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\"Prrinderit-dhe-femija\"<\/a>Sh(fuqizimi) i prind\u00ebrve\u00a0 lidhur me disiplin\u00ebn dhe moszbatimin\u00a0 e saj nga ana e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs<\/strong> – ND\u00cbRRIMI I ROLELE<\/strong><\/p>\n

Shkruan: Arlinda Sukaliqi:<\/p>\n

Q\u00ebllimi i \u00e7do prind\u00ebri \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrgatitja e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs s\u00eb vet p\u00ebr nj\u00eb jet\u00eb\u00a0 t\u00eb pavarur n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri..Prind\u00ebrit duhet t\u00eb jen\u00eb ato q\u00eb duan f\u00ebmij\u00ebn e vet\u00eb dhe t\u00eb interesohen p\u00ebr mir\u00ebq\u00ebnien e tyre m\u00eb shum\u00eb se askush.P\u00ebr t\u00eb arriur k\u00ebt\u00eb ato f\u00ebmij\u00ebs duhet t\u2019i falin shum\u00eb dashuri,q\u00eb ata t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtojn\u00eb figur\u00ebn pozitive p\u00ebr vetv\u00ebten,dhe duke qen\u00eb k\u00ebshtu ato t\u00eb cil\u00ebt neser do jen\u00eb t\u00eb gatsh\u00ebm t\u00eb p\u00ebrballen n\u00eb sfidat e jetes.P\u00ebrve\u00e7 dashuris, detyr\u00eb e prinderit \u00ebsht\u00eb dhe diciplina t\u00eb cilen duhet ta ushtroj ndaj f\u00ebmij\u00ebs me an\u00eb t\u00eb s\u00eb cil\u00ebs f\u00ebmij\u00ebn do ta “detyroj” t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e dobishme ,por n\u00eb t\u00eb shumt\u00ebn e rasteve jo e k\u00ebnaqshme p\u00ebr f\u00ebmijen ,sepse k\u00ebshtu vendoset\u00a0 kufiri mes asaj q\u00eb quhet e lejushme dhe jo e lejushme.Duke pasur diciplin\u00eb ndaj f\u00ebmijes ,prinderit e m\u00ebsojn\u00eb f\u00ebmiun \u00e7ka ka t\u00eb lejuar dhe \u00e7far\u00eb duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb.Kur f\u00ebmij\u00ebs ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb nuk i lejohet di\u00e7ka q\u00eb ai p\u00eblqen shpesh her\u00eb b\u00ebn\u00eb rezistenc\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos zbatuar “urdh\u00ebrin”,at\u00ebher\u00eb gj\u00ebndja b\u00ebh\u00ebt me serioze\u00a0 dhe duke mos praktikuar rregullat ai d\u00ebnohet dhe fizikisht..D\u00ebnimet fizike jan\u00eb t\u00eb sh\u00ebmtuara\u00a0 dhe jo t\u00eb k\u00ebndshme\u00a0 dhe p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsojn\u00eb\u00a0 p\u00ebrdorim t\u00eb forc\u00ebs\u00a0 por nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e nj\u00ebjt\u00eb si ai q\u00eb quhet shp\u00ebrdorim fizik\u00eb ose dhun\u00eb.Nd\u00ebshkimi fizik llogaritet p.sh kur prind\u00ebri nj\u00eb her\u00eb q\u00ebllojn\u00eb f\u00ebmijen e vet\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb pasmen e tyre m\u00eb nj\u00eb shuplak t\u00eb vog\u00ebl ,por kjo nuk kupton\u00a0 veprimtarin\u00eb e vazhdushme e dhun\u00ebs ndaj f\u00ebmij\u00ebs.<\/p>\n

Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb\u00a0 q\u00eb prind\u00ebrit gjithmon\u00eb dhe n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha moshat\u00a0 mund ta detyrojn\u00eb f\u00ebmijen\u00a0 t\u00eb nderroj sjellje vet\u00ebm m\u00eb an\u00eb t\u00eb metodave t\u00eb dhunshme, sepse shpesh her\u00eb situata m\u00eb e vog\u00ebl ose masa m\u00eb e vog\u00ebl e zbatimit t\u00eb nj\u00eb dicipline q\u00eb urdh\u00ebron prind\u00ebri t\u00eb zbatohet nga f\u00ebmija cil\u00ebsohet nga shum\u00eb vet si n\u00eb dhun\u00eb e “fuqishmit’ ndaj t\u00eb “pafuqishmit”…N\u00eb koh\u00ebn e sotme gj\u00ebrat kan\u00eb ndryshuar dhe shpesh her\u00eb prind\u00ebrve u merret e drejta\u00a0 e asht\u00ebquajtur\u00ebs vetkontrollimi i f\u00ebmij\u00ebs ndaj zbatimit t\u00eb diciplines q\u00eb ato urdh\u00ebrojn\u00eb .N\u00eb kund\u00ebrshtim m\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb prinderit n\u00eb t\u00eb shumt\u00ebn e rasteve mendojn\u00eb se m\u00ebnyra si “lutja”nuk funksionon dhe\u00a0\u00a0 \u00ebsht\u00eb metod\u00eb e d\u00ebshtuar ,m\u00eb an\u00eb t\u00eb s\u00ebciles nuk mund t\u00eb arrij\u00eb asgj\u00eb dhe zgjedhj\u00ebn e sheh n\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb tjet\u00ebr.N\u00eb an\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr shum\u00eb vende t\u00eb tjera evropiane i d\u00ebnojn\u00eb veprimet e tilla\u00a0 duke shfuqizuar prind\u00ebrit m\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb m\u00eb d\u00ebnime.Nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb pakta vendet ku veprimet e tilla i denojn\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00eb duke larguar f\u00ebmijen nga prinderit dhe d\u00ebrguar n\u00eb q\u00ebndrat sociale edhe pse prind\u00ebri nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb i vetmi fajtor n\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb histori…Duke u rritur f\u00ebmija n\u00eb nj\u00eb mosh\u00eb q\u00eb di vet t\u00eb drejtat e tija shpesh her\u00eb shfaq nj\u00eb mosp\u00ebrfillje dhe mosrespekt ndaj prind\u00ebrit duke marr\u00eb shkas nga ajo q\u00eb ka par\u00eb ose d\u00ebgjuar lidhur me d\u00ebnimet fizike apo t\u00eb tjera.Nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb pakta rastet kur f\u00ebmija i b\u00ebn\u00eb shantazh prind\u00ebrit duke ju drejtuar m\u00eb fjal\u00eb si “nuk dua dhe pik\u00eb,dhe \u00e7far\u00eb mund t\u00eb m\u00eb b\u00ebsh,hajt vet\u00ebm guxo t\u00eb m\u00eb godas\u00ebsh”.M\u00eb fjal\u00eb t\u00eb tjera f\u00ebmija i b\u00ebn\u00eb me dije prinderit se ai s\u2019ka m\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00eb t\u00eb zbatoj diciplinen si ai deshiron por \u00ebsht\u00eb i detyruar q\u00eb t\u00eb nd\u00ebrroj rolet duke u sh\u00ebndrruar n\u00eb “t\u00eb mosfuqishmin” e f\u00ebmija si “i fuqishmi”…Sa \u00ebsht\u00eb efektive kjo vihet pyetja???Shpesh her\u00eb f\u00ebmijet\u00a0 n\u00eb mosh\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe abuzojn\u00eb m\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb fuqi e t\u00eb drejt\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00ebpruar, ku nuk\u00a0 mungojn\u00eb spekulimet e shumta ,g\u00ebnjeshtrat,akuzat e rrejshme ,manipulimet ndaj prinderve.<\/p>\n

Nj\u00eb dukuri \u00ebsht\u00eb v\u00ebrtetuar se dhenia shum\u00eb e t\u00eb drejtave,\u00a0 f\u00ebmijes dhe shfuqizimi i prind\u00ebrve ndaj zbatimit t\u00eb diciplin\u00ebs dhe asaj q\u00eb ato e mendojn\u00eb si efektive p\u00ebr f\u00ebmijen e vet\u00eb shpesh her\u00eb sh\u00ebndrrohet n\u00eb nj\u00eb histori jo m\u00eb fundim t\u00eb mir\u00eb,k\u00ebt\u00eb e v\u00ebrtetojm\u00eb nga shum\u00eb m\u00ebsues t\u00eb cil\u00ebt vertetojn\u00eb\u00a0 q\u00eb f\u00ebmijet m\u00eb agresiv,m\u00eb t\u00eb dhunsh\u00ebm, m\u00eb pak edukues jan\u00eb ata f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebt asnj\u00ebher\u00eb\u00a0 nuk jan\u00eb d\u00ebnuar m\u00eb asgj\u00eb dhe i jan\u00eb plot\u00ebsuar t\u00eb gjitha kapri\u00e7ot e veta..Prandaj vihet pyetja sa \u00ebsht\u00eb e drejt\u00eb q\u00eb prind\u00ebrve t\u2019u mos l\u00ebjohet\u00a0 e drejta p\u00ebr ndonj\u00eb d\u00ebnim qoft\u00eb ai i \u00e7fardo lloji?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Sh(fuqizimi) i prind\u00ebrve\u00a0 lidhur me disiplin\u00ebn dhe moszbatimin\u00a0 e saj nga ana e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs – ND\u00cbRRIMI I ROLELE Shkruan: Arlinda Sukaliqi: Q\u00ebllimi i \u00e7do prind\u00ebri \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrgatitja e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs s\u00eb vet p\u00ebr nj\u00eb jet\u00eb\u00a0 t\u00eb pavarur n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri..Prind\u00ebrit duhet t\u00eb jen\u00eb ato q\u00eb duan f\u00ebmij\u00ebn e vet\u00eb dhe t\u00eb interesohen p\u00ebr mir\u00ebq\u00ebnien e tyre m\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2385,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"","_seopress_titles_title":"","_seopress_titles_desc":"","_seopress_robots_index":"","_seopress_analysis_target_kw":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[11],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2384","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-sociale"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2384","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2384"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2384\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2386,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2384\/revisions\/2386"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/2385"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2384"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2384"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2384"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}