{"id":37865,"date":"2024-08-10T15:38:42","date_gmt":"2024-08-10T13:38:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/?p=37865"},"modified":"2024-08-10T15:39:07","modified_gmt":"2024-08-10T13:39:07","slug":"pjeter-gjeloshaj-nje-femije-i-djallezuar-dhe-nje-sportist-i-dalluar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/?p=37865","title":{"rendered":"Pjet\u00ebr Gjeloshaj, nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb\u00a0\u201di djall\u00ebzuar\u201d\u00a0dhe\u00a0 nj\u00eb sportist i dalluar"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Nj\u00eb shembull suksesi<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gjek\u00eb Gjonaj<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gjat\u00eb p\u00ebrvoj\u00ebs sime  t\u00eb   m\u00ebsimdh\u00ebnies n\u00eb vendlindje  kam pasur  nx\u00ebn\u00ebs me karaktere t\u00eb ndryshme. Secili  n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn e vet ishte i ve\u00e7ant\u00eb.  Nj\u00ebri nd\u00ebr ata ishte edhe  Pjet\u00ebr Gjeloshaj  nga fshati Nikmarash  t\u00eb Trieshit.  Personazhi i k\u00ebtij shkrimi  p\u00ebrve\u00e7se  ka qen\u00eb nx\u00ebn\u00ebsi im  jemi edhe t\u00eb nj\u00eb fshati   (m\u00ebhalle) ) . E njoh q\u00eb n\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebri. E mbaj mend si nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb temperament, duke k\u00ebrcyer, duke b\u00ebrtitur, duke rrotulluar,  duke luajtur , duke  shfaqur shpirtin e tij t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsuar,  t\u00eb pabindur, luftarak, por gjithmon\u00eb  brenda kufijve t\u00eb pranuesh\u00ebm.  T\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebto jan\u00eb karakteristika t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve me t\u00eb cil\u00ebt prind\u00ebrit  dhe m\u00ebsimdh\u00ebn\u00ebsit kan\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb tep\u00ebr p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb dhe p\u00ebr t’u shqet\u00ebsuar se sa f\u00ebmij\u00ebt ( nx\u00ebn\u00ebsit) q\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb qet\u00eb, q\u00eb u p\u00eblqen t\u00eb luajn\u00eb vet\u00ebm dhe q\u00eb ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb praktikisht nuk d\u00ebgjohen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Para s\u00eb gjithash, ky f\u00ebmij\u00eb   me  temperament  shum\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00eb , \u201c rebel\u201d  dhe  tep\u00ebr  i gjall\u00eb ( aktiv) , por  korrekt,  ishte   nj\u00eb sfid\u00eb e madhe p\u00ebr prind\u00ebrit, por edhe p\u00ebr m\u00ebsimdh\u00ebn\u00ebsit e Shkoll\u00ebs Fillore \u201c Gjergj Kastrioti-Sk\u00ebnderbeu\u201d, ku ai p\u00ebrfundoi shkollimin fillor. Kam p\u00ebrshtypjen se truri i tij funksionon m\u00eb shpejt, imagjinata e tij \u00ebsht\u00eb  m\u00eb  e gjer\u00eb dhe sjellja e tij  pasqyron at\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00eb f\u00ebmije  me q\u00ebndrim. Ishte nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb e m\u00eb von\u00eb edhe djalosh  q\u00eb do t\u00eb provoj\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka vet\u00eb, veprim  ky q\u00eb  shpesh nervozonte edhe prind\u00ebrit edhe m\u00ebsimdh\u00ebn\u00ebsit. Ai nuk k\u00ebnaqej kurr\u00eb  me nj\u00eb ndalim q\u00eb i vendosnim, n\u00ebse nuk ia kemi  shpjeguar m\u00eb par\u00eb n\u00eb at\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb ai m\u00eb par\u00eb ta kuptoj\u00eb  se i kemi dh\u00ebn\u00eb nj\u00eb argument  se pse  nj\u00eb ndalim i till\u00eb duhet t\u00eb  pranohet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

K\u00ebtij f\u00ebmije \u201c t\u00eb shtir\u00eb\u201c  ,  sypatrembur  , por t\u00eb shkath\u00ebt,  nuk ia  pengoja synimin e tij p\u00ebr t\u00eb m\u00ebsuar , p\u00ebr t\u00eb  b\u00ebr\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb synon t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u00eb  vepruar vet\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn e tij, mbase isha i bindur   se f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e till\u00eb  si  ai me karakter t\u00eb fort\u00eb  e jetojn\u00eb jet\u00ebn n\u00eb maksimum dhe shprehin d\u00ebshirat, synimet dhe emocionet e tyre shum\u00eb fuqish\u00ebm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

