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Nga Gjek\u00eb Gjonaj<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c7do vit, m\u00eb 19 n\u00ebntor, festohet Dita Nd\u00ebrkomb\u00ebtare e Burrave n\u00eb mbar\u00eb bot\u00ebn, ashtu si\u00e7 kremtohet  Dita  e Grave.    Edhe pse mund t\u00eb mos njihet gjer\u00ebsisht sa  8 Marsi  kjo dit\u00eb festohet nga m\u00eb shum\u00eb se 80 vende t\u00eb bot\u00ebs, n\u00eb Indi, SHBA, Britani t\u00eb Madhe, Australi, Kanada etj. dhe ajo   ka vendin e saj n\u00eb kalendar.  Kjo dit\u00eb   sh\u00ebrben si nj\u00eb kujtes\u00eb p\u00ebr \u00e7\u00ebshtjet q\u00eb kan\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb me burrat, sh\u00ebndetin e tyre, rolin e tyre n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri dhe r\u00ebnd\u00ebsin\u00eb e barazis\u00eb gjinore.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Q\u00ebllimi i kremtimit t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj dite <\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kjo dit\u00eb kushtuar gjith\u00eb burrave n\u00eb bot\u00eb   synon t\u00eb rris\u00eb nd\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsimin p\u00ebr \u00e7\u00ebshtjet specifike p\u00ebr meshkujt, duke festuar nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht kontributin e tyre pozitiv n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri. Kjo dit\u00eb po ashtu  festohet  p\u00ebr t\u00eb njohur pun\u00ebn, arritjet, angazhimet  dhe   kontributin  e djemve dhe burrave , ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht n\u00eb vendin e tyre, n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri,  p\u00ebr t\u00eb mir\u00ebn e familjes  dhe komunitetit  n\u00eb  p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi. P\u00ebrve\u00e7 k\u00ebsaj, 19 N\u00ebntori \u00ebsht\u00eb shpesh nj\u00eb mund\u00ebsi p\u00ebr t\u00eb folur p\u00ebr sfidat specifike me t\u00eb cilat p\u00ebrballen meshkujt, duke p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtjet e sh\u00ebndetit mendor, t\u00eb cilat ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb mund t\u00eb anashkalohen ose t\u00eb mos hulumtohen. Kjo dit\u00eb ofron nj\u00eb mund\u00ebsi p\u00ebr grat\u00eb q\u00eb t’i kushtojn\u00eb v\u00ebmendje t\u00eb dashurve t\u00eb tyre, qofshin babait, v\u00ebllait apo bashk\u00ebshortit.  Dita Nd\u00ebrkomb\u00ebtare e Burrave \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb mund\u00ebsi p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb njer\u00ebzit me vullnet t\u00eb mir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb vler\u00ebsuar burrat n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tyre dhe kontributin q\u00eb ata japin n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri p\u00ebr t\u00eb mir\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe t\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00ebve”. Q\u00ebllimi \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb sigurohet nj\u00eb gjendje e mir\u00eb emocionale, fizike dhe shpirt\u00ebrore e meshkujve. Megjithat\u00eb, kjo dit\u00eb  nuk ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb vet\u00ebm me festimin e burrave, por edhe me p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsimin e marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve gjinore dhe promovimin e barazis\u00eb gjinore.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Historiku i Dit\u00ebs Nd\u00ebrkomb\u00ebtare t\u00eb Burrave <\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Historia e k\u00ebsaj date shkon q\u00eb nga viti 1960, por vet\u00ebm n\u00eb vitin 1999 u ringjall  nga nj\u00eb pedagog i historis\u00eb Dr.Jerome Teelucksingh, i cili  punoi n\u00eb Universitetin e Indis\u00eb, n\u00eb Trinidad Tobago.  Dr. Jerome vuri theksin  n\u00eb faktin se ideja e Dit\u00ebs Bot\u00ebrore t\u00eb Burrave nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb garosh me Dit\u00ebn e Gruas, por t\u00eb sjell\u00ebsh nd\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsim p\u00ebr \u00e7\u00ebshtje ose p\u00ebrvoja t\u00eb burrave  nga e gjith\u00eb bota.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nj\u00eb rol t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm  n\u00eb vendosjen e Dit\u00ebs  Nd\u00ebrkomb\u00ebtare t\u00eb Burrave  si nj\u00eb dat\u00eb globale ka edhe   avokatja e t\u00eb drejtave t\u00eb burrave, Uma Chala, n\u00ebn\u00eb e dy f\u00ebmij\u00ebve. Ajo ishte pioniere e festimit t\u00eb Dit\u00ebs Nd\u00ebrkomb\u00ebtare t\u00eb Burrave n\u00eb vitin 2007, duke mos ditur se nga erdhi data n\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, por duke besuar n\u00eb  r\u00ebnd\u00ebsin\u00eb e festimit t\u00eb dit\u00ebs si nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb ekspozuar abuzimin q\u00eb ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb vuajn\u00eb burrat. Mesazhi i saj ishte q\u00eb n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi, n\u00eb planin personal grat\u00eb  t\u00eb sh\u00ebnojn\u00eb Dit\u00ebn Nd\u00ebrkomb\u00ebtare t\u00eb Burrave  duke treguar  mir\u00ebnjohje ndaj burrave n\u00eb familjen dhe mjedisin e tyre t\u00eb ngusht\u00eb  dhe k\u00ebt\u00eb ta b\u00ebjn\u00eb me gjeste t\u00eb thjeshta si dhurata t\u00eb vogla ose urime.