{"id":22086,"date":"2019-03-14T11:10:54","date_gmt":"2019-03-14T10:10:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/?p=22086"},"modified":"2019-03-14T11:10:54","modified_gmt":"2019-03-14T10:10:54","slug":"deri-kur-duhet-te-heshtim-sa-keq-o-zot","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/?p=22086","title":{"rendered":"DERI KUR DUHET T\u00cb HESHTIM?  SA KEQ&#8230;, O ZOT!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/Esat-Mehmeti-radio-Ulqini.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-6911\" width=\"582\" height=\"441\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/Esat-Mehmeti-radio-Ulqini.jpg 396w, https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/Esat-Mehmeti-radio-Ulqini-300x227.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 582px) 100vw, 582px\" \/><figcaption>CREATOR: gd-jpeg v1.0 (using IJG JPEG v80), quality = 100<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Shkruan: Esat Mehmeti<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Heshtja nuk\n\u00ebsht\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb pajtueshmeri, \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb tep\u00ebr pajtim me t\u00eb keqen. Heshtja \u00ebsht\u00eb\njo vet\u00ebm antivler\u00eb, por&nbsp; qyqarll\u00ebk, \u00ebsht\u00eb\n&nbsp;serviliz\u00ebm. Andaj, reagimet dhe&nbsp; protestat jan\u00eb dhe do mbesin p\u00ebrgjithmon\u00eb\nvlera t\u00eb&nbsp; p\u00ebrgjithshme qytetare me&nbsp; t\u00eb cilat tregojm\u00eb se nuk jemi indiferent ndaj\npadrejt\u00ebsis\u00eb, qoft\u00eb politike, ekonomike, sociale, ekologjike, kulturore,\narsimore etj. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Shpesh nuk jam n\u00eb nj\u00ebmendje me th\u00ebnien \u2018\u2019heshtja \u00ebsht\u00eb\nflori\u2019\u2019, ose \u201c heshtja \u00ebsht\u00eb pajtueshmeri\u201d. K\u00ebshtu q\u00eb, aty ku \u00ebsht\u00eb e drejta t\u00eb\nflas\u00ebsh, nuk ke pse t\u00eb hesht\u00ebsh. Megjithat\u00eb, shpeshher\u00eb, autoritetet\nsh\u00ebndet\u00ebsore pohojn\u00eb; \u201c heshtja ndihmon n\u00eb rigjenerimin e qelizave t\u00eb trurit\u201d. Mir\u00ebpo,\nn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb koh\u00eb q\u00eb po jetojm\u00eb, nuk mundesh t\u00eb jesh emocionalisht edhe aq\nindiferent, dhe padashje t\u00eb shtyr\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrballesh me sfida t\u00eb ndryeshme. Andaj,\nne duhet t\u00eb flasim n\u00eb koh\u00ebn e duhur dhe n\u00eb vendin e duhur.T\u00eb ruajm\u00eb dhe mbrojm\u00eb\ninteresat tona p\u00ebrmes fjal\u00ebs s\u00eb lir\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;Si koncept,heshtja\nnuk flet, por dhe si rrjedhoj\u00eb nuk ka edhe kuptim. Heshtja \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb ndrydhje e\nshpirtit, sepse nga brenda t\u00eb p\u00ebshperit di\u00e7ka !.Shpesh njer\u00ebzit nuk mund t\u00eb\nkuptojn\u00eb heshtjen t\u00ebnde, ndodh q\u00eb edhe nuk e kuptojn\u00eb mesazhin e saj. Nganj\u00ebher\u00eb\nheshtja e ka filozofin\u00eb e vet, por nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb zgjidhje e duhur, \u00ebsht\u00eb\nvet\u00ebm tejkalim i problemeve pa zgjidhje !