U b\u00ebra mb\u00ebshtetja e tij n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb ai t\u00eb ket\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb besim tek un\u00eb,  se do t\u00eb jemi pran\u00eb tij sa her\u00eb q\u00eb ai t\u00eb ket\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr mua n\u00eb  edukimin dhe ngritjen e jet\u00ebs s\u00eb tij.  Sidomos kam mb\u00ebshtetur e pikat e   forta t\u00eb tij, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb ai t\u00eb shpreh\u00eb potencialin gjat\u00eb aktivitetit fizik.  Dhe nuk m\u00eb zhg\u00ebnjeu. P\u00ebrkundrazi m\u00eb befasoi  p\u00ebr t\u00eb mir\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pjet\u00ebr Gjeloshaj u b\u00eb  nj\u00eb njeri i mir\u00eb, i ndersh\u00ebm, i suksessh\u00ebm dhe nj\u00eb sportist jasht\u00ebzakonisht  i dalluar n\u00eb  Kaliforni, ku ka emigruar para m\u00eb shum\u00eb se tri dekadash.  Shpirtin e tij luftarak  dhe talentin e tij e d\u00ebshmoi  n\u00eb sportin shum\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00eb,  t\u00eb tmerrsh\u00ebm,  guximtar,  burr\u00ebror dhe shum\u00eb t\u00eb rreziksh\u00ebm Jiu \u2013 Jutsu\u201d, e lindur dhe e zhvilluar n\u00eb Brazil m\u00eb 1920, nga Helio Gracie, babai i kampionit Royce Gracie, i cili m\u00eb von\u00eb hapi nj\u00eb akademi sportive me deg\u00eb n\u00eb shtete t\u00eb ndryshme t\u00eb bot\u00ebs, me t\u00eb cilin k\u00ebt\u00eb sport e ushtroi p\u00ebr pers\u00eb vjet  n\u00eb Los  Angeles.   Gjeloshaj, p\u00ebrdor edhe teknik\u00ebn \u201cTaekwondo\u201d, t\u00eb cilin e ushtron me pasion dhe sukses  tash 31 vjet.    <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ky lloj sporti  nuk ka rregulla, as mjete mbrojt\u00ebse. Godit ku t\u00eb mundesh, me duar e me k\u00ebmb\u00eb, n\u00eb kok\u00eb, n\u00eb bark, n\u00eb shpin\u00eb e kudo tjet\u00ebr p\u00ebr t\u00eb arritur fitoren. Rregulli i vet\u00ebm zbatohet kur kund\u00ebrshtarit i zihet fryma dhe ai jep shenj\u00eb duke i r\u00ebn\u00eb podiumit tri her\u00eb me dor\u00eb. At\u00ebher\u00eb gjyqtari i ndeshjes shpall fundin e loj\u00ebs dhe shpall fituesin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pjet\u00ebr Gjeloshaj n\u00eb paraqitjet e deritashme n\u00eb gara t\u00eb ndryshme  n\u00eb  Kaliforni ka demonstruar shpirt luftarak, profesionaliz\u00ebm dhe k\u00ebmb\u00ebngulje.  Ky sportist i suksessh\u00ebm  me fitoret e tij  \u00ebsht\u00eb  frym\u00ebzim p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjitha gjeneratat e reja. P\u00ebr sukseset  e tij kan\u00eb  shkruar  gazeta t\u00eb ndryshme  prestigjioze amerikane   t\u00eb sportit, duke i prezantuar ato  n\u00eb faqet e tyre t\u00eb para. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

D\u00ebshmi t\u00eb sukseseve  t\u00eb tij jan\u00eb afro   30 medalje t\u00eb fituara n\u00eb gara t\u00eb ndryshme, prej t\u00eb cilave m\u00eb e vlefshme \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo q\u00eb fitoi n\u00eb Florida  n\u00eb vitin1998, n\u00eb nj\u00eb gar\u00eb ku mor\u00ebn pjes\u00eb 115 sportist\u00eb nga shtete t\u00eb ndryshme t\u00eb Amerik\u00ebs, t\u00eb ndar\u00eb n\u00eb kat\u00ebr grupe. Ai  zuri vendin e par\u00eb n\u00eb grupin e vet. \u00cbsht\u00eb bart\u00ebs  i kat\u00ebr brezave  t\u00eb zinj n\u00eb \u201cTaekwondo\u201d dhe   jep edhe m\u00ebsime p\u00ebr student\u00ebt  dhe polic\u00ebt q\u00eb duan t\u00eb ushtrojn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb lloj sporti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201c Si f\u00ebmij\u00eb nuk kam qen\u00eb i qet\u00eb. D\u00ebshira ime ishte t\u00eb rrihesha me shok\u00ebt. Isha shum\u00eb i guximsh\u00ebm dhe askush nuk mund t\u00eb dilte fitues kund\u00ebr meje.  P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye  e zgjodha k\u00ebt\u00eb   sport\u201d, thot\u00eb Gjeloshaj. Shton se nuk ka frik\u00eb  para se t\u00eb futet n\u00eb betej\u00eb.  \u201cP\u00ebr mua \u00ebsht\u00eb sikur nisem p\u00ebr dasm\u00eb. Kur e b\u00ebn nj\u00eb gj\u00eb me d\u00ebshir\u00eb, t\u00eb duket normale. Ky sport t\u00eb imponon disiplin\u00eb, m\u00ebsohesh dhe nuk ndjen m\u00eb lodhje, madje ai t\u00eb ndihmon p\u00ebr t\u2019u p\u00ebrqendruar edhe m\u00eb mir\u00eb n\u00eb pun\u00eb. P\u00ebr t\u00eb fituar nj\u00eb ndeshje sportive, nuk duhet t\u00eb jesh nervoz, por t\u00eb kesh durim, guxim dhe, natyrisht t\u00eb dish t\u00eb p\u00ebrdor\u00ebsh teknik\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb  p\u00ebrshtatshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjunj\u00ebzuar kund\u00ebrshtarin (rivalin).\u201d,  thekson Gjeloshaj.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

