{"id":35566,"date":"2023-08-31T16:00:38","date_gmt":"2023-08-31T14:00:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/?p=35566"},"modified":"2023-08-31T16:13:36","modified_gmt":"2023-08-31T14:13:36","slug":"mergimi-plage-e-pasheruar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/?p=35566","title":{"rendered":"M\u00cbRGIMI, PLAG\u00cb E PASH\u00cbRUAR"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure class=\"alignleft wp-block-post-featured-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"450\" height=\"627\" src=\"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/esat-mehmeti.jpg\" class=\"attachment-post-thumbnail size-post-thumbnail wp-post-image\" alt=\"\" style=\"object-fit:cover;\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/esat-mehmeti.jpg 450w, https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/esat-mehmeti-215x300.jpg 215w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n<p>Shkruan: Esat Mehmeti<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Plaga e mergimit \u00ebsht\u00eb\u00a0 shum\u00eb e vjet\u00ebr, \u00ebsht\u00eb plag\u00eb q\u00eb nuk shihet, po q\u00eb t\u00eb djeg n\u00eb heshtje. \u00cbsht\u00eb dhimbje q\u00eb askush nuk e njeh pa qen\u00eb larg vendlindjes. Te jesh i m\u00ebrguar, ke t\u00eb b\u00ebsh me dhimbjen, mallin, dashurin\u00eb p\u00ebr vendlindjen, p\u00ebr njer\u00ebzit e tu.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>E kaluara e popullit ton\u00eb, n\u00eb t\u00eb shumt\u00ebn e koh\u00ebs ishte rr\u00ebqeth\u00ebse, ajo paraqet nj\u00eb dram\u00eb shumakt\u00ebshe. Nj\u00ebri nd\u00ebr aktet e k\u00ebsaj drame \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe m\u00ebrgimi. N\u00eb historin\u00eb e popullit ton\u00eb, m\u00ebrgimi ishte dhe mbeti nd\u00ebr plag\u00ebt m\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnda individuale dhe komb\u00ebtare. M\u00ebrgimi, si plag\u00eb shoq\u00ebrore, politike, ekonomike, dhe psikologjike e ka p\u00ebrcjellur popullin ton\u00eb gjat\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00eb historis\u00eb s\u00eb zhvillimit t\u00eb tij. Tema e m\u00ebrgimit, aktualisht \u00ebsht\u00eb nd\u00ebr m\u00eb t\u00eb shpeshtat n\u00eb mbar\u00eb let\u00ebrsin\u00eb shqipe. Andaj, boshti q\u00eb i jep kuptim jet\u00ebs son\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb atdheu, \u00ebsht\u00eb toka jon\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb fati yn\u00eb, jan\u00eb vuajtjet tona, por kurr\u00eb nuk u gjunj\u00ebzuam, duke ruajtur identitetin ton\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nxit\u00ebsit kryesor\u00eb q\u00eb e kan\u00eb shkaktuar dhe shpejtuar shp\u00ebrnguljen e shqiptar\u00ebve nga trojet e t\u00eb par\u00ebve jan\u00eb nd\u00ebr m\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshmet si ; presionet politike, p\u00ebrndjekjet, kushtet ekonomike, sigurimi i kafshat\u00ebs s\u00eb buk\u00ebs e shum\u00eb \u00e7ka tjet\u00ebr. Furia e gjith\u00eb k\u00ebtyre elemente ishte shum\u00eb e fort\u00eb, duke e d\u00ebbuar popullin ton\u00eb nga vatrat e veta, duke ia mohuar t\u00eb drejtat elementare, gjuh\u00ebn dhe shkrimin shqip, simbolet komb\u00ebtare, duke ia v\u00ebn\u00eb k\u00ebmb\u00ebn padrejt\u00ebsisht, e duke synuar ta asimiloj\u00eb. Nd\u00ebrsa, nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb tjet\u00ebr e detyruan t\u00eb merrte udh\u00ebt e hidhura t\u00eb m\u00ebrgimit. Tretja e popullit ton\u00eb drejt rrug\u00ebve t\u00eb