<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;N\u00eb\nfillim, politika shk\u00eblqeu, por m\u00eb von\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha premtimet u harruan <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;Dikur ishim me\n\u00ebnd\u00ebrra plot. Shpresuam p\u00ebr nj\u00eb&nbsp; jet\u00eb m\u00eb\nt\u00eb lumtur, p\u00ebr nj\u00eb t\u00eb ardhme m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb, p\u00ebr ne dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tan\u00eb. Nd\u00ebrsa sot me\nk\u00ebt\u00eb politik\u00eb, q\u00eb e ka katandisur vendin, po shuhet flaka e shpres\u00ebs. Shikuar\nnga nj\u00eb an\u00eb, ky vend asnj\u00ebher\u00eb s\u2019ka qen\u00eb m\u00eb i pasur se sot. Me njer\u00ebz t\u00eb rinj,\nt\u00eb p\u00ebrgatitur me vlera t\u00eb larta intelektual e kulturor, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt, jo vet\u00ebm q\u00eb\njan\u00eb krahu m\u00eb i fort\u00eb, m\u00eb vital i kombit, por jan\u00eb pasuria m\u00eb e madhe, jan\u00eb e\nardhmja jon\u00eb, jan\u00eb forca e k\u00ebtij vendi. Mir\u00ebpo, n\u00eb an\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr, sot jemi&nbsp; m\u00eb t\u00eb&nbsp;\nvarf\u00ebr, ekonomikisht dhe shpirt\u00ebrisht. K\u00ebt\u00eb plag\u00eb duksh\u00ebm po e ngacmon\nniveli i&nbsp; lart\u00eb i papun\u00ebsis\u00eb,\npaperspektiva e t\u00eb rinjtve tan\u00eb, t\u00eb cil\u00ebve u jan\u00eb ndrydh\u00eb ndjenjat, iu&nbsp; \u00ebsht\u00eb vrar\u00eb shpresa, andaj edhe ky vend heshtazi\npo boshatiset \u00e7do dit\u00eb e m\u00eb shum\u00eb. Shum\u00eb vendbanime jan\u00eb zbrazur sa kurr\u00eb\nndonj\u00ebher\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa t\u00eb tjerat i pret i njejti fat . <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sot \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb p\u00ebr ta gjetur nj\u00eb njeri i cili\nkurr\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tij nuk ka hasur n\u00eb ndjesi t\u00eb \u00e7uditshme dhe t\u00eb pak\u00ebndshme dhe\nhesht&#8230;Andaj, heshtja&nbsp; \u00ebsht\u00eb&nbsp; shnd\u00ebrruar n\u00eb nj\u00eb lloj s\u00ebmundje, n\u00eb nj\u00eb\nepidemi t\u00eb llojit t\u00eb vet, e cila&nbsp; na\ntregon se jemi shoq\u00ebri e paperspektiv\u00eb q\u00eb jetojm\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb atmosfer\u00eb t\u00eb\n\u00e7ekuilibruar. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Shkenca ka v\u00ebrtetuar se s\u00ebmundja nuk mund t\u00eb jetoj\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb\ntrup t\u00eb sh\u00ebndosh\u00eb, me at\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetshme emocionale. Por, shtrohet\npyetja: si t\u00eb rrish i qet\u00eb, kur n\u00eb heshtje veprojn\u00eb mendime t\u00eb ndryshme. Ato\nvijn\u00eb varg e vij\u00eb. Shpesh v\u00ebrdall\u00eb me sillen n\u00eb mendime g\u00ebzimet, fitoret e\nbrishta, d\u00ebshtimet, hidh\u00ebrimet, mall\u00ebngjimet e shum\u00eb \u00e7ka tjet\u00ebr. Shum\u00ebher\u00eb pyes\nvet\u00ebn: ku humb\u00ebn \u00ebnd\u00ebrrat, idealet, shpresat, ku shkoi krenaria ?!\u2026 &nbsp;\u00c7ka u b\u00eb me k\u00ebt\u00eb tranzicion t\u00eb st\u00ebrzgjatur, q\u00eb\nvendin e ka katandisur ?!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;<strong>Deri kur\nduhet t\u00eb kafshojm\u00eb gjuh\u00ebn ?