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<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\nGjek\u00eb\nGjonaj<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Martsesa n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi\nkonsiderohet si nj\u00eb dit\u00eb e lumtur n\u00eb\njet\u00ebn e njeriut. N\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb shqiptare tradicionale dita kur dy t\u00eb fejuar ( djali dhe vajza) kan\u00eb vendosur \nt\u00eb kuror\u00ebzohen dhe t\u00eb n\u00ebnshkruajn\u00eb aktin e martes\u00ebs, p\u00ebrve\u00e7\nsi dit\u00eb g\u00ebzimi \u00ebsht\u00eb konsideruar nj\u00eb\ndit\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme, madje vendimtare. Jo\nm\u00eb kot ne shqiptar\u00ebt brez pas brezi kemi p\u00ebrdorur th\u00ebnien popullore\nkuptimplote \u201c Me martes\u00eb, ose pshton ose\nmaron!\u201d. N\u00eb monetin kur themi \u201c Po, pranoj\u201d t\u00eb fejuarin ( fejuar\u00ebn) tim(e) p\u00ebr burr ose grua, nuk i kemi dh\u00ebn\u00eb bes\u00ebn (\nfjal\u00ebn) vet\u00ebm nj\u00ebri-tjetrit por edhe \nfamiljes, prind\u00ebrve dhe Zotit ( Per\u00ebndis\u00eb) se do t\u00eb trajtom\u00eb mir\u00eb \nnj\u00ebri-tjetrin . <\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00ebse nuk e dim\u00eb ose kemi harruar 9 shkurti njiihet si Dita Nd\u00ebrkomb\u00ebtare e Martes\u00ebs.\nKjo dit\u00eb n\u00eb mbar\u00eb bot\u00eb i kushtohet dashuris\u00eb se \u00e7iftit martesor, gruas dhe burrit si\nshtylla kryesore t\u00eb familjes. Ideja e sh\u00ebnimit t\u00eb dit\u00ebs bot\u00ebrore t\u00eb lidhjes martesore ka filluar n\u00eb shtetin amerkan Louisiana n\u00eb vitin 1981 dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb zyrtarizuar dy vite m\u00eb von\u00eb si Dita Bot\u00ebrore e Martes\u00ebs , ( anglisht World\nMarriage Day), me q\u00ebllim q\u00eb \u00e7do vit n\u00eb mbar\u00eb bot\u00ebn t\u00eb sh\u00ebnohet \njav\u00ebn e dyt\u00eb t\u00eb muajit shkurt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kjo dit\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb simbolike synon t\u2019i nxis\u00eb njer\u00ebzit ( \u00e7iftet) q\u00eb sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb martohen ( kuror\u00ebzohen ) dhe k\u00ebshtu r\u00eb krijojn\u00eb familje, t\u00eb lindin\nf\u00ebmij\u00eb dhe t\u00eb trasgh\u00ebgohen. Mir\u00ebpo\nvet\u00ebm nj\u00eb dit\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e mjaftueshme q\u00eb t\u00eb\nruhet martesa, por mjafton q\u00eb t\u00eb njihen\nvlerat e martes\u00ebs. Vlerat e\nmartes\u00ebs, pavar\u00ebsisht proceseve\nshoq\u00ebrore, ekonomike dhe demografike q\u00eb prekin \nfamiljet shqiptare n\u00eb Mal t\u00eb Zi \nmendoj se p\u00ebr fat t\u00eb mir\u00eb ende mund t\u00eb thuhet se ruhen vlerat tradicionale t\u00eb martes\u00ebs, t\u00eb\nfamiljes sikurse edhe raportet mes gruas dhe burrit , m\u00eb pastaj edhe\nprind\u00ebrit ndaj f\u00ebmij\u00ebs. Familja shqiptare n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb shtet, i cili ka\nndryshuar sikur t\u00eb gjitha vendet tjera\nevropiane e bot\u00ebrore, d\u00ebshiron t\u00eb\nruaj fenomenin e martes\u00ebs , q\u00eb pa m\u00eb t\u00eb\nvoglin dyshim, \u00ebsht\u00eb esenca e\nfamiljes dhe shoq\u00ebris\u00eb, e cila \nmund t\u00eb sh\u00ebrbej\u00eb edhe p\u00ebr shkat\u00ebrrimin e familjes . Ajo po p\u00ebrpiqet\nq\u00eb t\u2019i p\u00ebrballoj\u00eb sfidat e koh\u00ebs dhe\nt\u00eb mbetet qeliz\u00eb kryesore shoq\u00ebris\u00eb . T\u00eb promovoj\u00eb martes\u00ebn, vlerat e saj dhe t\u00eb familjes, nxitjen e\nbarazis\u00eb midis grave dhe burrave n\u00eb\nfamilje, mbrojtjen e familjes si nj\u00eb baz\u00eb \ne shoq\u00ebris\u00eb dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndihmuar familjet p\u00ebr t\u00eb\np\u00ebrmbushur p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsin\u00eb e tyre p\u00ebr komunitetin. