{"id":41103,"date":"2026-03-08T11:02:03","date_gmt":"2026-03-08T10:02:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/?p=41103"},"modified":"2026-03-08T11:04:20","modified_gmt":"2026-03-08T10:04:20","slug":"vitet-e-mungeses-se-nxenesve-ne-bankat-e-shkolles","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/?p=41103","title":{"rendered":"VITET E MUNGES\u00cbS S\u00cb NX\u00cbN\u00cbSVE N\u00cb BANKAT E SHKOLL\u00cbS"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Nga Haxhi Zeneli<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb kalon koha, aq m\u00eb shpesh kthehemi te kujtimet e f\u00ebmij\u00ebris\u00eb,te hapat e par\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00eb,sidomos te dit\u00ebt e para t\u00eb shkoll\u00ebs.Edhe pse kujtesa mund t\u00eb zbehet me kalimin e viteve, disa gj\u00ebra mbeten t\u00eb skalitura p\u00ebrjet\u00eb n\u00eb mendje.P\u00ebr mua, k\u00ebto jan\u00eb vitet e para t\u00eb shkoll\u00ebs:shkronjat e para t\u00eb shkruara, vjersha e par\u00eb e m\u00ebsuar,shok\u00ebt dhe shoqet e bank\u00ebs, loja n\u00eb oborrin e shkoll\u00ebs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ajo q\u00eb m\u00eb ka mbetur m\u00eb thell\u00eb n\u00eb kujtes\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb pamja e klas\u00ebs s\u00eb par\u00eb dhe fytyrat e shok\u00ebve t\u00eb mi. M\u00eb kujtohen veshjet e tyre t\u00eb thjeshta,strajcat e qepura me dor\u00eb nga n\u00ebnat tona,fletoret dhe librat q\u00eb mbartnim me kujdes,dit\u00ebt me shi e bor\u00eb ku nx\u00ebn\u00ebsit p\u00ebr tu mbrojtur nga shiu,mbuloheshin me thaset e najllonit kur ecnim gjat\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb arritur n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por nj\u00eb dit\u00eb,pa paralajm\u00ebrim,disa prej tyre nis\u00ebn t\u00eb mungonin.M\u00eb von\u00eb kuptova p\u00ebrse:familjet e tyre po largoheshin nga vendlindja.Nuk ishte nj\u00eb vendim i leht\u00eb. N\u00eb sistemin komunist t\u00eb Jugosllavis\u00eb, shqiptar\u00ebt nuk kishin asnj\u00eb mb\u00ebshtetje institucionale,shpesh shiheshin si qytetar\u00eb t\u00eb dor\u00ebs s\u00eb dyt\u00eb.Trajtoheshin si fshatar\u00eb q\u00eb nuk din shum\u00eb t\u00eb paz\u00ebsh\u00ebm,t\u00eb pashkolluar,por q\u00eb as nuk dinin t\u00eb k\u00ebrkonin t\u00eb drejtat e tyre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Duke mos gjetur asnj\u00eb rrug\u00eb tjet\u00ebr p\u00ebr nj\u00eb jet\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb,shum\u00eb familje shqiptare nis\u00ebn rrug\u00ebtimin e m\u00ebrgimit.Ik\u00ebn drejt kampeve t\u00eb refugjat\u00ebve n\u00eb Itali,at\u00eb koh\u00eb si\u00e7 bisedonin njer\u00ebzit m\u00eb i njohuri ishte kampi n\u00eb Latine,pran\u00eb Rom\u00ebs,p\u00ebr t\u2019u sistemuar m\u00eb pas n\u00eb vende t\u00eb tjera t\u00eb bot\u00ebs,si\u00e7 ishte Shtetet e Bashkuara t\u00eb Amerik\u00ebs,Kanadaja,Australija etj.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

