{"id":22526,"date":"2019-05-04T12:00:45","date_gmt":"2019-05-04T10:00:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/?p=22526"},"modified":"2019-05-04T12:01:02","modified_gmt":"2019-05-04T10:01:02","slug":"hipokrizia-vecori-e-njerezimit","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/?p=22526","title":{"rendered":"Hipokrizia, ve\u00e7ori e njer\u00ebzimit"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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Nga Gladiola Jorbus<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Shum\u00eb\nnjer\u00ebz pohojn\u00eb se asgj\u00eb nuk i shqet\u00ebson m\u00eb shum\u00eb sesa hipokrizia. Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb\npjes\u00eb e jet\u00ebs son\u00eb, por ndoshta jo t\u00eb gjith\u00eb e din\u00eb, q\u00eb hipokrit\u00eb quheshin\naktor\u00ebt n\u00eb Greqin\u00eb e Lasht\u00eb. N\u00eb fakt ishin aktor\u00ebt e dyt\u00eb, ata q\u00eb studionin dhe\nimitonin t\u00eb par\u00ebt (aktor\u00ebt) p\u00ebr t\u00eb simuluar m\u00ebnyrat dhe gjestet, q\u00ebndrimet dhe\nargumentet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pra dhe\npersoni hipokrit imiton, simulon, kopjon dik\u00eb tjet\u00ebr, por vjen nj\u00eb moment kur d\u00ebshton.\nPse? Sepse ai nuk e njeh autenticitetin e qenies, ndon\u00ebse flet me leht\u00ebsi p\u00ebr t\u00eb.\nAi nuk e ka provuar at\u00eb udh\u00ebtim t\u00eb brendsh\u00ebm n\u00eb t\u00eb cilin njeriu rrug\u00ebton p\u00ebr\nt\u2019u rritur e zhvilluar; hipokriti ka mbetur larg vetes, larg thelbit t\u00eb tij, ai\nnuk ka arritur t\u00eb shoh\u00eb brendin\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kaq shum\u00eb\n\u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00ebsuar me g\u00ebnjeshtr\u00ebn e tij sa i \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00ebnshtruar krejt\u00ebsisht asaj. A\nekziston vall\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00e7ast i caktuar kur nj\u00eb rreze drite mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrshkoj\u00eb\nshpirtin e tij apo t\u00eb pohoj\u00eb para Zotit se \u00ebsht\u00eb i dyzuar midis g\u00ebnjeshtr\u00ebs dhe\nfajit ?!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

 Hipokrizia\n\u00ebsht\u00eb cil\u00ebsia e atij personi q\u00eb pretendon se ka besime, opinione, virtyte,\nideale, ndjenja, emocione q\u00eb n\u00eb realitet nuk i g\u00ebzon aspak. Kjo ndodh kur hipokriti\np\u00ebrpiqet t\u00eb mashtroj\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt me gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb nuk e zot\u00ebron. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cbsht\u00eb e\nr\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme t\u00eb dallosh hipokrizin\u00eb n\u00eb konturimin e nj\u00eb personi t\u00eb paaft\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb\nqen\u00eb i virtytsh\u00ebm, i ndersh\u00ebm dhe me integritet. Mbi t\u00eb gjitha kjo kategori\nnjer\u00ebzish ndien nj\u00eb ambicie e zili t\u00eb paskrupullt, e cila p\u00ebrzihet me vlerat e\nmiq\u00ebsis\u00eb dhe t\u00eb njer\u00ebzill\u00ebkut, duke risjell\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb vazhdim\u00ebsi t\u00eb pand\u00ebrprer\u00eb imazhet\nhipokrite t\u00eb Jagos s\u00eb Shekspirit apo t\u00eb Tartufit t\u00eb Molierit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

 Hipokrizia \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nga sjelljet m\u00eb t\u00eb\nrrezikshme dhe t\u00eb d\u00ebmshme t\u00eb cil\u00ebn mund ta hasim n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e p\u00ebrditshme; por\n\u00e7far\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb sakt\u00ebsisht termi “hipokrizi”? Cili \u00ebsht\u00eb\np\u00ebrkufizimi i tij?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

 Fjala vjen nga greqishtja\n“ipocrisis” dhe do t\u00eb thot\u00eb “simulim\u201d, hypi (n\u00ebn) + krinein\n(gjykoj). N\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, hipokrizia ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me tem\u00ebn e simulimit, t\u00eb\ng\u00ebnjeshtr\u00ebs, vet\u00ebm se sot vendi i saj nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb teat\u00ebr, por \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00eb skena\ne jet\u00ebs dhe e ekzistenc\u00ebs njer\u00ebzore.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

