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Nga Gladiola Jorbus<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pjes\u00ebmarrja aktive e gruas n\u00eb jet\u00ebn sociale, artistike dhe politike \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb domosdoshm\u00ebri, sepse gruaja e angazhuar duhet t\u00eb g\u00ebzoj\u00eb rol trajt\u00ebformues n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Grat\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb zonjat dhe din\u00eb si t\u00eb shtr\u00ebngojn\u00eb frer\u00ebt e familjes e t\u00eb profesionit, por ato vihen gjithnj\u00eb n\u00eb pik\u00ebpyetje. Ato lodhen dyfish p\u00ebr t\u00eb realizuar veten dhe kjo k\u00ebrkon energji, impenjim, efektivitet, integritet, p\u00ebrgjegjshm\u00ebri, sens t\u00eb detyr\u00ebs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

 P\u00ebrgjat\u00eb periudhave t\u00eb ndryshme historike kan\u00eb spikatur shum\u00eb heroina apo ikona fem\u00ebrore, por s\u00ebrish grave u duhet t\u00eb dep\u00ebrtojn\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb bot\u00eb q\u00eb mbetet thell\u00ebsisht maskiliste n\u00eb k\u00ebrkesa e mend\u00ebsi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ndon\u00ebse ka pasur nj\u00eb rritje t\u00eb p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsimit t\u00eb grave dhe t\u00eb pranis\u00eb s\u00eb saj n\u00eb strukturat vendimmarr\u00ebse, ato s\u00ebrish mbeten t\u00eb n\u00ebnp\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsuara. Demokracia do t\u00eb merrte plot\u00ebsisht kuptim dhe dinamiz\u00ebm, n\u00ebse politika do t\u2019u kushtonte v\u00ebmendje t\u00eb barabart\u00eb, interesave dhe aft\u00ebsive t\u00eb t\u00eb dyja gjinive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Grat\u00eb duhet t\u00eb g\u00ebzojn\u00eb plot\u00ebsisht t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtat mund\u00ebsi, shanse, detyra dhe t\u00eb drejta me burrat. Ato nuk kan\u00eb pse t\u00eb rivalizojn\u00eb me ta, por t\u00eb shijojn\u00eb lirin\u00eb e t\u00eb shpalosurit t\u00eb kompetenc\u00ebs, pik\u00ebpamjeve e personalitetit t\u00eb tyre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Prezenca e grave n\u00eb jet\u00ebn publike dhe politike \u00ebsht\u00eb e domosdoshme, pa harruar se edhe gruaja mund t’i g\u00ebzoj\u00eb privilegjet e konsideruara mashkullore si\u00e7 jan\u00eb; t\u00eb folurit haptas apo ngritja e z\u00ebrit, kund\u00ebrshtimi a stoicizmi. Gjithmon\u00eb, n\u00ebse ajo nuk ndihet nj\u00eb kukull, por nj\u00eb aktore protagoniste n\u00eb jet\u00ebn publike.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

