{"id":34511,"date":"2023-03-21T17:48:29","date_gmt":"2023-03-21T16:48:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/?p=34511"},"modified":"2023-03-21T17:53:08","modified_gmt":"2023-03-21T16:53:08","slug":"rrespekt-per-nenat-ato-na-dhuruan-jeten","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/?p=34511","title":{"rendered":"RRESPEKT P\u00cbR N\u00cbNAT, ATO NA DHURUAN JET\u00cbN!"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Nga Haxhi Zeneli<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nj\u00eb popull \u00ebsht\u00eb i \u00e7’liruar kur ai \u00e7’liroh\u00ebt nga mentaliteti i ti i s\u00ebmuar nga bazat diskriminuese ndaj m\u00eb t\u00eb dob\u00ebtit dhe mundoh\u00ebt ta shkfrytzoj\u00eb dhe ta eliminoj\u00eb p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb s\u00ebmundjes s\u00eb egoizmint apo ma\u00e7oizmit t\u00eb ti t\u00eb trashiguar nga t\u00eb par\u00ebt e ti apo rrethit dhe shoq\u00ebris\u00eb se ku ai \u00ebsht\u00eb zhvilluar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00ebse smundjet e tilla duken normale tek nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri apo edhe tek nj\u00eb popull, at\u00ebher\u00eb i gjith\u00eb ai popull duhet trajtuar dhe sheruar nga k\u00ebto smundje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mendoj\u00eb se nuk ka gj\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb sh\u00ebmtuar dhe m\u00eb t\u00eb lig\u00eb se sa nj\u00eb mashkull t\u00eb abuzoj\u00eb me nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr,e cila \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00ebna,motra apo vajza e dikuj. K\u00ebto dukuri n\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb ton\u00eb p\u00ebr fatin e keq, kan\u00eb ndodhur dhe po ndodhin ende edhe sot, dukuri q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrcjellur brez pas brezi dhe gjithnj\u00eb vazhdon t\u00eb p\u00ebrcill\u00ebt tek brezat e rinj, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt shofin n\u00ebnat, motrat apo vajzat e tyre duke u abuzuar, bullizuar apo edhe privuar nga jeta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u00ebnyra e trajtimit t\u00eb femres si nj\u00eb qenje e rendit t\u00eb dyt\u00eb,me iden se ajo duhet ti n\u00ebnshtroh\u00ebt nj\u00eb mashkulli apo m\u00eb sakt bashkshortit t\u00eb saj\u00eb nuk ka filluar “dje”,ajo i ka rr\u00ebnj\u00ebt q\u00eb n\u00eb Mesopotamin e lasht\u00eb,ku pastaj kjo ide vazhdoj\u00eb edhe me paraqitjen e feve,duke filluar q\u00eb nga krishterizmi,pastaj kaloj n\u00eb smundje ngjitse tek mbar\u00eb njer\u00ebzimin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dhe q\u00eb nga ajo koh\u00eb shqoq\u00ebria po p\u00ebrballet edhe sot me k\u00ebt\u00eb fenomen trishtues dhe diskriminues ndaj femr\u00ebs. Sot mundoh\u00ebn disa religjione ta paraqesin femren si t\u00eb barabart\u00eb,por kjo mbetet m\u00eb shum\u00eb si nj\u00eb teori nga foltoret e tyre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Po t\u00eb shikoni disa media sot!shifet qart\u00eb se si trajtoh\u00ebt femra n\u00eb fjalorin e tyre!.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Disa nga klerik\u00ebt as q\u00eb nuk e mshefin fare n\u00eb ligjiratat e tyre si udh\u00ebzime:”se si femrat duhet t\u00eb sillen n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri,si t\u00eb vishen,nd\u00ebrsa meshkujt lih\u00ebn n\u00eb lirin e tyre.N\u00eb fakt populli yn\u00eb kan\u00eb thurur edhe vargje t\u00eb turpshme t\u00eb cilat i kan\u00eb marr sikur”fjal\u00eb t\u00eb urta”,por n\u00eb fakt k\u00ebto jan\u00eb fjal\u00eb diskriminuese dhe denigruese p\u00ebr femren.Ja po ju rikujtoj\u00eb disa nga k\u00ebto,p\u00ebr shembull:”gruja edhe n\u00ebse nuk ka faj,duhet me e rrahur nj\u00ebher\u00eb n\u00eb jav\u00eb,p\u00ebr t\u00eb ja kujtuar se kush \u00ebsht\u00eb zot shpije”,”Sherri i burrit \u00ebsht\u00eb grueja”,”Nj\u00eb burr e vyen nj\u00eb gru,sa do q\u00eb nj\u00eb mashkull \u00ebsht\u00eb i keq”,”Grueja duhet t\u00eb ja laj kamet burrit dhe t\u00eb ja pi ujin”,”Zoti grues \u00ebsht\u00eb burri”,apo nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr th\u00ebnje m\u00eb trishtuese,”aty ku burri i bjen gruas,nuk e djeg\u00eb zjarri i xhehnemit (ferrit) etj, etj. Pra i gjith ky ofendin ndaj femres duke harruar se ato jan\u00eb n\u00ebnat, motrat dhe vajzat tona, q\u00eb na rrit\u00ebn me shum\u00eb mundime dhe sakrific\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Duhet t\u00eb theksoj\u00eb se nuk mundemi ti p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsojm\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb, p\u00ebr fat t\u00eb mir\u00eb kemi edhe t\u00eb till\u00eb q\u00eb vler\u00ebsojn\u00eb n\u00ebnat dhe motrat por flasim p\u00ebr nj\u00eb pj\u00ebs\u00eb e cila e ka p\u00ebr krenari q\u00eb k\u00ebto abuzime ti p\u00ebrcjellin edhe tek brezat e ardh\u00ebsh\u00ebm,n\u00ebp\u00ebr mes t\u00eb ligjiratave fetare dhe n\u00ebp\u00ebr media dhe vidio in\u00e7izime t\u00eb shumta n\u00eb”YouTube”,kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb mjaft shqet\u00ebsuese dhe trondit\u00ebse,p\u00ebr nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri e cila pretendon t\u00eb jet\u00eb zem\u00ebr gj\u00ebr\u00eb,humaniste,besimtare dhe m\u00eb n\u00eb fund civilizuese.