 Hipokriti \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb thelb nj\u00eb qenie e pasigurt\ndhe e bindur se nuk ka aft\u00ebsit\u00eb e nevojshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbajtur nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie t\u00eb\nbarabart\u00eb me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt; p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye ka qepur nj\u00eb mask\u00eb sociale p\u00ebr ta b\u00ebr\u00eb\nveten t\u00eb pranuesh\u00ebm dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbizot\u00ebruar e p\u00ebr t\u00eb marr\u00eb p\u00ebrpar\u00ebsi, derisa t\u00eb\narrij\u00eb ose t\u00eb imponoj\u00eb p\u00ebrfundimisht at\u00eb q\u00eb d\u00ebshiron.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Megjithat\u00eb\nashtu si g\u00ebnjeshtar\u00ebt, ata kan\u00eb shenjat e nevojshme p\u00ebr t\u2019i dalluar. P\u00ebr m\u00eb\ntep\u00ebr, gjuha e trupit rr\u00ebfen t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn: hipokrit\u00ebt tentojn\u00eb t’i fshehin duart\nn\u00eb xhepa, buz\u00ebqeshja e tyre nuk p\u00ebrfshin t\u00eb gjith\u00eb muskujt e fytyr\u00ebs, por vet\u00ebm\nata t\u00eb goj\u00ebs, nd\u00ebrsa syt\u00eb e tyre, edhe pse t\u00eb l\u00ebvizsh\u00ebm, rrall\u00eb ndeshin n\u00eb syt\u00eb\ne bashk\u00ebbiseduesve.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

 <\/em>Hipokrizia\nka qen\u00eb tem\u00eb e spikatur e folklorit dhe e let\u00ebrsis\u00eb popullore q\u00eb n\u00eb hapat e\npara t\u00eb njer\u00ebzimit. Gjithnj\u00eb e m\u00eb shum\u00eb, hipokrizia \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb subjekt i\nparap\u00eblqyer edhe p\u00ebr studime n\u00eb fusha t\u00eb ndryshme si: ekonomia, politika, religjioni,\npsikologjia kulturore, vendimmarrja, etika, psikologjia, sociologjia etj. Ka\nshembuj t\u00eb pakufizuar t\u00eb k\u00ebtij lloji t\u00eb sjelljes n\u00eb historin\u00eb njer\u00ebzore dhe n\u00eb\nshoq\u00ebrin\u00eb e sotme. N\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb bot\u00ebn, akti i hipokrizis\u00eb kritikohet e gjykohet;\npavar\u00ebsisht k\u00ebsaj, ai gjen terren t\u00eb praktikohet n\u00eb vijim\u00ebsi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gazetari amerikan Michael Gerson\n(ish drejtues i zyr\u00ebs s\u00eb fjalimeve t\u00eb Presidentit Xhorxh Bush – i riu) thot\u00eb se\nhipokrizia politike \u00ebsht\u00eb “p\u00ebrdorimi i vet\u00ebdijsh\u00ebm i nj\u00eb maske p\u00ebr t\u00eb\nmashtruar publikun dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb pasur p\u00ebrfitime politike”. E th\u00ebn\u00eb kjo nga\nnj\u00eb gazetar q\u00eb ka hartuar fjalime politikan\u00ebsh ting\u00ebllon e besueshme si drita e\ndiellit. Dhe politika \u00ebsht\u00eb mish\u00ebrimi m\u00eb real dhe m\u00eb i plot\u00eb i k\u00ebsaj dukurie t\u00eb\np\u00ebrbotshme q\u00eb quhet hipokrizi.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

 N\u00eb fakt, hipokrizia n\u00eb p\u00ebrditshm\u00ebri \u00ebsht\u00eb po\naq e natyrshme p\u00ebr njer\u00ebzit sa dhe frym\u00ebmarrja. Prind\u00ebrit k\u00ebshillojn\u00eb e urdh\u00ebrojn\u00eb\nf\u00ebmij\u00ebt t\u00eb sillen, ashtu si\u00e7 ata vet\u00eb nuk jan\u00eb sjell\u00eb ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb; klerik\u00ebt\npredikojn\u00eb vlera q\u00eb vet\u00eb ndoshta nuk i zot\u00ebrojn\u00eb, m\u00ebsuesit mundohen t\u00eb servirin\nmodele q\u00eb s\u2019i kan\u00eb ndjekur dot etj., apo si\u00e7 e p\u00ebrkufizon hipokrizin\u00eb nj\u00eb\nproverb aziatik: \u201cTeksa goja i lutet Bud\u00ebs, shpirti i falet djallit\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