 Grat\u00eb nuk duhet t\u00eb jen\u00eb marioneta q\u00eb veprojn\u00eb sipas interesave e vullnetit t\u00eb lider\u00ebve apo epror\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre dhe as t\u2019i n\u00ebnshtrohen symbyllazi \u00e7far\u00ebdolloj udh\u00ebzimi q\u00eb u jepet, pavar\u00ebsisht nga niveli i hierarkis\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Perceptimet kufizuese, nepotizmi, ushtrimi i presionit a i dhun\u00ebs, shpeshher\u00eb b\u00ebhen faktor\u00eb penalizues q\u00eb grat\u00eb t\u00eb mos japin maksimumin apo t\u00eb mos demonstrojn\u00eb dot, se cilat jan\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ndaj duhet t\u00eb reshtin s\u00eb qeni thjesht statistika dhe t\u00eb refuzojn\u00eb \u00e7do nism\u00eb q\u00eb komprometon interesin publik.Vall\u00eb, sa syresh do t\u00eb ishin n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb braktisnin privilegjet apo t\u00eb privoheshin nga status quo \u2013 ja e fituar, p\u00ebr t\u00eb mir\u00ebn e p\u00ebrgjithshme ?!  Pyetje retorike.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por s\u2019mund t\u00eb l\u00eb pa cituar Rudyard Kipling, (fitues i Nobelit n\u00eb let\u00ebrsi n\u00eb vitin 1907, autor i vargjeve t\u00eb pap\u00ebrs\u00ebritshme t\u00eb poezis\u00eb \u2018N\u00eb mundsh\u2019) \u2013 i cili shprehej se: \u2018Supozimi i nj\u00eb gruaje \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb i sakt\u00eb se siguria e nj\u00eb burri\u2019.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Politikan\u00ebt e etur p\u00ebr pushtet dhe t\u00eb korruptuar, me nj\u00eb moral t\u00eb dyshimt\u00eb dhe retorik\u00eb mjegulluese kan\u00eb kontribuar n\u00eb ndjenj\u00ebn e fort\u00eb antipolitike t\u00eb krijuar n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri. Ata kan\u00eb pasur nj\u00eb impakt negativ duke ndikuar n\u00eb distancimin e njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb kualifikuar e serioz\u00eb nga politika, n\u00eb humbjen e besimit dhe t\u00eb shpres\u00ebs n\u00eb popull.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

R\u00ebndom jemi m\u00ebsuar me imazhin e politikan\u00ebve meshkuj. Roli dyt\u00ebsor i gruas vazhdon t\u00eb mbetet nj\u00eb dukuri konstante n\u00eb politik\u00eb. Edhe pse qeverit\u00eb jan\u00eb inkurajuar t\u00eb zhvillojn\u00eb strategji p\u00ebr t\u00eb promovuar pjes\u00ebmarrjen e barabart\u00eb t\u00eb grave, p\u00ebrs\u00ebri prezenca e tyre n\u00eb politik\u00eb, nuk evidentohet duksh\u00ebm si p\u00ebrpar\u00ebsi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

 Roli i gruas n\u00eb politik\u00eb konsiderohet pasiv, duke u trajtuar si nj\u00eb objekt, i cili mund t\u00eb shfryt\u00ebzohet mediatikisht, n\u00eb nj\u00eb gar\u00eb t\u00eb pabarabart\u00eb. Madje, ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb qenie e d\u00ebnuar q\u00eb t\u00eb urdh\u00ebrohet nga burra, inferior\u00eb kundrejt saj n\u00eb intelekt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gjithsesi, njer\u00ebzit vazhdojn\u00eb t\u00eb shfaqin p\u00ebrqasje t\u00eb dukshme ndaj stereotipeve, ndaj shoq\u00ebria duhet t\u00eb indinjohet dhe t\u00eb mbaj\u00eb q\u00ebndrim ndaj kujtdo q\u00eb servir imazhin e grave “d\u00ebshtake” apo p\u00ebrbalt figurat fem\u00ebrore.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gjithashtu ia vlen t\u00eb theksosh se grat\u00eb kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb pretendojn\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb nga vetja, t\u00eb mbrojn\u00eb dhe t\u00eb mb\u00ebshtesin nj\u00ebra \u2013 tjetr\u00ebn, duke kujtuar th\u00ebnien e diplomates Madeleine Albright se: \u2018N\u00eb ferr ka nj\u00eb vend t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb p\u00ebr grat\u00eb q\u00eb nuk ndihmojn\u00eb grat\u00eb e tjera\u2019.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Prezenca e gruas jo vet\u00ebm q\u00eb zbut klim\u00ebn politike, por nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht sfidon maskilizmin, promovon vlerat e saj, luan rol ky\u00e7 n\u00eb vendimmarrje p\u00ebr zgjidhjen e problemeve q\u00eb ka shoq\u00ebria; n\u00eb aspektin ekonomik, arsimor apo social.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Potenciali i jasht\u00ebzakonsh\u00ebm i gruas vihet n\u00eb dobi t\u00eb shoq\u00ebris\u00eb, si kontigjent kontributiv q\u00eb jep zgjidhje, rrit kredon, dhe g\u00ebzon ve\u00e7orit\u00eb e duhura. Ajo nuk joshet leht\u00eb nga but\u00ebsia e kolltukut, sepse p\u00ebr nga vet\u00eb natyra, \u00ebsht\u00eb energjike dhe e nd\u00ebrgjegjshme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

