{"id":29224,"date":"2021-06-10T14:08:18","date_gmt":"2021-06-10T12:08:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/?p=29224"},"modified":"2021-06-10T14:08:18","modified_gmt":"2021-06-10T12:08:18","slug":"lamtumire-familjes-tradicionale","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/?p=29224","title":{"rendered":"Lamtumir\u00eb familjes tradicionale"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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Nga Gjek\u00eb Gjonaj<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Familjet  e gjysh\u00ebrve tan\u00eb kishin  dhjet\u00eb e m\u00eb shum\u00eb frym\u00eb (an\u00ebtar\u00eb) q\u00eb jetonin n\u00eb nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpi. Pleq\u00ebria,  f\u00ebmij\u00ebria dhe  rinia bashk\u00ebjetonin me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin. Tri gjenerata (breza): prind\u00ebrit, f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, madje dhe nip\u00ebrit  jetonin s\u00eb bashku. Familjar\u00ebt kishin shum\u00eb respekt, kujdes e solidaritet, dashuri , mir\u00ebkuptim e njer\u00ebzi p\u00ebr nj\u00ebri-tjetrin. T\u00eb gjith\u00eb sa ishin  shkonin mir\u00eb. Marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet familjare ishin t\u00eb q\u00ebndrueshme.  Nuk kishte konflikte t\u00eb shumta, dhun\u00eb n\u00eb familje e shkuror\u00ebzime si dukuri masive.  Jeta e tyre  ishte e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, por e lumtur. K\u00ebshtu ishte dikur, po sot ku ndodhet familja jon\u00eb ?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gjat\u00eb tri dekadave t\u00eb fundit   jemi d\u00ebshmitar\u00eb  t\u00eb nj\u00eb transformimi  shum\u00eb t\u00eb madh  t\u00eb familjes tradicionale n\u00eb Mal\u00ebsi. Ajo q\u00eb vlen t\u00eb theksohet \u00ebsht\u00eb se, n\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb ton\u00eb,  familja  ka humbur kuptimin q\u00eb kishte dikur, si di\u00e7ka e shenjt\u00eb dhe e p\u00ebrjetshme midis an\u00ebtar\u00ebve t\u00eb saj. Modernizimi q\u00eb vijon si proces, po ia humb rolin familjes son\u00eb dhe, sa m\u00eb moderne t\u00eb b\u00ebhet shoq\u00ebria shqiptare, aq m\u00eb shum\u00eb familja do t\u00eb b\u00ebhet nj\u00eb institucion problematik shoq\u00ebror. Tranzicioni  n\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb ton\u00eb,  rrethanat e reja t\u00eb krijuara n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha segmentet e jet\u00ebs ekonomike e shoq\u00ebrore, presionet e vrazhda transformuese t\u00eb realitetit, kan\u00eb  ndikuar q\u00eb familja si formacion themelor, t\u00eb ndryshoj\u00eb  n\u00eb struktur\u00eb, n\u00eb p\u00ebrb\u00ebrje, n\u00eb koncept dhe t\u00eb krijoj\u00eb fizionomi, tipologji, funksione, moral e (pa)p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi tjera brenda familjes. P\u00ebr fat t\u00eb keq familja jon\u00eb tani  ka humbur dhe po e humb dita-dit\u00ebs rolin e saj. Prandaj me keqardhje e  dhimbje mund t\u00eb themi se institucioni i familjes, sikurse  e gjith\u00eb shoq\u00ebria shqiptare, po kalon nj\u00eb kriz\u00eb  t\u00eb madhe, e cila e ka ndryshuar p\u00ebrgjithmon\u00eb fytyr\u00ebn e   familjes tradicionale mal\u00ebsore (shqiptare). Ndryshimet rr\u00ebnj\u00ebsore sociale e ekonomike, si dhe shnd\u00ebrrimi i shoq\u00ebris\u00eb, nga nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri tradicionale ( patriarkale) e mbyllur  n\u00eb nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri  m\u00eb t\u00eb hapur  kan\u00eb krijuar nj\u00eb model t\u00eb ri t\u00eb familjes, i cili nuk ngjan pothuajse n\u00eb asgj\u00eb me vite m\u00eb p\u00ebrpara. Familja po tkurret dhe zvog\u00eblohet nga nj\u00ebra an\u00eb dhe, nga ana tjet\u00ebr, po p\u00ebrjeton nj\u00eb proces pothuajse degradues. Numri i personave p\u00ebr familje ka zbritur n\u00ebn kat\u00ebr  persona, pra \u00e7iftet nuk po riprodhojn\u00eb as vetveten.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

