{"id":22444,"date":"2019-04-25T12:51:18","date_gmt":"2019-04-25T10:51:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/?p=22444"},"modified":"2019-04-25T12:51:18","modified_gmt":"2019-04-25T10:51:18","slug":"arma-me-e-vjeter-ne-bote","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/?p=22444","title":{"rendered":"Arma m\u00eb e vjet\u00ebr n\u00eb bot\u00eb"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"> <\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/arma-me-e-forte-aurel-dasareti.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-22445\" width=\"530\" height=\"373\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/arma-me-e-forte-aurel-dasareti.jpg 448w, https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/arma-me-e-forte-aurel-dasareti-300x211.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 530px) 100vw, 530px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">NGA:\u00a0<strong>AUREL DASARETI<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kur rregullat normale shoq\u00ebrore zhduken, kur ndalimi nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb pjes\u00eb e norm\u00ebs, vijn\u00eb abuzimet, vrasjet, vjedhjet dhe kushtet ku \u00e7do individ vepron p\u00ebr p\u00ebrfitimin e tij.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<ins><\/ins><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">P\u00ebrdhunimi seksual n\u00eb luft\u00eb ka ndodhur p\u00ebr sa koh\u00eb q\u00eb njer\u00ebzit kan\u00eb luftuar, por ka pasur nj\u00eb kthes\u00eb n\u00eb luft\u00ebn e Ballkanit. Sulmi seksual n\u00eb luft\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb p\u00ebrzierje e nj\u00eb arme p\u00ebr t\u00eb posht\u00ebruar, nj\u00eb &#8220;shp\u00ebrblim&#8221; p\u00ebr ushtar\u00ebt dhe hakmarrje. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb lloj arme q\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb ndjekur penalisht para 20 viteve t\u00eb fundit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">P\u00ebr t\u00eb dhunuar seksualisht sistematikisht \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb arm\u00eb shum\u00eb e lir\u00eb krahasuar me arm\u00ebt e tjera t\u00eb luft\u00ebs. Pikturat e vjetra dhe vizatimet e shpellave tregojn\u00eb grat\u00eb duke u p\u00ebrdhunuar n\u00eb luft\u00eb. P\u00ebrdhunimi ka qen\u00eb nj\u00eb lloj simboli i brutalitetit t\u00eb luft\u00ebs. Por n\u00eb Bosnje dhe Kosov\u00eb, kishte papritmas elemente politike, ishte pjes\u00eb e spastrimit etnik q\u00eb e kryen barbar\u00ebt serbo-\u00e7etnik.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">P\u00ebrdhunimi si nj\u00eb arm\u00eb n\u00eb konfliktet e armatosura<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dhuna seksuale n\u00eb luft\u00eb ka qen\u00eb prej koh\u00ebsh nj\u00eb arm\u00eb p\u00ebr kontrollin e nj\u00eb popullsie duke shkaktuar turp mbi ta dhe sanksione t\u00eb tjera sociale. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb rrall\u00eb n\u00eb lidhje me epshin, dhe m\u00eb shum\u00eb rreth shprehjes s\u00eb fuqis\u00eb dhe krijimit t\u00eb frik\u00ebs q\u00eb mund t\u00eb paralizoj\u00eb nj\u00eb popullat\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00eb. Viktimat e dhun\u00ebs seksuale shpesh p\u00ebrjashtohen nga familja dhe komuniteti lokal p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb turpit. Grat\u00eb humbasin pun\u00ebn dhe shkollimin. Shoq\u00ebria e pranon n\u00eb heshtje dhun\u00ebn seksuale p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb turpit, por edhe p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb nj\u00eb sistemi ligjor q\u00eb nuk i mbron ato. Nj\u00eb sistem ligjor jofunksional lejon q\u00eb dhuna seksuale n\u00eb konflikt t\u00eb p\u00ebrs\u00ebritet n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha konfliktet bot\u00ebrore. K\u00ebshtu shohim se dhuna seksuale \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb problem global q\u00eb prek t\u00eb gjith\u00eb njer\u00ebzimin, jo vet\u00ebm grat\u00eb. Prandaj, mbrojtja e grupeve t\u00eb cenueshme gjat\u00eb luft\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme n\u00eb \u00e7do luft\u00eb p\u00ebr barazi. &nbsp;Ndikon n\u00eb gjendjen shpirt\u00ebrore t\u00eb nj\u00eb zone, dhe kufijt\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb ndjehet si e drejt\u00eb dhe e gabuar. Sa \u00ebsht\u00eb e p\u00ebrhapur dhuna seksuale n\u00eb luft\u00eb ndryshon nga