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Po, sa t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb shqiptar\u00eb sot\nvendosin lidhje martesore dhe cila \u00ebsht\u00eb mosha e hyrjes s\u00eb tyre n\u00eb martes\u00eb? N\u00eb munges\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00eb\nhulumtimi ( studimi) t\u00eb evolucionit t\u00eb martes\u00ebs n\u00eb Mal t\u00eb Zi nuk mund t\u00eb japim\np\u00ebrgjigje t\u00eb sakt\u00eb. Por, bazuar n\u00eb\nnjohurit\u00eb ( informacionet) tona nga\np\u00ebrditshm\u00ebria jon\u00eb , numri i martesave n\u00eb familjet shqiptare sidomos n\u00eb dy dekadat e fundit t\u00eb shekullit\nXXI ka sh\u00ebnuar r\u00ebnie t\u00eb theksuar.Nd\u00ebrsa mosha e martes\u00ebs shkon vazhdimisht duke u rritur p\u00ebr t\u00eb dy\ngjinit\u00eb. Si pasoj\u00eb e k\u00ebsaj n\u00eb vendbanimet me popullat\u00eb shqiptare n\u00eb Mal t\u00eb Zi\nsot kemi shum\u00eb vajza e djem t\u00eb pamartuar t\u00eb mosh\u00ebs mbi 30 vje\u00e7. N\u00eb disa fshatra shqiptare ndodh t\u00eb ket\u00eb nj\u00eb ose dy dasma n\u00eb vit, madje\nmjerisht edhe asnj\u00eb. Le t\u00eb sh\u00ebrbej\u00eb ky\nshkrim si nxitje dhe inkurajim q\u00eb rinia\njon\u00eb t\u00eb mos \u201c dor\u00ebzohet\u201d \nnga zhvillimi ekonomik, social e\nkulturor i vendit. Por t\u00eb martohen , jo thjesht\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrmbushur nj\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje\n( histori) dashurie, nj\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00eb t\u00eb\nzjarrt\u00eb , por nj\u00eb harmoni t\u00eb shum\u00eb gj\u00ebrave t\u00eb ndryshme. \u201c Martesa \u00ebsht\u00eb pak m\u00eb\nshum\u00eb se nj\u00eb violin, pasi muzka e bukur p\u00ebrfundon dhe telat jan\u00eb t\u00eb ngjitur\u2026\u201d\n\u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00ebra nd\u00ebr th\u00ebniet e bukura t\u00eb martes\u00ebs<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Gjek\u00eb Gjonaj Martsesa n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi konsiderohet si nj\u00eb dit\u00eb e lumtur n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e njeriut. N\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb shqiptare tradicionale dita kur dy t\u00eb fejuar ( djali dhe vajza) kan\u00eb vendosur t\u00eb kuror\u00ebzohen dhe t\u00eb n\u00ebnshkruajn\u00eb aktin e martes\u00ebs, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 si dit\u00eb g\u00ebzimi \u00ebsht\u00eb konsideruar nj\u00eb dit\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme, madje vendimtare. Jo m\u00eb kot ne shqiptar\u00ebt […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":24884,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"","_seopress_titles_title":"","_seopress_titles_desc":"","_seopress_robots_index":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[2,12],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-24883","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aktualitet","category-opinione"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24883","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=24883"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24883\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":24885,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24883\/revisions\/24885"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/24884"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=24883"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=24883"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=24883"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}