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pse shqiptar\u00ebt nuk e festojn\u00eb Dit\u00ebn e Burrave ?<\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Megjith\u00ebse kan\u00eb kaluar 24 vite  q\u00eb kjo dit\u00eb u kushtohet kauzave t\u00eb burrave, ajo  nuk festohet  n\u00eb dy  shtetet shqiptare, Shqip\u00ebri dhe Kosov\u00eb  , sikurse as n\u00eb shtetet e tjera t\u00eb Ballkanit Per\u00ebndimor, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 Bosnj\u00ebs dhe Hercegovin\u00ebs.  P\u00ebr shqiptar\u00ebt    Dita Nd\u00ebrkomb\u00ebtare e Burrave  kalon  shpesh pa e ditur fare se ajo  ekziston dhe pa asnj\u00eb harxhim (shpenzim), pasi  ata nuk e kan\u00eb kuptuar arsyen e k\u00ebsaj dite.  Arsyeja  pse kjo fest\u00eb nuk festohet  n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri,  Kosov\u00eb e shtete t\u00eb tjera t\u00eb  Ballkanit  ku jetojn\u00eb shqiptar\u00ebt \u00ebsht\u00eb se k\u00ebto   shtete nuk e njohin k\u00ebt\u00eb dit\u00eb, prandaj  dita e burrave \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb planin e dyt\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ekspert\u00ebt e k\u00ebsaj fushe  pohojn\u00eb se kultura patriarkale  \u00ebsht\u00eb e pranishme  n\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb shqiptare. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb  kjo dit\u00eb nd\u00ebrkomb\u00ebtare  shpesh trajtohet me tallje, p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsisht qasja  dhe e drejta e burrave n\u00eb familje, e drejta e tyre p\u00ebr emocione, paprekshm\u00ebria e tyre n\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtjet familjare etj. Sipas  psikolog\u00ebve do t\u00eb ishte mir\u00eb q\u00eb edhe shqiptar\u00ebt ta  kremtojn\u00eb fest\u00ebn e burrave , meq\u00eb ka ardhur koha q\u00eb   edhe n\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb shqiptare t\u00eb  zhvillojm\u00eb nd\u00ebrgjegjen p\u00ebr barazin\u00eb gjinore. Ata  mendojn\u00eb se   me k\u00ebt\u00eb shenj\u00eb simbolike  barazia gjinore  do t\u00eb  ishte m\u00eb e \u00e7ekuilibruar  se\u00e7 \u00ebsht\u00eb tani,  por e pranojn\u00eb se  vitet e fundit  \u00ebsht\u00eb punuar pak n\u00eb pjes\u00ebn edukative t\u00eb roleve t\u00eb meshkujve. \u00cbsht\u00eb  shum\u00eb e nevojshme  dhe e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme t\u00eb veprojm\u00eb ne edukimin e shoq\u00ebris\u00eb  shqiptare  p\u00ebr ta kuptuar  se edhe burrat jan\u00eb qenie njer\u00ebzore  dhe se  meshkujt dhe grat\u00eb jan\u00eb partner\u00eb t\u00eb barabart\u00eb n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri me t\u00eb drejta dhe detyrime n\u00eb p\u00ebrputhje  me karakteristikat  dhe vlerat njer\u00ebzore, e  jo t\u2019i ndajm\u00eb ata n\u00eb baz\u00eb t\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb jan\u00eb burrat dhe \u00e7far\u00eb jan\u00eb grat\u00eb. Roli  i burrave dhe grave duhet t\u00eb ndryshoj\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb edhe shqiptar\u00ebt  t\u00eb kuptojn\u00eb dhe pranojn\u00eb vlerat humaniste t\u00eb barazis\u00eb gjinore, q\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb nevojshme t\u00eb ecim p\u00ebrpara.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Nga Gjek\u00eb Gjonaj \u00c7do vit, m\u00eb 19 n\u00ebntor, festohet Dita Nd\u00ebrkomb\u00ebtare e Burrave n\u00eb mbar\u00eb bot\u00ebn, ashtu si\u00e7 kremtohet  Dita  e Grave.    Edhe pse mund t\u00eb mos njihet gjer\u00ebsisht sa  8 Marsi  kjo dit\u00eb festohet nga m\u00eb shum\u00eb se 80 vende t\u00eb bot\u00ebs, n\u00eb Indi, SHBA, Britani t\u00eb Madhe, Australi, Kanada etj. dhe ajo   ka […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":31168,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"none","_seopress_titles_title":"%%post_title%% %%sep%% %%sitetitle%%","_seopress_titles_desc":"%%post_excerpt%%","_seopress_robots_index":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[2,12],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-36067","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aktualitet","category-opinione"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/36067","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=36067"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/36067\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":36070,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/36067\/revisions\/36070"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/31168"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=36067"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=36067"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=36067"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}