-A \u00ebsht\u00eb talenti\/motivimi parakushti i par\u00eb p\u00ebr sukses? Nj\u00eb talent pa t\u00eb cilin nuk mund t\u00eb jetosh?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– N\u00ebse jeni t\u00eb gatsh\u00ebm t\u00eb punoni shum\u00eb, mund t’i arrini q\u00ebllimet tuaja n\u00eb \u00e7do sport. Motivimi dhe talenti p\u00ebrb\u00ebjn\u00eb 20% n\u00eb p\u00ebrllogaritjen p\u00ebrfundimtare t\u00eb nj\u00eb sportisti t\u00eb suksessh\u00ebm.  Fati \u00ebsht\u00eb gjithashtu nj\u00eb faktor integral n\u00eb krijimin e imazhit t\u00eb nj\u00eb sportisti t\u00eb suksessh\u00ebm gjat\u00eb karrier\u00ebs s\u00eb tij.  Njeriu m\u00ebson sa \u00ebsht\u00eb gjall\u00eb, ndaj edhe nj\u00eb sportist i suksessh\u00ebm duhet t\u00eb punoj\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb me veten dhe t\u00eb ndryshoj\u00eb n\u00eb p\u00ebrputhje me tendencat q\u00eb sjell sporti. Pra, m\u00ebsimi ( st\u00ebrvitja )  i p\u00ebrditsh\u00ebm dhe puna me veten \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb rrug\u00eb e sigurt drejt suksesit. N\u00ebse d\u00ebshironi t\u00eb keni sukses n\u00eb ndonj\u00eb sport, m\u00ebsoni nga m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00ebt. Ndiqni sportist\u00ebt  tuaj t\u00eb preferuar dhe shikoni ata t\u00eb p\u00ebrformojn\u00eb. Zot\u00ebroni aft\u00ebsit\u00eb e tyre, merrni disiplin\u00ebn dhe motivimin e tyre dhe zbatoni ato n\u00eb trajnimin tuaj-  shpjegon Gjeloshaj<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Shembulli i Pjet\u00ebr Gjeloshajt tregon se  nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb i cili   n\u00eb nj\u00eb periudh\u00eb t\u00eb caktuar ( t\u00eb hershme )  zhvillimi  b\u00ebn  veprime  t\u00eb pad\u00ebmshme dhe t\u00eb pamenduara, brenda kufijve t\u00eb asaj q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e pranueshme dhe e justifikuar,  gj\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb normale,  sigurisht n\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb brenda kufijve t\u00eb asaj q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e pranueshme  dhe e justifikuar , me pun\u00eb e  me sjellje  \u00e7on n\u00eb nj\u00eb dit\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebhet nj\u00eb burr\u00eb i suksessh\u00ebm dhe sportist i spikatur dhe i vler\u00ebsuar.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nx\u00ebn\u00ebsit i m\u00ebsojm\u00eb dhe i edukojm\u00eb  q\u00eb nj\u00eb dit\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebhen njer\u00ebz t\u00eb ditur dhe t\u00eb mir\u00eb.   \u00c7far\u00eb t\u00eb presim dhe t\u00eb d\u00ebshirojm\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb se sa   t\u00eb ket\u00eb sukses nx\u00ebn\u00ebsi  yn\u00eb ?! ( Koha Javore)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Nj\u00eb shembull suksesi Gjek\u00eb Gjonaj Gjat\u00eb p\u00ebrvoj\u00ebs sime  t\u00eb   m\u00ebsimdh\u00ebnies n\u00eb vendlindje  kam pasur  nx\u00ebn\u00ebs me karaktere t\u00eb ndryshme. Secili  n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn e vet ishte i ve\u00e7ant\u00eb.  Nj\u00ebri nd\u00ebr ata ishte edhe  Pjet\u00ebr Gjeloshaj  nga fshati Nikmarash  t\u00eb Trieshit.  Personazhi i k\u00ebtij shkrimi  p\u00ebrve\u00e7se  ka qen\u00eb nx\u00ebn\u00ebsi im  jemi edhe t\u00eb nj\u00eb fshati   (m\u00ebhalle) ) […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":37868,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"none","_seopress_titles_title":"","_seopress_titles_desc":"","_seopress_robots_index":"","_seopress_analysis_target_kw":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[2,7],"tags":[3451],"class_list":["post-37865","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aktualitet","category-sporti","tag-pjeter-gjeloshaj"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37865","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=37865"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37865\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":37869,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37865\/revisions\/37869"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/37868"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=37865"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=37865"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=37865"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}