konflikti n\u00eb konflikt. Por ndodh pothuajse n\u00eb gjitha luft\u00ebrat ku popullata civile kryesisht vjen n\u00eb kontakt t\u00eb ngusht\u00eb me luft\u00ebtar\u00ebt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Shkat\u00ebrruese p\u00ebr shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dhuna seksuale ka pasoja t\u00eb m\u00ebdha p\u00ebr nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri dhe krijon probleme jasht\u00ebzakonisht komplekse. Personi q\u00eb ekspozohet, padrejt\u00ebsisht b\u00ebhet i degraduar dhe shpesh d\u00ebmtohet fizikisht, por gjithashtu ndikon n\u00eb sh\u00ebndetin riprodhues t\u00eb nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebrie. N\u00eb disa shoq\u00ebri \u00ebsht\u00eb kaq e turpshme sa q\u00eb askush nuk d\u00ebshiron m\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb me grat\u00eb m\u00eb pas. Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb gjenocid i ngadalt\u00eb dhe i shpalosur, sepse njer\u00ebzit thjesht nuk riprodhohen m\u00eb pas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Shum\u00eb p\u00ebrballen me hakmarrje<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Efektet psikologjike t\u00eb p\u00ebrdhunimit n\u00eb luft\u00eb jan\u00eb par\u00eb shpesh n\u00eb gjeneratat q\u00eb vijn\u00eb pas, edhe pse ata vet\u00eb nuk e kan\u00eb p\u00ebrjetuar luft\u00ebn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dhuna seksuale \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nga efektet m\u00eb negative n\u00eb njer\u00ebz. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb arm\u00eb efektive q\u00eb t\u00eb dy individ\u00ebt dhe grupet mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrdorin p\u00ebr t\u00eb demonstruar fuqin\u00eb. Ushtrimi i dhun\u00ebs n\u00eb lidhje me seksualizmin shpesh lidhet me turpin dhe stigmatizimin. Dhe, shum\u00eb prej tyre (viktimave) nuk priten me mir\u00ebkuptim dhe p\u00ebrkrahje, por me hakmarrje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ne e dim\u00eb se abuzimi si arm\u00eb ka pasoja negative p\u00ebr gjeneratat q\u00eb faktikisht nuk kan\u00eb p\u00ebrjetuar luft\u00eb. Problemet mentale dhe trauma ndikojn\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si jeni si prind. Shum\u00eb prej tyre (t\u00eb p\u00ebrdhunuarve) nuk duan t\u00eb flasin p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb ka ndodhur me ta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ky nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb problem sh\u00ebndet\u00ebsor ose problem i grave, ky \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb &#8220;problem i njeriut&#8221; n\u00eb mas\u00ebn se jan\u00eb burrat q\u00eb dhunojn\u00eb n\u00eb konfliktet e armatosura. Mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb n\u00eb lidhje me porosit\u00eb, por gjithashtu mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb epror\u00ebt q\u00eb nuk i d\u00ebnojn\u00eb ushtar\u00ebt, q\u00eb kjo t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb. Prandaj, mjetet m\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme parandaluese jan\u00eb q\u00eb ky akt barbar antinjer\u00ebzor t\u00eb ndiqet penalisht. Luftimi i abuzimit seksual ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me parandalimin e njer\u00ebzve q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebhen dhunues seksual.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Abuzimi si nj\u00eb strategji<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Her\u00eb t\u00eb tjera, sulmet seksuale jan\u00eb v\u00ebn\u00eb qart\u00eb n\u00eb sistem. Sulmi seksual ndaj grave \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb arm\u00eb. Ju e nd\u00ebshkoni si gruan ashtu edhe burrin. Nderi shpesh lidhet ngusht\u00eb me grat\u00eb dhe t\u00eb drejtat e tyre. Abuzimet seksuale shpesh p\u00ebrfundojn\u00eb prapa sken\u00ebs (nuk fol\u00ebt shum\u00eb p\u00ebr to) kur shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz humbasin jet\u00ebn e tyre n\u00eb luft\u00eb. Deri n\u00eb dy milion\u00eb femra gjermane u p\u00ebrdhunuan kur rus\u00ebt e mor\u00ebn mbizot\u00ebrimin gjat\u00eb dhe pas Luft\u00ebs s\u00eb Dyt\u00eb Bot\u00ebrore. Pothuajse 240,000 nga k\u00ebto gra u vran\u00eb pastaj. Kur lexuat p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Njer\u00ebzit kthehen n\u00eb numra n\u00ebse abuzimet jan\u00eb mjaft t\u00eb m\u00ebdha.