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Qendra Memoriale Bergen-Belsen, ver\u00eb 1976, Foto-S.Dollaku<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gjaku dhe pushteti jan\u00eb deh\u00ebse… kthimi i dinjitetit njer\u00ebzor, pendimi dhe rigjenerimi b\u00ebhen pothuajse t\u00eb pamundura.\u201d \u2014 Fjodor Dostojevski; Sht\u00ebpia e t\u00eb Vdekurve<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nga Sado Dollaku<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00eb ver\u00ebn e vitit 1976, qeveria e Gjermanis\u00eb Per\u00ebndimore organizoi nj\u00eb udh\u00ebtim studimor p\u00ebr maturant\u00ebt e shkollave t\u00eb mesme, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt ishin t\u00eb shk\u00eblqyer n\u00eb njohurit\u00eb e tyre t\u00eb gjuh\u00ebs gjermane. At\u00eb vit, mor\u00ebn pjes\u00eb p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsues nga 27 vende; ishim tet\u00eb nga Jugosllavia. Ishte nj\u00eb mund\u00ebsi e jasht\u00ebzakonshme p\u00ebr t’iu bashkuar klasave t\u00eb rregullta t\u00eb bashk\u00ebmoshatar\u00ebve tan\u00eb gjerman\u00eb n\u00eb Celle p\u00ebr disa jav\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Shk\u00ebmbimi u plot\u00ebsua me ekskursione t\u00eb organizuara nga P\u00e4dagogischer Austauschdienst (PAD) si pjes\u00eb e nj\u00eb programi kulturor dhe informativ.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nj\u00eb nga ato udh\u00ebtime ishte nj\u00eb vizit\u00eb n\u00eb Bergen-Belsen, nj\u00eb ish-kamp p\u00ebrqendrimi, sot nj\u00eb qend\u00ebr p\u00ebrkujtimore nj\u00ebzet kilometra larg Celle (foto 1). \u00cbsht\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrshkruash ndjenj\u00ebn q\u00eb t\u00eb pushton kur ec\u00ebn n\u00eb heshtje pran\u00eb tumave t\u00eb varreve t\u00eb mbuluara me shqop\u00eb, mbi t\u00eb cilat shkruhet vet\u00ebm: “Hier ruhen 5000 Tote” – k\u00ebtu prehen 5000 t\u00eb vdekur. Ka m\u00eb shum\u00eb tuma. Rreth pes\u00ebdhjet\u00eb mij\u00eb njer\u00ebz vdiq\u00ebn n\u00eb Bergen-Belsen, dhe nj\u00ebzet mij\u00eb t\u00eb burgosur t\u00eb tjer\u00eb sovjetik\u00eb n\u00eb kampin aty pran\u00eb. Midis tyre ishte Ana Frank, e cila vdiq nga tifoja n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn pes\u00ebmb\u00ebdhjet\u00eb vje\u00e7are, disa jav\u00eb para se britanik\u00ebt t\u00eb \u00e7lironin kampin. Ata ishin njer\u00ebz q\u00eb ishin paracaktuar dhe d\u00ebnuar me vdekje nga urrejtja kolektive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bergen-Belsen nuk kishte dhoma gazi. Kjo e b\u00ebn at\u00eb edhe m\u00eb t\u00eb tmerrshme: ishte ndalesa e fundit n\u00eb marshimet e vdekjes nga Aushvici dhe kampet n\u00eb lindje n\u00eb dimrin e viteve 1944\u201345 – t\u00eb mbipopulluara, pa ushqim, uj\u00eb apo ila\u00e7e, me tifo q\u00eb vret mij\u00ebra njer\u00ebz \u00e7do jav\u00eb. Asnj\u00eb teknologji nuk ishte e nevojshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb vrar\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mjaftoi vendimi p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos i konsideruar njer\u00ebzit si njer\u00ebz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