K\u00ebshtu\nq\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb do t\u00eb rrethohemi nga dyfytyr\u00ebshit t\u00eb cil\u00ebt nuk do t\u00eb reshtin s\u00eb\nqeni ambig\u00eb me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, por edhe me veten. Kjo ndotje shpirt\u00ebrore e kakofoni\nsociale q\u00eb buron nga zemra duhet t\u00eb sh\u00ebrohet dhe secili ta pranoj\u00eb veten p\u00ebr\nat\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hipokriti d\u00ebshiron medoemos t\u00eb merret n\u00eb konsiderat\u00eb.\nAi nuk kujdeset p\u00ebr vlerat e v\u00ebrteta n\u00ebse ato nuk e \u00e7ojn\u00eb drejt suksesit.\nHipokriti nuk shqet\u00ebsohet n\u00ebse ato q\u00eb ai ndjek dhe p\u00ebrqafon jan\u00eb vlera t\u00eb\nrreme,  mjafton q\u00eb atij t’i japin nderim\ndhe k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi personale me t\u00eb cilat t\u00eb mburret.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

 Sipas Bibl\u00ebs, hipokrizia nuk\nlindi midis qenieve njer\u00ebzore, por u shfaq p\u00ebrmes nj\u00eb krijes\u00eb shpirt\u00ebrore t\u00eb\npadukshme. N\u00eb agim t\u00eb historis\u00eb njer\u00ebzore, Satanai p\u00ebrdori nj\u00eb gjarp\u00ebr si\nmaskim dhe duke pretenduar se kishte q\u00ebllime t\u00eb mira mashtroi gruan e par\u00eb, Ev\u00ebn.\n<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Q\u00eb at\u00ebher\u00eb shum\u00eb qenie njer\u00ebzore kan\u00eb pretenduar se ishin\nato q\u00eb nuk qen\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u00eb mashtruar t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb realizuar\nsynimet e tyre egoiste. Sa her\u00eb e humbasim besimin dhe entuziazmin, kur\nkuptojm\u00eb dhe p\u00ebrballemi haptazi me faktin se bota \u00ebsht\u00eb e veshur me nepotiz\u00ebm, urrejtje,\nfalsitet, antagoniz\u00ebm dhe xhelozi!<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Aktualisht\nhipokrizia \u00ebsht\u00eb shnd\u00ebrruar n\u00eb alter ego t\u00eb veprimtaris\u00eb njer\u00ebzore dhe p\u00ebrqasja\ne saj ndaj brezave t\u00eb rinj sa vjen e b\u00ebhet m\u00eb e theksuar.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Me zhg\u00ebnjim dhe dyshim mund t\u00eb ngrem\u00eb pyetjen, n\u00ebse\nhipokrizia do t\u00eb zhduket ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb apo do t\u00eb jet\u00eb bashkudh\u00ebtare e njeriut, p\u00ebr\naq koh\u00eb sa Toka do t\u00eb rrotullohet rreth Diellit?!<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Nga Gladiola Jorbus Shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz pohojn\u00eb se asgj\u00eb nuk i shqet\u00ebson m\u00eb shum\u00eb sesa hipokrizia. Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb pjes\u00eb e jet\u00ebs son\u00eb, por ndoshta jo t\u00eb gjith\u00eb e din\u00eb, q\u00eb hipokrit\u00eb quheshin aktor\u00ebt n\u00eb Greqin\u00eb e Lasht\u00eb. N\u00eb fakt ishin aktor\u00ebt e dyt\u00eb, ata q\u00eb studionin dhe imitonin t\u00eb par\u00ebt (aktor\u00ebt) p\u00ebr t\u00eb simuluar m\u00ebnyrat dhe […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":19081,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"","_seopress_titles_title":"","_seopress_titles_desc":"","_seopress_robots_index":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[2,12],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-22526","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aktualitet","category-opinione"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22526","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=22526"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22526\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":22528,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22526\/revisions\/22528"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/19081"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=22526"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=22526"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=22526"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}