E kaluar \u00ebsht\u00eb tashm\u00eb  familja ku autoriteti i prind\u00ebrit ishte i padiskutuesh\u00ebm. Po ashtu tashm\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e kaluar familja me gjysh, gjyshe, kush\u00ebrinj e kush\u00ebrira. N\u00eb koh\u00ebt e sotme  familja p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsisht p\u00ebrb\u00ebhet vet\u00ebm nga  familja e ngusht\u00eb,   nga prind\u00ebrit dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, duke harruar \u201cfamiljen e zgjeruar\u201d, pjes\u00eb e s\u00eb cil\u00ebs jan\u00eb edhe dajat, hallat, xhaxhallar\u00ebt, tezet, kush\u00ebrinjt\u00eb dhe farefisi, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt, pavar\u00ebsisht se shkencat sociologjike i trajtojn\u00eb si pjes\u00eb t\u00eb familjes, ne i kemi p\u00ebrz\u00ebn\u00eb nga parajsa familjare dhe takohemi vet\u00ebm n\u00eb raste ndodhie. Prej tipit tradicional t\u00eb familjes, q\u00eb ishte nj\u00eb ambient i ngroht\u00eb njer\u00ebzor, social, etik, moral dhe edukativ, familja n\u00eb mas\u00eb t\u00eb madhe \u00ebsht\u00eb duke u shnd\u00ebrruar n\u00eb nj\u00eb anarki sociale, aren\u00eb konfliktesh, me tendenca individualiste e pavar\u00ebsi ekonomike t\u00eb pjes\u00ebtar\u00ebve t\u00eb saj, qofshin ata edhe vet\u00ebm bashk\u00ebshort\u00ebt, pa pjes\u00ebtar\u00eb tjer\u00eb t\u00eb familjes m\u00eb t\u00eb gjer\u00eb. N\u00eb  ndryshimet e struktur\u00ebs s\u00eb familjes  kan\u00eb  ndikuar  duksh\u00ebm disa  faktor\u00eb, si imitimi i vlerave t\u00eb huaja pa seleksionim, z\u00ebvend\u00ebsimi i lidhjeve t\u00eb vjetra dhe ato t\u00eb reja, emigrimet n\u00eb relacion fshat -qytet, r\u00ebnia e natalitetit, kriza e vlerave e cila ka prodhuar kriz\u00eb t\u00eb identitetit, larg\u00ebsia n\u00eb familje, mosrespektimi i familjes nga f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, mungesa e vizitave t\u00eb nd\u00ebrsjella familjare,  problemet dhe konfliktet e ndryshme brenda familjes si rezultat i shkaqeve socio-ekonomike dhe shkaqe  t\u00eb tjera. Karakteristika t\u00eb  kriz\u00ebs q\u00eb vihen re  n\u00eb familjet e sotme  tona  jan\u00eb edhe  zvog\u00eblimi i martesave , q\u00eb n\u00ebnkupton edhe zvog\u00eblimin e lindjeve,  fillimi i  fenomenit t\u00eb bashk\u00ebjetes\u00ebs pa kuror\u00eb  dhe krijimi i lidhjeve t\u00eb paq\u00ebndrueshme q\u00eb n\u00eb disa raste  m\u00eb shpejt p\u00ebrfundojn\u00eb se sa fillojn\u00eb. Ana tjet\u00ebr \u00ebsht\u00eb  se  n\u00ebse sot kemi nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri kryesisht t\u00eb p\u00ebrb\u00ebr\u00eb nga rinia e q\u00eb konsiderohet si e ardhmja e jon\u00eb , dhe  nuk kemi nj\u00eb familje t\u00eb sh\u00ebndosh\u00eb, at\u00ebher\u00eb problemet do t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdha. Nga \u00e7far\u00eb u tha mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrfundojm\u00eb se me sa duket  familjes son\u00eb  tradicionale i \u00ebsht\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb lamtumira.