At\u00eb ver\u00eb d\u00ebgjova p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb nga bashk\u00ebmoshatar\u00ebt e mi gjerman\u00eb fjal\u00ebt q\u00eb i p\u00ebrs\u00ebrisnin me k\u00ebmb\u00ebngulje: -Nie wieder! Kurr\u00eb m\u00eb!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pas k\u00ebtyre dy fjal\u00ebve q\u00ebndronte nj\u00eb luft\u00eb e t\u00ebr\u00eb. Pas vitit 1945, gjerman\u00ebt duhej t\u00eb pranonin se baballar\u00ebt dhe gjysh\u00ebrit e tyre dinin p\u00ebr krimet, ose mor\u00ebn pjes\u00eb n\u00eb to, dhe pothuajse askush nuk rezistoi. Dekada e par\u00eb e p\u00ebrfshiu n\u00ebn qilim; heshtja ishte m\u00ebnyra p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbijetuar. Por brezi i lindur pas luft\u00ebs nuk pranoi t\u00eb heshtte. N\u00eb vitet 1960, ajo u b\u00ebri prind\u00ebrve pyetjen q\u00eb ata nuk donin ta d\u00ebgjonin – Ku ishe? \u2014 dhe nga ai konflikt u rrit Gjermania q\u00eb takova n\u00eb vitin 1976: ajo q\u00eb nd\u00ebrton monumente p\u00ebr viktimat, paguan d\u00ebmshp\u00ebrblim dhe ruan pacenueshm\u00ebrin\u00eb e dinjitetit njer\u00ebzor n\u00eb nenin e par\u00eb t\u00eb kushtetut\u00ebs s\u00eb saj.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pajtimi \u2014 me fqinj\u00ebt, me hebrenjt\u00eb, me veten \u2014 nuk ishte fillimi i atij udh\u00ebtimi. Ishte fryti i tij.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por n\u00eb vitin 1976, Gjermania ishte ende e ndar\u00eb dhe qyteti i Berlinit ishte i prer\u00eb nga nj\u00eb mur. Vizita jon\u00eb n\u00eb pjes\u00ebn per\u00ebndimore, t\u00eb cil\u00ebn amerikan\u00ebt, britanik\u00ebt dhe francez\u00ebt e mbanin n\u00eb sektor\u00ebt e tyre p\u00ebrkat\u00ebs, ishte ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht mbres\u00ebl\u00ebn\u00ebse. Fotografia 2 u b\u00eb n\u00eb sektorin francez, n\u00eb skajin e tij \u2014 Fin du secteur fran\u00e7ais, thot\u00eb tabela. N\u00eb mur, n\u00ebn mbishkrimin Diese Schande muss weg! (Ky turp duhet t\u00eb zhduket!), nj\u00eb kuror\u00eb dhe lule t\u00eb fresk\u00ebta p\u00ebr dik\u00eb q\u00eb, duke d\u00ebshiruar liri, u p\u00ebrpoq t\u00eb kalonte n\u00eb an\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr dhe u vra.<\/p>\n\n\n

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Muri i Berlinit, sektori francez, vera e vitit 1976; foto-S.Dollaku<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

K\u00ebtu u binda fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr fuqin\u00eb e gjeopolitik\u00ebs dhe fatkeq\u00ebsin\u00eb q\u00eb mund t’ju ndodh\u00eb n\u00ebse bini n\u00eb an\u00ebn e gabuar t\u00eb murit. Ajo an\u00eb nuk ishte vet\u00ebm gjeografike. Ishte ana ku p\u00ebr vrasjen e nj\u00eb t\u00eb riu ose t\u00eb reje q\u00eb donte t\u00eb kalonte murin, nuk k\u00ebrkohej pendim, por jepeshin dekorata.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebto po i them p\u00ebr varrezat tona masive. Ato nga Lufta e Dyt\u00eb Bot\u00ebrore dhe ato m\u00eb t\u00eb rejat, mbi t\u00eb cilat ende q\u00ebndrojn\u00eb n\u00ebnat q\u00eb qajn\u00eb. K\u00ebt\u00eb e them edhe me rastin e vdekjes s\u00eb Ratko Mlladiqit n\u00eb burgun e Hag\u00ebs dhe me nxitimin me t\u00eb cilin disa nxituan t’i thurin kuror\u00eb lavdie – sikur t\u00eb mos ishte shqiptuar as aktgjykimi p\u00ebr gjenocid, sikur n\u00ebnat nuk q\u00ebndrojn\u00eb aty ku jan\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00eb vitin 1976, gjerman\u00ebt m\u00eb treguan se cila ishte alternativa. Jo nj\u00eb pajtim i firmosur nga politikan\u00ebt, por nj\u00eb pendim q\u00eb askush nuk mund ta n\u00ebnshkruaj\u00eb n\u00eb em\u00ebr t\u00eb tjetrit. Pendimi nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb kategori kolektive. \u00cbsht\u00eb individuale, si eshtrat e atyre q\u00eb shtrihen n\u00eb varrezat masive \u2013 secila \u00ebsht\u00eb e dikujt tjet\u00ebr.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ai q\u00eb refuzon t\u00eb pendohet as nuk mund t\u00eb pajtohet; ai thjesht pret nj\u00eb moment m\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrshtatsh\u00ebm. E nd\u00ebrsa festohet ai q\u00eb dha urdh\u00ebr, n\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u00eb zihet p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb u vra, \u201cNie wieder\u201d mbetet nj\u00eb fjali q\u00eb askush k\u00ebtu nuk e ka shqiptuar ende.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Duart e n\u00ebnave q\u00eb qajn\u00eb na kujtojn\u00eb se rruga drejt shp\u00ebtimit p\u00ebr shpirtrat tan\u00eb nuk \u00e7on n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet pajtimit, ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht jo atij lloji q\u00eb politikan\u00ebt ofrojn\u00eb dhe organizojn\u00eb p\u00ebr ne, por n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet pendimit. Vet\u00ebm pas k\u00ebsaj, pajtimi vjen vetvetiu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

K\u00ebto foto jan\u00eb pes\u00ebdhjet\u00eb vje\u00e7are. Ato dikur ishin kujtimi im privat. Sot, rezulton se jan\u00eb nj\u00eb paralajm\u00ebrim.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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