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mrekullin e n\u00ebnave,motrave e vajzave tona t\u00eb cilat Zoti i ka ngritur n\u00eb nj\u00eb shkall\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb,dhe i ka bekuar ata me emrin magjik t\u00eb quajtur N\u00ebn\u00eb,e ka bekuar si krijuese te jet\u00ebs,pa n\u00ebn\u00eb s’ka jet\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gjer\u00ebsa t\u00eb gjith\u00eb thrrasim N\u00ebn\u00eb!at\u00ebher\u00eb duhet t\u00eb pyesim se ku e mor\u00ebn iden q\u00eb femra t\u00eb trajtoh\u00ebt si qenje e rendit t\u00eb dyt\u00eb,p\u00ebrse u manipulu me femren?Kur dih\u00ebt se gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb historis femra ka pasur dhe ka nj\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi t\u00eb jashtzakonshme n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha koh\u00ebrat,q\u00eb nga krijimi i njeriut t\u00eb par\u00eb.N\u00ebse nuk besojm\u00eb evolucionin e qenj\u00ebs njer\u00ebzore,at\u00ebher\u00eb po i referohemi nj\u00eb historije tjet\u00ebr q\u00eb i takon besimit hyjnor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sumeret e lasht\u00eb thuhet se e kan\u00eb l\u00ebn\u00eb historin t\u00eb shkruar n\u00eb pllakat e argjirit n\u00eb Mesopotami,nga ai vend ku rrodhi edhe feja,sipas Sichin,ku thuh\u00ebt se:Zoti q\u00eb na krijoj\u00eb ishte femer e quajtur”Ninmah-Nin-Ti”(Nin q\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb femer,kurse “Ti” do t\u00eb thot\u00eb jet\u00eb)e quajtur”femra e jet\u00ebs”,q\u00eb krijuan Adamu dhe Tiamat(Adamin dhe Even),n\u00eb kopshtin Eden(Garden of Eden) n\u00eb Sumeri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Andaj kur\u00eb d\u00ebgjojme ende p\u00ebr manipulimet ndaj femres,se si ajo trajtoh\u00ebt duke abuzuar,n\u00ebn\u00e7muar,degraduar mizorisht edhe eliminuar fizikisht,duke mos e kursyar at\u00eb edhe para f\u00ebmive t\u00eb saj\u00eb,ku e gjith\u00eb kjo b\u00ebhet nga bindjet e meshkujve t\u00eb dob\u00ebt dhe t\u00eb indoktrinuar nga shoq\u00ebria p\u00ebrrreth tyre,t\u00eb cil\u00ebt jan\u00eb edukuar dhe ushqyar me ato proverbat popullore t\u00eb liga,q\u00eb mendojn se femra \u00ebsht\u00eb rob i tyre,dhe kan\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00ebn t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb duan me te, duke harruar se edhe ata ishin t\u00eb ushqyar me gjirin e nj\u00eb femre, q\u00eb quanin N\u00cbN\u00cb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

8 Mars 2023<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Nga Haxhi Zeneli Nj\u00eb popull \u00ebsht\u00eb i \u00e7’liruar kur ai \u00e7’liroh\u00ebt nga mentaliteti i ti i s\u00ebmuar nga bazat diskriminuese ndaj m\u00eb t\u00eb dob\u00ebtit dhe mundoh\u00ebt ta shkfrytzoj\u00eb dhe ta eliminoj\u00eb p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb s\u00ebmundjes s\u00eb egoizmint apo ma\u00e7oizmit t\u00eb ti t\u00eb trashiguar nga t\u00eb par\u00ebt e ti apo rrethit dhe shoq\u00ebris\u00eb se ku ai […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":22330,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"none","_seopress_titles_title":"%%post_title%% %%sep%% %%sitetitle%% %%sep%%","_seopress_titles_desc":"%%post_excerpt%% %%sep%% %%post_category%% %%sep%% %%search_keywords%%","_seopress_robots_index":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[2,12],"tags":[259],"class_list":["post-34511","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aktualitet","category-opinione","tag-haxhi-zeneli"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34511","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=34511"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34511\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":34514,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34511\/revisions\/34514"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/22330"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=34511"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=34511"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=34511"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}