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pse tregohemi t\u00eb shurdh\u00ebr dhe t\u00eb verb\u00ebr ?! Shtiremi sikur\nnuk d\u00ebgjojm\u00eb e nuk shohim mir\u00eb ! Jo, kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb filozofia e heshtj\u00ebs son\u00eb. Ne\nheshtim p\u00ebr shum\u00eb\u00e7ka. Heshtim p\u00ebr gj\u00ebrat madhore, p\u00ebr atdheun, p\u00ebr gjuh\u00ebn,\nkultur\u00ebn, zakonet, trdit\u00ebn. Heshtim p\u00ebr simbolet\nkomb\u00ebtare, p\u00ebr historin\u00eb, p\u00ebr figurat, ngjarjet dhe datat&nbsp; komb\u00ebtare, heshtim p\u00ebr identitetin ton\u00eb ! Heshtim\np\u00ebr dukurit\u00eb dhe fenomente negative, p\u00ebr padrejt\u00ebsit\u00eb politike, p\u00ebr emigrimin e\npopullsis\u00eb, p\u00ebr shkat\u00ebrrimin e resurseve natyrore. Heshtim p\u00ebr kushtet e\njetes\u00ebs, p\u00ebr standardin e ul\u00ebt jet\u00ebsor. Heshtim ndaj&nbsp; papun\u00ebsis\u00eb, pap\u00ebrspektiv\u00ebs s\u00eb t\u00eb rinjve.\nHeshtim p\u00ebr ata t\u00eb cil\u00ebt&nbsp; me \u00e7el\u00ebsin\npartiak, pa kurr\u00ebfar\u00eb&nbsp; kontributi, vlere\ne merite kan\u00eb kapur majat e hierarkis\u00eb. Heshtim p\u00ebr pensionet e ulta, p\u00ebr\nmospagesen e rregullt mujore, q\u00eb me muaj t\u00eb t\u00ebra i presim&nbsp; n\u00eb heshtje. Heshtim ndaj&nbsp; taksave dhe borxheve t\u00eb larta q\u00eb \u00e7do dit\u00eb po\nna z\u00ebn\u00eb frym\u00ebn. Heshtim ndaj&nbsp;\nshtr\u00ebnjtimeve t\u00eb artikujve ushqimore dhe asortimenteve t\u00eb tjera t\u00eb\np\u00ebrdit\u00ebshme. Heshtim p\u00ebr ila\u00e7et e shtr\u00ebnjt\u00eb, p\u00ebr loj\u00ebrat e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve q\u00eb me\np\u00ebrbuzje i v\u00ebshtrojn\u00eb prind\u00ebrit, ngase s\u2019mund t\u2019i blej\u00eb !&nbsp; Andaj, harruam shum\u00eb\u00e7ka, e heshtim p\u00ebr\ngjith\u00e7ka, me nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb, po &nbsp;pajtohemi me\nt\u00eb keqen ! Vall\u00eb, deri kur do t\u00eb heshtim ?!!! Deri kur do t\u00eb kafshojm\u00eb gjuh\u00ebn\n?!!! Sa keq&#8230;,o Zot ! <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Heshtja nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb pajtueshmeri, \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb tep\u00ebr pajtim\nme t\u00eb keqen. Heshtja \u00ebsht\u00eb jo vet\u00ebm antivler\u00eb, por qyqarll\u00ebk, \u00ebsht\u00eb serviliz\u00ebm.\nAndaj, reagimet dhe&nbsp; protestat jan\u00eb dhe\ndo mbesin p\u00ebrgjithmon\u00eb vlera t\u00eb&nbsp;\np\u00ebrgjithshme qytetare me&nbsp; t\u00eb cilat\ntregojm\u00eb se nuk jemi indiferent ndaj padrejt\u00ebsis\u00eb, qoft\u00eb politike, ekonomike,\nsociale, ekologjike, kulturore, arsimore etj. Tani, pothuaj t\u00eb gjith\u00eb po\nheshtim. Po heshtim p\u00ebr \u00e7dogj\u00eb. Deri kur do t\u00eb zgjas kjo heshtje, kjo anomali ?\n. Sa keq&#8230;, o Zot ! .<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Shkruan: Esat Mehmeti Heshtja nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb pajtueshmeri, \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb tep\u00ebr pajtim me t\u00eb keqen. Heshtja \u00ebsht\u00eb jo vet\u00ebm antivler\u00eb, por&nbsp; qyqarll\u00ebk, \u00ebsht\u00eb &nbsp;serviliz\u00ebm. Andaj, reagimet dhe&nbsp; protestat jan\u00eb dhe do mbesin p\u00ebrgjithmon\u00eb vlera t\u00eb&nbsp; p\u00ebrgjithshme qytetare me&nbsp; t\u00eb cilat tregojm\u00eb se nuk jemi indiferent ndaj padrejt\u00ebsis\u00eb, qoft\u00eb politike, ekonomike, sociale, ekologjike, kulturore, arsimore etj. 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