K\u00ebto val\u00eb emigrimi,q\u00eb filluan n\u00eb vitet \u201970, p\u00ebrfshin\u00eb fshatra t\u00eb t\u00ebra t\u00eb An\u00ebs s\u00eb Malit t\u00eb komun\u00ebs s\u00eb Ulqinit dhe m\u00eb gjer\u00eb. Edhe shkolla ime e f\u00ebmij\u00ebris\u00eb,n\u00eb fshatin Shtod\u00ebr,filloi ta ndiente boshll\u00ebkun.N\u00eb vitin shkollor 1967\/68, klasa e par\u00eb num\u00ebronte 23 nx\u00ebn\u00ebs dhe gjithsejt n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb ishin afro100 nx\u00ebn\u00ebs nga fshatrat p\u00ebrreth: Lisna-Bore,Fraskanjel dhe Amulli.Por \u00e7do muaj, \u00e7do jav\u00eb, dikush mungonte,p\u00ebrgjithmon\u00eb.Bankat e zbraz\u00ebta nis\u00ebn t\u00eb mbusheshin jo me nx\u00ebn\u00ebs t\u00eb rinj, por me heshtje,zhurmat e nx\u00ebns\u00ebve po shuheshin dalngadal dita dit\u00ebs,numri po binte.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ende i mbaj mend ato dit\u00eb kur humbja e nj\u00eb shoku ishte si humbje e nj\u00eb pjese t\u00eb vetvetes. Ndihesha i m\u00ebrzitur,i zbraz\u00ebt.\u00c7do nx\u00ebn\u00ebs q\u00eb largohej, na merrte me vete nj\u00eb cop\u00eb kujtese, nj\u00eb cop\u00eb g\u00ebzimi. Pa e kuptuar,se ardhmja jon\u00eb q\u00ebndronte e nj\u00ebjt\u00eb:u shkolluam,por s\u2019kishte pun\u00eb p\u00ebr ne shqiptar\u00ebt.Madje,na thoshin se ishim \u201ctepric\u00eb e shkolluar\u201d, nd\u00ebrsa n\u00eb an\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr,me t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtat profile, sillnin njer\u00ebz nga veriu i Malit t\u00eb Zi.Shtypjet filluan t\u00eb shtoheshin ndaj nesh q\u00eb kishim mbaruar studimet n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Rruga e vetme ishte ta ndiqnim po at\u00eb rrug\u00eb q\u00eb bashk\u00ebvendasit e mi nga bankat e shkoll\u00ebs fillore e kishin ndjekur para meje,pa e ditur se edhe neve na priste i nj\u00ebjti fat.Pas pes\u00ebmb\u00ebdhjet\u00eb vjet\u00ebsh,filloj\u00eb vala e nj\u00eb gjenerate t\u00eb re si\u00e7 ishim ne, ti bashkohemi atij kalvari q\u00eb na d\u00ebrgonte n\u00ebp\u00ebr rrug\u00ebt e panjohura p\u00ebr dit\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00ebra, p\u00ebr t\u00eb hyr\u00eb ilegalisht n\u00eb tok\u00ebn e premtuar,po n\u00eb at\u00eb rrug\u00eb e cila edhe sot s\u2019ka t\u00eb ndalur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Para do koh\u00ebsh,Dr.Draga m\u00eb d\u00ebrgoi nj\u00eb flet\u00eb nga libri i m\u00ebsuesit t\u00eb ndjer\u00eb Shefqet Draga, ku ishin t\u00eb renditur emrat e t\u00eb gjith\u00eb nx\u00ebn\u00ebsve t\u00eb klas\u00ebs son\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb fillore dhe m\u00ebsuesit tan\u00eb,Halit Avdiu dhe Ibrahim Cuca,t\u00eb ndjer\u00eb.Me shum\u00eb emocion i lexova ato emra dhe fillova t\u2019i k\u00ebrkoj n\u00eb rrjetet sociale.Disa prej tyre i gjeta,duke ju k\u00ebrkuar shoq\u00ebri,dhe m\u00eb g\u00ebzoi fakti, por edhe u befasova: p\u00ebrsa koh\u00eb kishte kaluar, ata, edhe pse kishin qen\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb 7\u20138 vje\u00e7, nuk i kishin harruar emocionet e para t\u00eb shkoll\u00ebs, duke mbajtur n\u00eb kujtes\u00eb shum\u00eb detaje t\u00eb atyre dit\u00ebve.