bot\u00ebs, fatkeq\u00ebsisht \u00ebsht\u00eb plag\u00eb q\u00eb edhe sot n\u00eb heshtje po e p\u00ebrpin\u00eb kombit ton\u00eb, duke e larguar nga k\u00ebtu pjes\u00ebn m\u00eb vitale, pjes\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb sh\u00ebndosh\u00eb t\u00eb popullit ton\u00eb. Q\u00ebllimet e sunduesve dhe masat e r\u00ebnda e t\u00eb padurueshme ndaj popullit ton\u00eb, u sh\u00ebndrruan n\u00eb motive t\u00eb ikjes s\u00eb shqiptar\u00ebve nga trojet e veta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;M\u00ebrgimi \u00ebsht\u00eb vendi dhe buka e hidhur e njer\u00ebzimit<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>T\u00eb rinjt\u00eb tan\u00eb po largohen nga vendi q\u00eb e duan m\u00eb shum\u00eb se jet\u00ebn e tyre. Ata largohen, ngase ky vend po afron shum\u00eb pak, apa th\u00ebn\u00eb aspak mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb zhvillimit, ku pa zhvillim cil\u00ebsor nuk ka ardhm\u00ebri t\u00eb ndrit\u00ebshme. Viktim\u00eb e k\u00ebsaj plage u b\u00ebn\u00eb pothuaj t\u00eb gjitha shtresat dhe grupmoshat; f\u00ebmij\u00eb, nx\u00ebn\u00ebs, student etj. K\u00ebto jan\u00eb shkaqet e braktisjes se largimit t\u00eb rinjve tan\u00eb, q\u00eb me p\u00ebrmasa alarmante po vazhdon edhe sot, por tani me nj\u00eb form\u00eb tjet\u00ebr, duke siguruar viza pune. Nga kjo, kemi nj\u00eb situat\u00eb krejt ndryshe, kur numri i njer\u00ebzve n\u00eb vend \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb i vog\u00ebl se i atyre q\u00eb kan\u00eb brak\u00ebtisuar vendin. N\u00eb rrethana t\u00eb tilla, s\u2019ka se si t\u00eb mos ndalesh e t\u00eb mendosh \u00e7\u2019po ndodh me ne ? ! Duke par\u00eb zbrazjen e vendeve tona, duke par\u00eb numrin e t\u00eb mbeturve, del se largimi edhe i nj\u00eb personi \u00ebsht\u00eb humbje e madhe p\u00ebr vendin. Largimi i nj\u00eb t\u00eb riut sot, \u00ebsht\u00eb humbja e nj\u00eb familjeje t\u00eb madhe nes\u00ebr, \u00ebsht\u00eb humbje e nj\u00eb m\u00ebsuesi, ekonomisti, juristi, doktori, artisti, shkenc\u00ebtari e \u00e7ka jo tjet\u00ebr. Ndon\u00ebse, m\u00ebrgimin po d\u00ebmton substanc\u00ebn ton\u00eb komb\u00ebtare. Me qindra shqiptar\u00eb sot gjinden t\u00eb shp\u00ebrndar\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha an\u00ebt e bot\u00ebs. Shumica e tyre kan\u00eb z\u00ebn\u00eb vend n\u00eb shtetet per\u00ebndimore e deri n\u00eb Australin\u00eb e larg\u00ebt. Numri i m\u00ebrgimtar\u00ebve nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb i sakt\u00eb asnj\u00ebher\u00eb, sepse ai rritet \u00e7do dit\u00eb e m\u00eb shum\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vertet\u00eb, udha e t\u00eb par\u00ebve ishte shum\u00ebfish m\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00eb sesa e sotmja, por fatkeq\u00ebsisht, sot n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb indirekte, t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb tan\u00eb i kan\u00eb drejtuar syt\u00eb drejt m\u00ebrgimit, q\u00eb i servohet me ngjyra josh\u00ebse. Nd\u00ebrkaq, n\u00eb an\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr, ky rrug\u00ebtim nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb si\u00e7 e mendojn\u00eb t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb n\u00eb fillim, si nj\u00eb rrug\u00eb shp\u00ebtimi p\u00ebr nj\u00eb jet\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb, por \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb mundim, q\u00eb t\u00eb n\u00ebnshtron