\u00eb \u00e7do faqe t\u00eb librave.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Qoft\u00eb i p\u00ebrjetsh\u00ebm kujtimi yt, babi yn\u00eb i shtrenjt\u00eb!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00eb duam pafund, babi. Dhe, sa t\u00eb kemi jet\u00eb, do t\u00eb jemi krenare q\u00eb jemi vajzat e tua!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ju fal\u00ebnderoj nga zemra!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nga ALBINA OSMANI-MARKASHEVIQ T\u00eb nderuar t\u00eb pranish\u00ebm, t\u00eb dashur miq dhe familjar\u00eb, Sonte, me shum\u00eb emocion, mall dhe krenari, q\u00ebndroj para jush n\u00eb em\u00ebr t\u00eb familjes sime, si vajza m\u00eb e madhe, p\u00ebr t\u00eb kujtuar dhe nderuar baban\u00eb ton\u00eb t\u00eb shtrenjt\u00eb. Ka kaluar nj\u00eb vit nga ndarja jon\u00eb me t\u00eb. Nj\u00eb vit q\u00eb na ka […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":41900,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2,12],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-41899","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aktualitet","category-opinione"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/41899","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=41899"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/41899\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":41901,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/41899\/revisions\/41901"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/41900"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=41899"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=41899"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=41899"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}