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u00eb emocionoi fakti se asnj\u00ebri nuk kishte harruar gjuh\u00ebn shqipe, kultur\u00ebn dhe identitetin, edhe pse kishin ardhur f\u00ebmij\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb tok\u00eb t\u00eb huaj.Kjo ndjenj\u00eb e nostalgjis\u00eb p\u00ebr vendin, p\u00ebr tok\u00ebn ku \u201cna ka r\u00ebn\u00eb koka\u201d, nuk shuhet kurr\u00eb. Ajo mbetet pjes\u00eb e qenies son\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Duhet kuptuar se kjo nuk ishte nj\u00eb ikje e d\u00ebshiruar p\u00ebr asnj\u00ebrin prej tyre,ishte nj\u00eb ikje nga pamund\u00ebsia e nj\u00eb jete normale n\u00eb tokat e tyre. Nj\u00eb d\u00ebshmi e dhimbshme e asaj kohe, kur nj\u00eb sistem komunist, n\u00eb thelb antishqiptar, ishte nd\u00ebr t\u00eb pakt\u00ebt q\u00eb jepnin shqiptar\u00ebve pasaporta p\u00ebr t\u2019u larguar nga vendi i tyre, por jo p\u00ebr t\u2019u kthyer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nuk na lan\u00eb t\u00eb rriteshim t\u00eb qet\u00eb n\u00eb tok\u00ebn q\u00eb Zoti na kishte dh\u00ebn\u00eb. Dhe si shum\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00eb,t\u00eb detyruar t\u00eb largohen, mund t\u00eb ikim larg,por askush nuk mund t\u00eb na i marr\u00eb kujtimet e k\u00ebtyre nx\u00ebn\u00ebsve,q\u00eb i rikujtojm\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb me nostalgji.Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe p\u00ebrgjigjja p\u00ebr bashk\u00ebvendasit tan\u00eb,q\u00eb nga vendlindja,na pyesin,pse vijm\u00eb k\u00ebtu?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ne u themi:na sjellin kujtimet e f\u00ebmij\u00ebris\u00eb son\u00eb, bankat e shkoll\u00ebs,shok\u00ebt e klas\u00ebs,\u00ebndrrat e para energjia e m\u00ebsues\u00ebve tan\u00eb.Ato jan\u00eb pjes\u00eb e shpirtit ton\u00eb,do t\u00eb mbeten p\u00ebrjet\u00eb t\u00eb gjalla n\u00eb ne, sepse nuk ka vend n\u00eb bot\u00eb q\u00eb mund t\u2019i z\u00ebvend\u00ebsoj\u00eb.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Nga Haxhi Zeneli Sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb kalon koha, aq m\u00eb shpesh kthehemi te kujtimet e f\u00ebmij\u00ebris\u00eb,te hapat e par\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00eb,sidomos te dit\u00ebt e para t\u00eb shkoll\u00ebs.Edhe pse kujtesa mund t\u00eb zbehet me kalimin e viteve, disa gj\u00ebra mbeten t\u00eb skalitura p\u00ebrjet\u00eb n\u00eb mendje.P\u00ebr mua, k\u00ebto jan\u00eb vitet e para t\u00eb shkoll\u00ebs:shkronjat e para t\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":41106,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"none","_seopress_titles_title":"%%post_title%% %%sep%% %%sitetitle%%","_seopress_titles_desc":"%%post_excerpt%%","_seopress_robots_index":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[2,12],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-41103","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aktualitet","category-opinione"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/41103","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=41103"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/41103\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":41108,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/41103\/revisions\/41108"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/41106"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=41103"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=41103"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=41103"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}