{"id":24196,"date":"2019-11-11T12:37:42","date_gmt":"2019-11-11T11:37:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/?p=24196"},"modified":"2019-11-11T12:37:57","modified_gmt":"2019-11-11T11:37:57","slug":"hipokrizia-vecori-e-njerezimit-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/?p=24196","title":{"rendered":"Hipokrizia, ve\u00e7ori e njer\u00ebzimit"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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Ilustrim<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n

Nga Gladiola Jorbus<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz pohojn\u00eb se asgj\u00eb nuk i shqet\u00ebson m\u00eb shum\u00eb sesa hipokrizia. Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb pjes\u00eb e jet\u00ebs son\u00eb, por ndoshta jo t\u00eb gjith\u00eb e din\u00eb, q\u00eb hipokrit\u00eb quheshin aktor\u00ebt n\u00eb Greqin\u00eb e Lasht\u00eb. N\u00eb fakt ishin aktor\u00ebt e dyt\u00eb, ata q\u00eb studionin dhe imitonin t\u00eb par\u00ebt (aktor\u00ebt) p\u00ebr t\u00eb simuluar m\u00ebnyrat dhe gjestet, q\u00ebndrimet dhe argumentet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pra dhe personi hipokrit imiton, simulon, kopjon dik\u00eb tjet\u00ebr, por vjen nj\u00eb moment kur d\u00ebshton. Pse? Sepse ai nuk e njeh autenticitetin e qenies, ndon\u00ebse flet me leht\u00ebsi p\u00ebr t\u00eb. Ai nuk e ka provuar at\u00eb udh\u00ebtim t\u00eb brendsh\u00ebm n\u00eb t\u00eb cilin njeriu rrug\u00ebton p\u00ebr t\u2019u rritur e zhvilluar; hipokriti ka mbetur larg vetes, larg thelbit t\u00eb tij, ai nuk ka arritur t\u00eb shoh\u00eb brendin\u00eb.
Kaq shum\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00ebsuar me g\u00ebnjeshtr\u00ebn e tij sa i \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00ebnshtruar krejt\u00ebsisht asaj. A ekziston vall\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00e7ast i caktuar kur nj\u00eb rreze drite mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrshkoj\u00eb shpirtin e tij apo t\u00eb pohoj\u00eb para Zotit se \u00ebsht\u00eb i dyzuar midis g\u00ebnjeshtr\u00ebs dhe fajit ?!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hipokrizia \u00ebsht\u00eb cil\u00ebsia e atij personi q\u00eb pretendon se ka besime, opinione, virtyte, ideale, ndjenja, emocione q\u00eb n\u00eb realitet nuk i g\u00ebzon aspak. Kjo ndodh kur hipokriti p\u00ebrpiqet t\u00eb mashtroj\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt me gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb nuk e zot\u00ebron.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cbsht\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme t\u00eb dallosh hipokrizin\u00eb n\u00eb konturimin e nj\u00eb personi t\u00eb paaft\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb i virtytsh\u00ebm, i ndersh\u00ebm dhe me integritet. Mbi t\u00eb gjitha kjo kategori njer\u00ebzish ndien nj\u00eb ambicie e zili t\u00eb paskrupullt, e cila p\u00ebrzihet me vlerat e miq\u00ebsis\u00eb dhe t\u00eb njer\u00ebzill\u00ebkut, duke risjell\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb vazhdim\u00ebsi t\u00eb pand\u00ebrprer\u00eb imazhet hipokrite t\u00eb Jagos s\u00eb Shekspirit apo t\u00eb Tartufit t\u00eb Molierit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hipokrizia \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nga sjelljet m\u00eb t\u00eb rrezikshme dhe t\u00eb d\u00ebmshme t\u00eb cil\u00ebn mund ta hasim n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e p\u00ebrditshme; por \u00e7far\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb sakt\u00ebsisht termi “hipokrizi”? Cili \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrkufizimi i tij?