{"id":41854,"date":"2026-10-10T07:50:47","date_gmt":"2026-10-10T05:50:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/?p=41854"},"modified":"2026-10-10T07:52:05","modified_gmt":"2026-10-10T05:52:05","slug":"gjysherit-shtylla-e-heshtur-e-familjes-shqiptare-ne-malin-e-zi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/?p=41854","title":{"rendered":"Gjysh\u00ebrit – shtylla e heshtur e familjes shqiptare n\u00eb Malin e Zi"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Nga Gjek\u00eb Gjonaj<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u00eb 2 tetor sh\u00ebnohet Dita e Gjysh\u00ebrve, nj\u00eb dit\u00eb q\u00eb na fton t\u00eb ndalemi dhe t\u00eb mendojm\u00eb p\u00ebr njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb kan\u00eb nj\u00eb vend t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e \u00e7do familjeje. Gjysh\u00ebrit jan\u00eb nd\u00ebr njer\u00ebzit m\u00eb t\u00eb dashur t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebris\u00eb son\u00eb, por edhe bart\u00ebs t\u00eb nj\u00eb pasurie t\u00eb \u00e7muar: p\u00ebrvoj\u00ebs, kujtimeve, traditave dhe vlerave q\u00eb p\u00ebrcillen nga nj\u00eb brez te tjetri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

P\u00ebr shum\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb, kujtimet e hershme lidhen me tregimet para gjumit, loj\u00ebrat, p\u00ebrk\u00ebdheljet, k\u00ebshillat dhe ngroht\u00ebsin\u00eb e gjysh\u00ebrve. Jan\u00eb kujtime q\u00eb nuk zbehen me kalimin e viteve dhe q\u00eb shpesh b\u00ebhen pjes\u00eb e historis\u00eb s\u00eb familjes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cHeronjt\u00eb e heshtur\u201d t\u00eb familjes<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb e sotme, ku ritmi i jet\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb gjithnj\u00eb e m\u00eb i shpejt\u00eb dhe prind\u00ebrit p\u00ebrballen me angazhime t\u00eb shumta, roli i gjysh\u00ebrve ka nj\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb. Kjo vihet re edhe n\u00eb familjet shqiptare n\u00eb Malin e Zi, ku solidariteti nd\u00ebrmjet brezave vazhdon t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb vler\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jan\u00eb shpesh gjysh\u00ebrit ata q\u00eb i \u00e7ojn\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb dhe i marrin pas m\u00ebsimit, u p\u00ebrgatisin ushqimin, kujdesen p\u00ebr ta kur prind\u00ebrit jan\u00eb n\u00eb pun\u00eb dhe u q\u00ebndrojn\u00eb pran\u00eb n\u00eb dit\u00ebt kur jan\u00eb t\u00eb s\u00ebmur\u00eb. Ata ndihmojn\u00eb n\u00eb detyrat e shkoll\u00ebs, n\u00eb p\u00ebrditshm\u00ebrin\u00eb familjare dhe n\u00eb krijimin e nj\u00eb mjedisi t\u00eb sigurt p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

K\u00ebt\u00eb e b\u00ebjn\u00eb n\u00eb heshtje, pa buj\u00eb dhe pa k\u00ebrkuar shp\u00ebrblim. Prandaj mund t\u00eb quhen me t\u00eb drejt\u00eb \u201cheronjt\u00eb e heshtur\u201d t\u00eb shum\u00eb familjeve.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ruajt\u00ebs t\u00eb kujtes\u00ebs dhe t\u00eb tradit\u00ebs<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Roli i gjysh\u00ebrve nuk kufizohet vet\u00ebm te kujdesi p\u00ebr nip\u00ebrit dhe mbesat. Ata jan\u00eb nj\u00eb ur\u00eb nd\u00ebrmjet s\u00eb kaluar\u00ebs dhe s\u00eb ardhmes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet tyre, f\u00ebmij\u00ebt m\u00ebsojn\u00eb p\u00ebr historin\u00eb e familjes, vendlindjen e t\u00eb par\u00ebve, zakonet, k\u00ebng\u00ebt, m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn e jetes\u00ebs dhe vlerat q\u00eb kan\u00eb shoq\u00ebruar brezat e m\u00ebparsh\u00ebm. Nj\u00eb histori e treguar nga gjyshi, nj\u00eb recet\u00eb e trash\u00ebguar nga gjyshja, nj\u00eb k\u00ebng\u00eb e vjet\u00ebr apo nj\u00eb fotografi familjare mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb e vog\u00ebl, por e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme, e identitetit t\u00eb nj\u00eb f\u00ebmije.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kjo merr nj\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb p\u00ebr familjet shqiptare n\u00eb Malin e Zi. N\u00eb nj\u00eb koh\u00eb kur ndryshimet shoq\u00ebrore dhe teknologjike jan\u00eb t\u00eb shpejta, gjysh\u00ebrit mbeten nd\u00ebr bart\u00ebsit m\u00eb t\u00eb drejtp\u00ebrdrejt\u00eb t\u00eb gjuh\u00ebs, tradit\u00ebs dhe kujtes\u00ebs familjare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nj\u00eb lidhje q\u00eb forcon familjen<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia nd\u00ebrmjet gjysh\u00ebrve dhe nip\u00ebrve \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb shk\u00ebmbim i nd\u00ebrsjell\u00eb dashurie. F\u00ebmij\u00ebt marrin prej tyre kujdes, p\u00ebrvoj\u00eb dhe siguri, nd\u00ebrsa