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Spastrimi etnik<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Gjat\u00eb luft\u00ebs n\u00eb Bosnje (1992-1995), p\u00ebraf\u00ebrsisht 50.000 gra-vajza boshnjake (myslimane) u p\u00ebrdhunuan nga serb\u00ebt. Aktivist\u00ebt lokal\u00eb nga Ballkani raportuan p\u00ebr kampet e p\u00ebrdhunimit, ku q\u00ebllimi ishte p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb grat\u00eb kroate dhe myslimane me meshkujt barbar\u00eb t\u00eb f\u00eblliqt\u00eb serbo-\u00e7etnik. P\u00ebr \u00e7do rast, flasim p\u00ebr dhun\u00ebn seksuale si pjes\u00eb e spastrimit etnik. N\u00eb nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri patriarkale, ku f\u00ebmij\u00ebt do t\u00eb marrin p\u00ebrsip\u00ebr etnin\u00eb e babait t\u00eb tyre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Gjat\u00eb luft\u00ebs n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb (28 shkurt 1998 \u2013 11 qershor 1999) pothuajse 1 milion shqiptar\u00eb u d\u00ebbuan nga territoret e tyre etnike, u vran\u00eb 17.000 civil\u00eb shqiptar\u00eb, nd\u00ebrkaq jan\u00eb zhdukur m\u00eb tep\u00ebr se 6.000 tjer\u00eb. Sikur kjo t\u00eb mos mjaftonte, p\u00ebraf\u00ebrsisht 20.000 gra shqiptare u p\u00ebrdhunuan nga qelb\u00ebsirat barbare serbe-\u00e7etnike. Pastaj, shum\u00eb prej tyre edhe u vran\u00eb, u dogj\u00ebn p\u00ebr s\u00eb gjalli dhe masakruan me thika duke ua nxjerr\u00eb nga trupi organet p\u00ebr s\u00eb gjalli n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn m\u00eb groteske-\u00e7njer\u00ebzore, q\u00eb kombet e civilizuara as q\u00eb munden ta paramendojn\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Por shqiptar\u00ebt harrojn\u00eb shpejt kur d\u00ebmtohen nga t\u00eb huajt. Bashk\u00ebkomb\u00ebsin e vet e vrasin p\u00ebr \u00e7\u00ebshtje banale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vitet e fundit, presidenti tradhtar-b\u00ebrllok i Kosov\u00ebs, i zgjedhur nga vet\u00eb shqiptar\u00ebt, q\u00eb edhe sipas nj\u00eb profesori shum\u00eb t\u00eb njohur nga diaspora \u201cpjellin gjithmon\u00eb tradhtar\u00eb n\u00eb krye t\u00eb politik\u00ebs\u201d, mundohet q\u00eb me \u00e7do kusht t`ia dhuroj\u00eb armikut pjes\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb begatshme t\u00eb Kosov\u00ebs, si kund\u00ebr-shp\u00ebrblim p\u00ebr t\u00eb shp\u00ebtuar prapanic\u00ebn e vet nga gjykata speciale. Dhe jo vet\u00ebm kjo, ai me gjysm\u00ebn e buxhetit t\u00eb Kosov\u00ebs ka financuar autor\u00eb t\u00eb huaj t`ia q\u00ebndisin biografin\u00eb me shkarravin\u00ebn prej disa qindra mij\u00eb faqeve, kinse \u00ebsht\u00eb burr\u00ebshtetas, edhe at\u00eb modern e jo mahi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kremtuam Pashk\u00ebt, Nat\u00ebn e Shenjt\u00eb t\u00eb Ngjalljes s\u00eb Jezu Krishtit. M\u00eb shkoi mendja edhe te ringjallja e k\u00ebshilltarit dhe mikut t\u00eb madh t\u00eb Hashim kastravecit dhe Ram\u00eb dordolecit, Baton Haxhi Qamilit, t\u00eb cilin e vran\u00eb serb\u00ebt gjat\u00eb luft\u00ebs por e ringjall\u00ebn pas luft\u00ebs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">E pabesueshmja \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, Baton Haxhi Qamili u kthye nga varri. Aleluja!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Prandaj ky spiun i Stanishiqit k\u00ebt\u00eb mrekulli e feston me tre gisht\u00ebrinj. U ngjall\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb na treguar (v\u00ebrtetuar) fytyr\u00ebn e tij t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb prej maskarai<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Shqiptar\u00ebt e trojeve dhe diaspor\u00ebs kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb thelb\u00ebsore p\u00ebr t\u00eb ruajtur vet\u00ebdijen e tyre kolektive. Jeta tkurret (pak\u00ebsohet) ose zgjerohet n\u00eb lidhje me guximin ton\u00eb.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>NGA:\u00a0AUREL DASARETI Kur rregullat normale shoq\u00ebrore zhduken, kur ndalimi nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb pjes\u00eb e norm\u00ebs, vijn\u00eb abuzimet, vrasjet, vjedhjet dhe kushtet ku \u00e7do individ vepron p\u00ebr p\u00ebrfitimin e tij. *** P\u00ebrdhunimi seksual n\u00eb luft\u00eb ka ndodhur p\u00ebr sa koh\u00eb q\u00eb njer\u00ebzit kan\u00eb luftuar, por ka pasur nj\u00eb kthes\u00eb n\u00eb luft\u00ebn e Ballkanit. 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