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fjala vjen nga greqishtja “ipocrisis” dhe do t\u00eb thot\u00eb “simulim\u201d, hypi (n\u00ebn) + krinein (gjykoj). N\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, hipokrizia ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me tem\u00ebn e simulimit, t\u00eb g\u00ebnjeshtr\u00ebs, vet\u00ebm se sot vendi i saj nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb teat\u00ebr, por \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00eb skena e jet\u00ebs dhe e ekzistenc\u00ebs njer\u00ebzore.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hipokriti \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb thelb nj\u00eb qenie e pasigurt dhe e bindur se nuk ka aft\u00ebsit\u00eb e nevojshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbajtur nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie t\u00eb barabart\u00eb me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt; p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye ka qepur nj\u00eb mask\u00eb sociale p\u00ebr ta b\u00ebr\u00eb veten t\u00eb pranuesh\u00ebm dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbizot\u00ebruar e p\u00ebr t\u00eb marr\u00eb p\u00ebrpar\u00ebsi, derisa t\u00eb arrij\u00eb ose t\u00eb imponoj\u00eb p\u00ebrfundimisht at\u00eb q\u00eb d\u00ebshiron.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Megjithat\u00eb ashtu si g\u00ebnjeshtar\u00ebt, ata kan\u00eb shenjat e nevojshme p\u00ebr t\u2019i dalluar. P\u00ebr m\u00eb tep\u00ebr, gjuha e trupit rr\u00ebfen t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn: hipokrit\u00ebt tentojn\u00eb t’i fshehin duart n\u00eb xhepa, buz\u00ebqeshja e tyre nuk p\u00ebrfshin t\u00eb gjith\u00eb muskujt e fytyr\u00ebs, por vet\u00ebm ata t\u00eb goj\u00ebs, nd\u00ebrsa syt\u00eb e tyre, edhe pse t\u00eb l\u00ebvizsh\u00ebm, rrall\u00eb ndeshin n\u00eb syt\u00eb e bashk\u00ebbiseduesve.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hipokrizia ka qen\u00eb tem\u00eb e spikatur e folklorit dhe e let\u00ebrsis\u00eb popullore q\u00eb n\u00eb hapat e para t\u00eb njer\u00ebzimit. Gjithnj\u00eb e m\u00eb shum\u00eb, hipokrizia \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb subjekt i parap\u00eblqyer edhe p\u00ebr studime n\u00eb fusha t\u00eb ndryshme si: ekonomia, politika, religjioni, psikologjia kulturore, vendimmarrja, etika, psikologjia, sociologjia etj. Ka shembuj t\u00eb pakufizuar t\u00eb k\u00ebtij lloji t\u00eb sjelljes n\u00eb historin\u00eb njer\u00ebzore dhe n\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb e sotme. N\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb bot\u00ebn, akti i hipokrizis\u00eb kritikohet e gjykohet; pavar\u00ebsisht k\u00ebsaj, ai gjen terren t\u00eb praktikohet n\u00eb vijim\u00ebsi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gazetari amerikan Michael Gerson (ish drejtues i zyr\u00ebs s\u00eb fjalimeve t\u00eb Presidentit Xhorxh Bush – i riu) thot\u00eb se hipokrizia politike \u00ebsht\u00eb “p\u00ebrdorimi i vet\u00ebdijsh\u00ebm i nj\u00eb maske p\u00ebr t\u00eb mashtruar publikun dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb pasur p\u00ebrfitime politike”. E th\u00ebn\u00eb kjo nga nj\u00eb gazetar q\u00eb ka hartuar fjalime politikan\u00ebsh ting\u00ebllon e besueshme si drita e diellit. Dhe politika \u00ebsht\u00eb mish\u00ebrimi m\u00eb real dhe m\u00eb i plot\u00eb i k\u00ebsaj dukurie t\u00eb p\u00ebrbotshme q\u00eb quhet hipokrizi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00eb fakt, hipokrizia n\u00eb p\u00ebrditshm\u00ebri \u00ebsht\u00eb po aq e natyrshme p\u00ebr njer\u00ebzit sa dhe frym\u00ebmarrja. Prind\u00ebrit k\u00ebshillojn\u00eb e urdh\u00ebrojn\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt t\u00eb sillen, ashtu si\u00e7 ata vet\u00eb nuk jan\u00eb sjell\u00eb ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb; klerik\u00ebt predikojn\u00eb vlera q\u00eb vet\u00eb ndoshta nuk i zot\u00ebrojn\u00eb, m\u00ebsuesit mundohen t\u00eb servirin modele q\u00eb s\u2019i kan\u00eb ndjekur dot etj., apo si\u00e7 e p\u00ebrkufizon hipokrizin\u00eb nj\u00eb proverb aziatik: \u201cTeksa goja i lutet Bud\u00ebs, shpirti i falet djallit\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

