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Refleksion dhjetori mbi botimin e vepr\u00ebs \u201cLideri nuk lind…b\u00ebhet\u201c, me autore Dr . Iris Halilin<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nga Marjana Bulku <\/p>\n\n\n\n


\u00cbsht\u00eb 8 dhjetor 2020 . Nj\u00eb dat\u00eb q\u00eb tri breza(ne, prind\u00ebrit tan\u00eb dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tan\u00eb)e njohin mir\u00eb sepse ia kan\u00eb num\u00ebruar me ankth or\u00ebt e zhurmshme t\u00eb atyre dit\u00ebnet\u00ebve  dim\u00ebrore q\u00eb viteve 90-t\u00eb q\u00eb ndoll\u00ebn pranver\u00ebn e nj\u00eb shprese plot \u00ebndrra lirie duke u b\u00ebr\u00eb protagonist\u00eb t\u00eb saj.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00eb kutin\u00eb time postare gjej librin \u201c Lideri nuk lind …b\u00ebhet\u201d nga Iris Halili, mike dhe bashk\u00ebkoh\u00ebse e viteve studentore n\u00eb Fakultetin Histori -Filologji,  Tiran\u00eb. E marr ta shfletoj rr\u00ebmbimthi edhe pse shum\u00eb nga \u00e7\u00ebshtjet e botuara aty Irisi i ka publikuar n\u00eb shtypin e p\u00ebrditsh\u00ebm , nuk mungojn\u00eb referenca , citime dhe gjykime t\u00eb thelluara mbi teorit\u00eb e lidershipit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Prekem thell\u00ebsisht n\u00eb shpirt kur lexoj se k\u00ebt\u00eb botim ajo ua kushton prind\u00ebrve t\u00eb saj, mbase edhe t\u00eb mijve e ndofta t\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00ebve ne q\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrruam atyre net\u00ebve t\u00eb gjata studentore dhjetori p\u00ebr lirin\u00eb e shum\u00ebpritur e aq shum\u00eb t\u00eb munguar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tashm\u00eb Irisi jeton n\u00eb SHBA, un\u00eb po ashtu, shum\u00eb nga ne u larguam nga atdheu \u201csepse na vdiq shpresa\u201d -si\u00e7 shprehet ajo  , , e fjala na mbeti n\u00eb goj\u00eb\u2026 e path\u00ean\u00eb por gjithmon\u00eb n\u00eb mendje . <\/p>\n\n\n\n

K\u00ebshtu m\u2019u duk se erdhi ky lib\u00ebr ;n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb nat\u00eb plot me kujtime t\u00eb ftohta dhjetori e me ideale t\u00eb pastra , e sh\u00ebmb\u00ebllime \u00ebndrrash e vrullesh rinore. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Teksa e shfletoj ndjej se nga Irisi ish -studente dhjetori ka mbetur po ajo energji , mpreht\u00ebsi gjykimi dhe thell\u00ebsi mendimi q\u00eb vozit lirsh\u00ebm sa n\u00eb let\u00ebrsi po aq edhe n\u00eb mitogji ku duksh\u00ebm bie n\u00eb sy dep\u00ebrtimi n\u00ebp\u00ebr informacionet e pafundme filozofike e k\u00ebrkimore q\u00eb vijn\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyre kon\u00e7ize dhe plot p\u00ebrvoja jet\u00ebsore si dhe ajo prej pune ,duke krijuar k\u00ebshtu nj\u00eb komunikim t\u00eb artikuluar thjesht , bukur ,sakt\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