e t\u00eb godet n\u00eb palc\u00eb, duke vrar\u00eb identitetin komb\u00ebtar e deri n\u00eb dor\u00ebzimin e plot\u00eb, q\u00eb quhet asimilim. M\u00ebrgimtar\u00ebt tan\u00eb p\u00ebr zgjidhjen e problemeve jet\u00ebsore, n\u00eb tregjet e bot\u00ebs po shesin fuqin\u00eb e tyre. Mjerisht, nga mosdija, disa nga t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb tan\u00eb, t\u00eb profesioneve t\u00eb ndryshme, sot p\u00ebrpiqen t\u00eb punojn\u00eb edhe pun\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshme, edhe pse ndoshta k\u00ebt\u00eb e b\u00ebjn\u00eb pa d\u00ebshir\u00ebn e tyre, si t\u00eb vetmen m\u00ebnyr\u00eb mbijetese.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Rruga e m\u00ebrgimtar\u00ebve&nbsp; tan\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e mundimshme, por dashuria p\u00ebr vendlindje \u00ebsht\u00eb e pandalshme<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Si\u00e7 dihet, m\u00ebrgimi, si fenomen shoq\u00ebror, i ka lodhur njer\u00ebzit dhe nuk ka krijues q\u00eb nuk ka shkruar, apo k\u00ebnduar p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb plag\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00eb t\u00eb njer\u00ebzimit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sot shqiptar\u00ebt gjenden t\u00eb shkap\u00ebrderdhur n\u00eb t\u00eb kat\u00ebr an\u00ebt e bot\u00ebs, por dashuria aq e fuqishme p\u00ebr vendlindjen dhe t\u00eb af\u00ebrmit e tyre nuk mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrshkruhet dhe t\u00eb krahasohet me asgj\u00eb. Sado t\u00eb largohesh nga vendlindja, kjo forc\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00ebrheq aq m\u00eb shum\u00eb drejt vendit ku ke lindur, miqve dhe t\u00eb af\u00ebrmeve t\u00eb tu. Vendlindja \u00ebsht\u00eb testament i t\u00eb par\u00ebve tan\u00eb. M\u00ebrgimtari e ka jet\u00ebn me \u201cgazep\u201d, ai gjumin e b\u00ebn, por vendin e vet \u00ebnd\u00ebrron. Pra, ai fizikisht \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb dhe t\u00eb huaj, por me mendje e zem\u00ebr \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb vendlindjen e vet. Ata shpeshher\u00eb mallkojn\u00eb edhe veten me fjal\u00eb: \u201cM\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb mos kisha lindur fare, se t\u2019jam i gjall\u00eb e me mall \u201c, madje, madje duke shkuar edhe m\u00eb larg, duke l\u00ebn\u00eb ament : \u201cN\u00ebse vdes, k\u00ebtu mos me vorrosni, m\u2019\u00e7oni n\u00eb vendlindje, e atje t\u00eb m\u2019varrosni\u201d! Ky ishte edhe amaneti i prind\u00ebrve t\u00eb autorit t\u00eb k\u00ebtij shkrimi ( E.M.),t\u00eb cil\u00ebt edhe ata, si shum\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00eb e paten fatin p\u00ebr shum\u00eb koh\u00eb t\u00eb shijojn\u00eb buk\u00ebn e hidhur t\u00eb kurbetit. Po k\u00ebshtu si k\u00ebta, ka pasur\u00eb edhe t\u00eb tjer\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebt n\u00eb shpirt e zem\u00ebr kan\u00eb mbajtur vendlindjen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Populli yn\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb atdhedash\u00ebs i flakt\u00eb dhe kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb d\u00ebshmuar \u00e7doher\u00eb gjat\u00eb historis\u00eb. V\u00ebll\u00ebz\u00ebrit tan\u00eb, ngado shkuan, me vete mor\u00ebn doket, zakonet, plag\u00ebt, moren vajet, k\u00ebng\u00ebt, mallin p\u00ebr atdheun e t\u00eb par\u00ebve, mor\u00ebn gjuh\u00ebn e tradit\u00ebn ton\u00eb. Por, krahas