K\u00ebt\u00eb ve\u00e7ori e pasqyron sakt\u00eb k\u00ebshilla e nj\u00eb figure shum\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme politike, e shpallur nga revista amerikane \u2018Forbes\u2019, n\u00eb dhjetor t\u00eb viti 2020 si \u2018Gruaja m\u00eb e fuqishme n\u00eb bot\u00eb\u2019, kancelarja gjermane Angela Merkel: \u2018Kush nis t\u00eb punoj\u00eb n\u00eb politik\u00eb, le ta dij\u00eb se parat\u00eb nuk jan\u00eb p\u00ebrpar\u00ebsia m\u00eb e madhe\u2019.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

 Nj\u00eb politikan i v\u00ebrtet\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb ai q\u00eb ambicien e shnd\u00ebrron n\u00eb vendosm\u00ebri, zhg\u00ebnjimin n\u00eb p\u00ebrvoj\u00eb, humbjen n\u00eb m\u00ebsim. Ai karakterizohet nga sensi i p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsis\u00eb, meritokracia, empatia dhe logjika. Dhe k\u00ebto cil\u00ebsi p\u00ebrkojn\u00eb m\u00eb s\u00eb miri me shum\u00eb zonja.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00eb fund t\u00eb fundit: \u2018N\u00ebse doni q\u00eb di\u00e7ka t\u00eb thuhet, k\u00ebrkojani nj\u00eb burri; N\u00ebse doni q\u00eb di\u00e7ka t\u00eb b\u00ebhet, k\u00ebrkojani nj\u00eb gruaje\u2019, – ka th\u00ebn\u00eb Zonja e Hekurt (M. Thatcher).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Politikani i v\u00ebrtet\u00eb synon t\u2019u siguroj\u00eb mund\u00ebsi m\u00eb t\u00eb mira brezave t\u00eb ardhsh\u00ebm. Ai lufton p\u00ebr t\u00eb krijuar nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri m\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb, p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb edhe kund\u00ebrshtar\u00ebt e tij, sepse dinjiteti vjen i pari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

 E kush m\u00eb mir\u00eb se nj\u00eb zonj\u00eb, nj\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb, nj\u00eb mot\u00ebr, nj\u00eb mike, nj\u00eb profesioniste, nj\u00eb grua mund ta realizoj\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb mision ?! Ajo q\u00eb \u00e7do dit\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb saj sh\u00ebrben me dashuri, p\u00ebrballet me sfida pa u ankuar, buz\u00ebqesh pa u dor\u00ebzuar, motivon me shembullin e saj dhe n\u00eb fund ia del.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Nga Gladiola Jorbus Pjes\u00ebmarrja aktive e gruas n\u00eb jet\u00ebn sociale, artistike dhe politike \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb domosdoshm\u00ebri, sepse gruaja e angazhuar duhet t\u00eb g\u00ebzoj\u00eb rol trajt\u00ebformues n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri. Grat\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb zonjat dhe din\u00eb si t\u00eb shtr\u00ebngojn\u00eb frer\u00ebt e familjes e t\u00eb profesionit, por ato vihen gjithnj\u00eb n\u00eb pik\u00ebpyetje. Ato lodhen dyfish p\u00ebr t\u00eb realizuar veten […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":25189,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"","_seopress_titles_title":"","_seopress_titles_desc":"","_seopress_robots_index":"","_seopress_analysis_target_kw":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[2,12],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-28482","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aktualitet","category-opinione"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28482","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=28482"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28482\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":28483,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28482\/revisions\/28483"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/25189"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=28482"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=28482"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=28482"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}