E lexoj dhe pohoj pareshtur dhe filloj t\u00eb besoj se teoria mund t\u00eb shd\u00ebrrohet  leht\u00ebsisht n\u00eb praktik\u00eb n\u00ebse \u201c rruga drejt lidershipit kalon n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet edukimit, vet\u00ebsh\u00ebrbimit ndaj shpirtit mendjes dhe trupit \u201c- si\u00e7 shprehet ajo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u00eb tej shikoj profilin e Irisit petagoge, me mendimin q\u00eb sulmon me gjykim , me fraz\u00ebn e shkath\u00ebt e t\u00eb zhd\u00ebrvjell\u00ebt q\u00eb i referohet mendjeve q\u00eb udh\u00ebhoq\u00ebn bot\u00ebn me mendim dhe veprim ( Gandi ,Mandela,n\u00ebn\u00eb Tereza) me arsyetimin q\u00eb kultivon maturin\u00eb , logjik\u00ebn sakt\u00ebsin\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nuk ke se si t\u00eb mos i kthehesh dy her\u00eb n\u00eb lexim konceptit t\u00eb Lidershipit toksik ku ajo rendit:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1.Lider\u00ebt e paaft\u00eb<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2.Lider\u00ebt e ngurt\u00eb dhe jofleksib\u00ebl<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Lider\u00ebt  e pap\u00ebrmbajtur<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4.Lider\u00ebt e pashpirt,pa emtati, pa ndjenja<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5.Lider\u00ebt e korruptuar<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6.Lider\u00ebt izolacionalist\u00eb<\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Lider\u00ebt diktator\u00eb <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mjafton ky narracion tiparesh q\u00eb t\u00eb qart\u00ebson edhe pamjen e shoq\u00ebrive ku jetojn\u00eb e veprojn\u00eb k\u00ebto lloj liderash t\u00eb pranish\u00ebm n\u00eb sken\u00ebn politike shqiptare dhe jo vet\u00ebm, \u00e7ka \u00ebsht\u00eb e ngulitur n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb postulare n\u00eb fjal\u00ebt e Kasit tek \u201d Jul Cezari\u201d; -\u201c D\u00ebshtimi i dashur Brut q\u00ebndron te vetja jon\u00eb .<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ky moment dhe shum\u00eb t\u00eb tjera analoge e sjellin Iris Halilin n\u00eb rrafshin e analistes q\u00eb politik\u00ebn dhe shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb me t\u00eb gjitha tiparet kulturore e historike din ti ver\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb rrafsh studimor duke e b\u00ebr\u00eb vepr\u00ebn mjaft t\u00eb dobishme p\u00ebr student\u00ebt, gazetar\u00ebt dhe politikan\u00ebt , p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb dhe p\u00ebr \u00e7do mosh\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb dij\u00eb e t\u00eb mund\u00eb  ta dalloj\u00eb liderin .<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Rasti i Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb nuk solli vet\u00ebm diktatur\u00ebn e eg\u00ebr hoxhiane por edhe Liderin q\u00eb duhet imituar duke pasqyruar k\u00ebshtu n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb tejet emocionale N\u00ebn\u00eb Terez\u00ebn si nj\u00eb nga kat\u00ebr Lideret m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdhenj t\u00eb njer\u00ebzimit p\u00ebrkrah Gandit,Martin Luter Kingut dhe Mandel\u00ebs .Nj\u00eb model frym\u00ebzimi p\u00ebr shum\u00eb shkolla amerikane t\u00eb cilat liderin sh\u00ebrb\u00ebtor e konsiderojn\u00eb si lidership moral q\u00eb udh\u00ebheq p\u00ebrmes shembullit personal plot me vlera e vyrtyte sublime ku n\u00eb thelb q\u00ebndron shpirti human dhe respekti maksimal p\u00ebr njeriun .Ky moment i vepr\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb i mbushur me analiza studimore, p\u00ebrqasje mendimesh, p\u00ebrvoja jet\u00ebsore, fakte historike dhe teologjike ku dominon njer\u00ebzorja Terez\u00eb , arsyje legjitime krenarie p\u00ebr p\u00ebrkat\u00ebsin\u00eb etnike t\u00eb p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebt por edhe m\u00ebkatin e madh po aq t\u00eb p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebt q\u00eb ajo aq pak njihet dhe studjohet n\u00eb shkollat shqiptare . Ky studim \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb version ndryshe q\u00eb Shenjtoren Terez\u00eb e radhit n\u00eb rrafshet m\u00eb t\u00eb larta q\u00eb udh\u00ebheqin njer\u00ebzimin ( Gand, Luter King, Mandel\u00eb).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Po e lexoj duke shkruar k\u00ebt\u00eb lib\u00ebr sonte duke iu afruar asaj q\u00eb duket se mbeti p\u00earher\u00eb n\u00eb rrug\u00ebtim; k\u00ebrkimi i nj\u00eb lideri q\u00eb t\u00eb frym\u00ebzoj\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt t\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrrojn\u00eb .<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A ka ? !<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A do t\u00eb ket\u00eb ? !<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nj\u00eb  dilem\u00eb e cila ne dhe prind\u00ebrit tan\u00eb na mundoi gjat\u00eb, uroj t\u00eb mos jet\u00eb kaq e mundimshme p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tan\u00eb .<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cGjithkush mund t\u00eb b\u00ebhet nj\u00eb lider i mir\u00eb p\u00ebrsa koh\u00eb ata flasin rreth zgjidhjeve \u201c citon Iris Halili si p\u00ebr t\u00eb na e leht\u00ebsuar dilem\u00ebn e gjat\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb nat\u00eb dimri t\u00eb gjat\u00eb kur 30-  vjet m\u00eb par\u00eb belb\u00ebzonte liria. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Marjana Bulku <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Refleksion dhjetori mbi botimin e vepr\u00ebs \u201cLideri nuk lind…b\u00ebhet\u201c, me autore Dr . Iris Halilin Nga Marjana Bulku  \u00cbsht\u00eb 8 dhjetor 2020 . Nj\u00eb dat\u00eb q\u00eb tri breza(ne, prind\u00ebrit tan\u00eb dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tan\u00eb)e njohin mir\u00eb sepse ia kan\u00eb num\u00ebruar me ankth or\u00ebt e zhurmshme t\u00eb atyre dit\u00ebnet\u00ebve  dim\u00ebrore q\u00eb viteve 90-t\u00eb q\u00eb ndoll\u00ebn pranver\u00ebn e […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":19884,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"","_seopress_titles_title":"","_seopress_titles_desc":"","_seopress_robots_index":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[2,6,12],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-27676","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aktualitet","category-kulture","category-opinione"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27676","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=27676"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27676\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":27677,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27676\/revisions\/27677"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/19884"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=27676"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=27676"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=27676"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}