gjith\u00eb k\u00ebtyre mundimeve e halleve, ata gjejn\u00eb koh\u00eb edhe p\u00ebr organizime dhe takime mes vete. Ata jan\u00eb shum\u00eb aktiv\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn kulturore, politike&nbsp; e shoq\u00ebrore. Ata me dinjitet ruajn\u00eb dhe mbrojn\u00eb identitetin ton\u00eb komb\u00ebtar. Ne jemi shum\u00eb krenar me m\u00ebrgimtar\u00ebt tan\u00eb, sepse ata e d\u00ebshmuan veten n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha koh\u00ebrat, duke l\u00ebn\u00eb vul\u00ebn e vendit dhe t\u00eb koh\u00ebs n\u00eb fusha t\u00eb ndryshme kudo n\u00eb bot\u00eb. Shqiptar\u00ebt, kudo q\u00eb gjenden, mbajn\u00eb lidhje t\u00eb forta me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin, me vendlindjen, me t\u00eb af\u00ebrmit e farefisin, duke ruajtur gjuh\u00ebn e traditat tona, si vlerat m\u00eb t\u00eb shtrenjta. Ata vendlindjen e shijojn\u00eb dhe e mbajn\u00eb n\u00eb zem\u00ebr.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sa her\u00eb q\u00eb vijn\u00eb pushimet, bashkatdhetar\u00ebt tan\u00eb i japin frym\u00eb, i japin gjall\u00ebri vendit. Ata vijn\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb pushuar dhe p\u00ebr t`u \u00e7\u2019lodhur n\u00eb vendlindje, e cila \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe pjesa me e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme e bot\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre. Ata udh\u00ebtojn\u00eb me qindra e mij\u00ebra kilometra, kalojn\u00eb rrug\u00eb t\u00eb gjata me plot peripeti vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u00eb pushuar pak dit\u00eb dhe p\u00ebr t\u2019u \u00e7mallur me t\u00eb dashurit e tyre. Dashuria aq e fuqishme q\u00eb p\u00ebrjetohet p\u00ebr vendlindjen dhe t\u00eb af\u00ebrmit, nuk mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrshkruhet dhe t\u00eb krahasohet me asgj\u00eb. Populli yn\u00eb liridash\u00ebs ka thurur shum\u00eb fjal\u00eb t\u00eb urta p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb plag\u00eb t\u00eb dhimbshme si ;\u201cGuri i r\u00ebnd\u00eb peshon n\u00eb vend t\u00eb vet \u201d, \u201cKur t\u00eb jesh n\u00eb dhe t\u00eb huaj, dita t\u00eb duket nj\u00eb muaj.\u201d,\u201cBalta ma e am\u00ebl se mjalta\u201d, etj.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kjo plag\u00eb nuk sherohet vet\u00ebm me shkrime e konstatime, kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb rrug\u00eb e gjat\u00eb&nbsp; p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjetur barin sherues t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj plage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;Andaj, kuadrot me p\u00ebrgatitje t\u00eb larta profesionale duhet t\u00eb mb\u00ebshteten nga institucionet shtet\u00ebrore, q\u00eb njohurit\u00eb dhe \u00ebndrrat e tyre t\u2019i b\u00ebjn\u00eb realitet n\u00eb vendin e tyre, sepse m\u00ebrgimi \u00ebsht\u00eb plag\u00eb e pash\u00ebruar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; \u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Shkruan: Esat Mehmeti Plaga e mergimit \u00ebsht\u00eb\u00a0 shum\u00eb e vjet\u00ebr, \u00ebsht\u00eb plag\u00eb q\u00eb nuk shihet, po q\u00eb t\u00eb djeg n\u00eb heshtje. \u00cbsht\u00eb dhimbje q\u00eb askush nuk e njeh pa qen\u00eb larg vendlindjes. Te jesh i m\u00ebrguar, ke t\u00eb b\u00ebsh me dhimbjen, mallin, dashurin\u00eb p\u00ebr vendlindjen, p\u00ebr njer\u00ebzit e tu. 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