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00eb zon\u00ebn e prapme t\u00eb Plazhit t\u00eb Madh  jan\u00eb evidentuar  22 lokacione ku mbeturinat hidheshin n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb paligjshme. Vler\u00ebsohet se kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb sip\u00ebrfaqe e p\u00ebrgjithshme  prej 26,670 metra katror\u00eb  n\u00ebn mbeturina. Nd\u00ebrsa n\u00eb zon\u00ebn e deg\u00ebs s\u00eb djatht\u00eb t\u00eb lumit Buna  dhe n\u00eb  Ada  ne kemi jan\u00eb regjistruar 73 lokacione ku hidhen  mbeturina, kryesisht mbetje nd\u00ebrtimore dhe mbeturina sht\u00ebpiake. Mbeturinat e nd\u00ebrtimit jan\u00eb t\u00eb pranishme  n\u00eb pothuajse t\u00eb gjitha vendet, nd\u00ebrsa n\u00eb shumic\u00ebn e vendeve jan\u00eb mbetje t\u00eb p\u00ebrziera q\u00eb p\u00ebrfshijn\u00eb mbeturina t\u00eb m\u00ebdha dhe sht\u00ebpiake. \u00c7\u00ebshtja e pastrimit t\u00eb deponive n\u00eb pjes\u00ebn e prapme t\u00eb Plazhit t\u00eb Madh nuk mbulohet nga programi p\u00ebr kryerjen e aktiviteteve komunale n\u00eb zon\u00ebn e t\u00eb Mirave  Detare p\u00ebr territorin e komun\u00ebs s\u00eb Ulqinit, dhe p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye kostot p\u00ebr heqjen e tyre nuk parashikohen. Nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb e plazheve nuk ka n\u00ebnshkruar kontrata me Kompanin\u00eb e Sh\u00ebrbimeve Komunale, duke shmangur k\u00ebshtu detyrimin ndaj k\u00ebsaj kompanie dhe duke hedhur mbeturinat n\u00eb deponin\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb af\u00ebrt ilegale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nuk ka informacion t\u00eb disponueshim   publikisht se dikush u nd\u00ebshkua gjat\u00eb depozitimit t\u00eb mbeturinave n\u00eb k\u00ebto vende nga Inspektimi Komunal ose Policia Komunale, megjith\u00ebse nuk duhet shum\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekje p\u00ebr t\u00eb kapur autor\u00ebt e krimit. N\u00eb zon\u00ebn e Ad\u00ebs n\u00eb Bun\u00eb  dhe rreth deg\u00ebs s\u00eb djatht\u00eb t\u00eb lumit Buna, nuk ka mjaft kontejner\u00eb dhe mbledhja e mbeturinave nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb organizuar. Dometh\u00ebn\u00eb problemi i mbeturinave n\u00eb  k\u00ebt\u00eb lokalitet  \u00ebsht\u00eb  nj\u00eb problem i madh i Komun\u00ebs s\u00eb Ulqinit. P\u00ebr zgjidhjen  e k\u00ebsaj \u00e7\u00ebshtjeje nevojitet bashk\u00ebpunim dhe koordinim nd\u00ebrmjet institucioneve vendore e qendrore.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Nga Gjek\u00eb Gjonaj Familjet  e gjysh\u00ebrve tan\u00eb kishin  dhjet\u00eb e m\u00eb shum\u00eb frym\u00eb (an\u00ebtar\u00eb) q\u00eb jetonin n\u00eb nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpi. Pleq\u00ebria,  f\u00ebmij\u00ebria dhe  rinia bashk\u00ebjetonin me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin. Tri gjenerata (breza): prind\u00ebrit, f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, madje dhe nip\u00ebrit  jetonin s\u00eb bashku. Familjar\u00ebt kishin shum\u00eb respekt, kujdes e solidaritet, dashuri , mir\u00ebkuptim e njer\u00ebzi p\u00ebr nj\u00ebri-tjetrin. T\u00eb gjith\u00eb sa ishin  […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":833,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"","_seopress_titles_title":"","_seopress_titles_desc":"","_seopress_robots_index":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[2,12],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29224","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aktualitet","category-opinione"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29224","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=29224"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29224\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":29225,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29224\/revisions\/29225"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/833"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=29224"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=29224"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=29224"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}