gjysh\u00ebrit marrin nga nip\u00ebrit e mbesat gjall\u00ebri, g\u00ebzim dhe ndjenj\u00ebn e vazhdim\u00ebsis\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nj\u00eb vizit\u00eb, nj\u00eb telefonat\u00eb apo nj\u00eb bised\u00eb e thjesht\u00eb mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb nj\u00eb vler\u00eb t\u00eb madhe. N\u00eb  nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri ku shpesh njer\u00ebzit jan\u00eb t\u00eb z\u00ebn\u00eb dhe koha p\u00ebr familjen b\u00ebhet gjithnj\u00eb e m\u00eb e kufizuar, k\u00ebto momente marrin nj\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00eb jesh pran\u00eb gjysh\u00ebrve do t\u00eb thot\u00eb jo vet\u00ebm t’u jap\u00ebsh atyre dashuri, por edhe t\u00eb ruash nj\u00eb lidhje me historin\u00eb t\u00ebnde familjare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nj\u00eb pasuri p\u00ebr komunitetin<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kontributi i gjysh\u00ebrve nuk mbetet vet\u00ebm brenda familjes. Nj\u00eb brez q\u00eb ruan kujtes\u00ebn, gjuh\u00ebn, traditat dhe zakonet \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb pasuri edhe p\u00ebr komunitetin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

P\u00ebr komunitetin shqiptar n\u00eb Malin e Zi, kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme. Ruajtja e identitetit kulturor nuk b\u00ebhet vet\u00ebm p\u00ebrmes institucioneve, por edhe p\u00ebrmes familjes dhe komunikimit t\u00eb p\u00ebrditsh\u00ebm nd\u00ebrmjet brezave. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb proces, gjysh\u00ebrit kan\u00eb nj\u00eb rol t\u00eb paz\u00ebvend\u00ebsuesh\u00ebm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mir\u00ebnjohja duhet t\u00eb shprehet edhe n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dita e Gjysh\u00ebrve mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb mund\u00ebsi e mir\u00eb edhe p\u00ebr institucionet arsimore me m\u00ebsim n\u00eb gjuh\u00ebn shqipe n\u00eb Malin e Zi. N\u00eb kuad\u00ebr t\u00eb veprimtarive shkollore mund t\u00eb organizohen takime me gjysh\u00ebrit, or\u00eb letrare, ekspozita, intervista dhe aktivitete kushtuar kujtes\u00ebs familjare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nx\u00ebn\u00ebsit mund t\u00eb mbledhin prej gjysh\u00ebrve rr\u00ebfime p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn dikur, fotografi, k\u00ebng\u00eb, fjal\u00eb e shprehje t\u00eb vjetra, receta tradicionale dhe kujtime nga vendlindja. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb, shkolla do t\u00eb b\u00ebhej jo vet\u00ebm vend i m\u00ebsimit, por edhe nj\u00eb hap\u00ebsir\u00eb ku kujtesa e brezave takohet me brezin e ri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nj\u00eb aktivitet i till\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb ishte vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb shenj\u00eb respekti p\u00ebr gjysh\u00ebrit.Ai do t\u2019u mund\u00ebsonte f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb njihnin m\u00eb mire rr\u00ebnj\u00ebt e tyre dhe t\u00eb kuptonin r\u00ebnd\u00ebsin\u00eb e eruajtjes s\u00eb gjuh\u00ebs, tradit\u00ebs dhe kujtes\u00ebsfamiljare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00eb mos presim vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb dit\u00eb p\u00ebr t’i fal\u00ebnderuar<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dita e Gjysh\u00ebrve \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb rast i bukur p\u00ebr nj\u00eb p\u00ebrqafim, nj\u00eb lule, nj\u00eb vizit\u00eb apo disa \u00e7aste t\u00eb kaluar s\u00eb bashku. Por mir\u00ebnjohja nuk duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb ritual i 2 tetorit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gjysh\u00ebrit meritojn\u00eb  respekt dhe vemendje  gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb vitit. Ata kan\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb dhe vazhdojn\u00eb t\u00eb japin  shum\u00eb p\u00ebr familjet e tyre , shpesh n\u00eb heshtje dhe pa k\u00ebrkuar shp\u00ebrblim. N\u00eb shum,\u00eb raste ajo q\u00eb p\u00ebr ta \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb veprim i zakonsh\u00ebm i p\u00ebrditshm\u00ebris\u00eb p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt dhe nip\u00ebrit e tyre mbetet nj\u00eb kujtim I paz\u00ebvend\u00ebsuiesh\u00ebm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Duhet t’i vizitojm\u00eb sa i kemi pran\u00eb, t’i d\u00ebgjojm\u00eb sa kan\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb na  tregojn\u00eb dhe t’i pyesim p\u00ebr gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb ndoshta nuk kemi menduar t’i pyesim m\u00eb par\u00eb. Sepse koha nuk kthehet pas  dhe shum\u00eb pyetje mbeten pa p\u00ebrgjigje  kur njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb mund t\u2019u p\u00ebrgjigjeeshin nuk jan\u00eb m\u00eb pran\u00eb nesh<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trash\u00ebgimia q\u00eb jeton p\u00ebrtej nesh<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00eb fund, ajo q\u00eb gjysh\u00ebrit na l\u00ebn\u00eb nuk matet vet\u00ebm me or\u00ebt e kujdesit p\u00ebr nip\u00ebrit, me ndihm\u00ebn n\u00eb p\u00ebrditshm\u00ebri apo me dhuratat q\u00eb u kan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb. Trash\u00ebgimia e tyre \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb e madhe: \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00ebnyra se si na kan\u00eb m\u00ebsuar t\u00eb duam, t\u00eb respektojm\u00eb, t\u00eb kujtojm\u00eb dhe t\u00eb mos harrojm\u00eb prej nga vijm\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ata jan\u00eb lidhja jon\u00eb me nj\u00eb koh\u00eb q\u00eb nuk kthehet m\u00eb, por q\u00eb mund t\u00eb jetoj\u00eb p\u00ebrmes nesh.Prandaj, t’i nderosh gjysh\u00ebrit nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb vet\u00ebm t’u dhurosh nj\u00eb lule n\u00eb Dit\u00ebn e Gjysh\u00ebrve. Do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb ruash fjal\u00ebt e tyre, t\u00eb mos harrosh rr\u00ebfimet e tyre, t\u00eb respektosh sakrificat e tyre dhe t’ua p\u00ebrcjell\u00ebsh brezave t\u00eb ardhsh\u00ebm at\u00eb q\u00eb ata na lan\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kur nj\u00eb gjysh apo gjyshe largohet nga kjo jet\u00eb, nuk humbet vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb njeri i dashur. Humbet nj\u00eb bibliotek\u00eb e t\u00ebr\u00eb kujtimesh, p\u00ebrvojash dhe historish. Ndaj, sa jan\u00eb mes nesh, le t’i d\u00ebgjojm\u00eb. Sa mund t’i p\u00ebrqafojm\u00eb, le t’i p\u00ebrqafojm\u00eb. Dhe sa mund t’u themi \u201cfaleminderit\u201d, t\u00eb mos e l\u00ebm\u00eb p\u00ebr nes\u00ebr. Nj\u00eb dit\u00eb mund t\u00eb na mbeten vet\u00ebm kujtimet e tyre, nd\u00ebrsa fjal\u00ebt, kujtimet dhe dashuria q\u00eb na kan\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb do t\u00eb vazhdojn\u00ebtek ne.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Nga Gjek\u00eb Gjonaj M\u00eb 2 tetor sh\u00ebnohet Dita e Gjysh\u00ebrve, nj\u00eb dit\u00eb q\u00eb na fton t\u00eb ndalemi dhe t\u00eb mendojm\u00eb p\u00ebr njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb kan\u00eb nj\u00eb vend t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e \u00e7do familjeje. Gjysh\u00ebrit jan\u00eb nd\u00ebr njer\u00ebzit m\u00eb t\u00eb dashur t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebris\u00eb son\u00eb, por edhe bart\u00ebs t\u00eb nj\u00eb pasurie t\u00eb \u00e7muar: p\u00ebrvoj\u00ebs, kujtimeve, traditave dhe […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":31168,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_seopress_titles_title":"%%post_title%% %%sep%% %%sitetitle%%","_seopress_titles_desc":"","_seopress_robots_index":"","_seopress_robots_follow":"","_seopress_robots_imageindex":"","_seopress_robots_snippet":"","_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"","_seopress_robots_breadcrumbs":"","_seopress_robots_freeze_modified_date":"","_seopress_robots_custom_modified_date":"","_seopress_robots_canonical":"","_seopress_social_fb_title":"","_seopress_social_fb_desc":"","_seopress_social_fb_img":"","_seopress_social_fb_img_attachment_id":0,"_seopress_social_fb_img_width":0,"_seopress_social_fb_img_height":0,"_seopress_social_twitter_title":"","_seopress_social_twitter_desc":"","_seopress_social_twitter_img":"","_seopress_social_twitter_img_attachment_id":0,"_seopress_social_twitter_img_width":0,"_seopress_social_twitter_img_height":0,"_seopress_redirections_value":"","_seopress_redirections_enabled":"","_seopress_redirections_enabled_regex":"","_seopress_redirections_logged_status":"","_seopress_redirections_param":"","_seopress_redirections_type":0,"_seopress_analysis_target_kw":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[2,12],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-41854","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aktualitet","category-opinione"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/41854","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=41854"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/41854\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":41856,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/41854\/revisions\/41856"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/31168"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=41854"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=41854"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=41854"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}