K\u00ebshtu q\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb do t\u00eb rrethohemi nga dyfytyr\u00ebshit t\u00eb cil\u00ebt nuk do t\u00eb reshtin s\u00eb qeni ambig\u00eb me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, por edhe me veten. Kjo ndotje shpirt\u00ebrore e kakofoni sociale q\u00eb buron nga zemra duhet t\u00eb sh\u00ebrohet dhe secili ta pranoj\u00eb veten p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hipokriti d\u00ebshiron medoemos t\u00eb merret n\u00eb konsiderat\u00eb. Ai nuk kujdeset p\u00ebr vlerat e v\u00ebrteta n\u00ebse ato nuk e \u00e7ojn\u00eb drejt suksesit. Hipokriti nuk shqet\u00ebsohet n\u00ebse ato q\u00eb ai ndjek dhe p\u00ebrqafon jan\u00eb vlera t\u00eb rreme, mjafton q\u00eb atij t’i japin nderim dhe k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi personale me t\u00eb cilat t\u00eb mburret.
Sipas Bibl\u00ebs, hipokrizia nuk lindi midis qenieve njer\u00ebzore, por u shfaq p\u00ebrmes nj\u00eb krijes\u00eb shpirt\u00ebrore t\u00eb padukshme. N\u00eb agim t\u00eb historis\u00eb njer\u00ebzore, Satanai p\u00ebrdori nj\u00eb gjarp\u00ebr si maskim dhe duke pretenduar se kishte q\u00ebllime t\u00eb mira mashtroi gruan e par\u00eb, Ev\u00ebn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Q\u00eb at\u00ebher\u00eb shum\u00eb qenie njer\u00ebzore kan\u00eb pretenduar se ishin ato q\u00eb nuk qen\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u00eb mashtruar t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb realizuar synimet e tyre egoiste. Sa her\u00eb e humbasim besimin dhe entuziazmin, kur kuptojm\u00eb dhe p\u00ebrballemi haptazi me faktin se bota \u00ebsht\u00eb e veshur me nepotiz\u00ebm, urrejtje, falsitet, antagoniz\u00ebm dhe xhelozi!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Aktualishthipokrizia \u00ebsht\u00eb shnd\u00ebrruar n\u00eb alter ego t\u00eb veprimtaris\u00eb njer\u00ebzore dhe p\u00ebrqasja e saj ndaj brezave t\u00eb rinj sa vjen e b\u00ebhet m\u00eb e theksuar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Me zhg\u00ebnjim dhe dyshim mund t\u00eb ngrem\u00eb pyetjen, n\u00ebse hipokrizia do t\u00eb zhduket ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb apo do t\u00eb jet\u00eb bashkudh\u00ebtare e njeriut, p\u00ebr aq koh\u00eb sa Toka do t\u00eb rrotullohet rreth Diellit ?!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Nga Gladiola Jorbus Shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz pohojn\u00eb se asgj\u00eb nuk i shqet\u00ebson m\u00eb shum\u00eb sesa hipokrizia. Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb pjes\u00eb e jet\u00ebs son\u00eb, por ndoshta jo t\u00eb gjith\u00eb e din\u00eb, q\u00eb hipokrit\u00eb quheshin aktor\u00ebt n\u00eb Greqin\u00eb e Lasht\u00eb. N\u00eb fakt ishin aktor\u00ebt e dyt\u00eb, ata q\u00eb studionin dhe imitonin t\u00eb par\u00ebt (aktor\u00ebt) p\u00ebr t\u00eb simuluar m\u00ebnyrat dhe […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":24197,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"","_seopress_titles_title":"","_seopress_titles_desc":"","_seopress_robots_index":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[2,12],"tags":[2186,2538],"class_list":["post-24196","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aktualitet","category-opinione","tag-gladiola-jorbus","tag-hipokrizia"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24196","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=24196"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24196\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":24199,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24196\/revisions\/24199"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/24197"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=24196"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=24196"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=24196"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}