{"id":18200,"date":"2018-03-10T09:53:40","date_gmt":"2018-03-10T08:53:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/?p=18200"},"modified":"2018-03-12T09:59:16","modified_gmt":"2018-03-12T08:59:16","slug":"mesazhi-i-plote-i-drejtores-se-iact-ne-marshimin-e-8-marsit-ne-podgorice","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/?p=18200","title":{"rendered":"Mesazhi i plot\u00eb i drejtores se iACT n\u00eb marshimin e 8 marsit n\u00eb Podgoric\u00eb"},"content":{"rendered":"

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\u201cNdihem e privilegjuar q\u00eb gjendem p\u00ebrpara jush, si p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsuese e brezit t\u00eb ri t\u00eb aktivisteve, p\u00ebr t\u00eb rikthyer n\u00eb v\u00ebmendje r\u00ebnd\u00ebsin\u00eb e fuqizimit t\u00eb gruas, n\u00eb familjen dhe n\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb malazeze.
\nSi fillm, le t\u2019i kujtojm\u00eb me mir\u00ebnjohje t\u00eb thell\u00eb grat\u00eb dhe vajzat nd\u00ebr shekuj, t\u00eb cilat nga luft\u00ebtare p\u00ebr barazin\u00eb gjinore, jan\u00eb kthyer n\u00eb pioniere p\u00ebr ndryshime t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme shoq\u00ebrore.<\/p>\n

Fal\u00eb mosbindjes s\u00eb tyre, luft\u00ebs s\u00eb mundimshme por gjithnj\u00eb t\u00eb qendrueshme, p\u00ebr drejt\u00ebsi dhe shanse t\u00eb barabarta, sot vajzat dhe grat\u00eb g\u00ebzojn\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00ebn e vot\u00ebs, t\u00eb drejt\u00ebn e fjal\u00ebs s\u00eb lir\u00eb dhe t\u00eb drejt\u00ebn e fjal\u00ebs n\u00eb publik.<\/p>\n

K\u00ebmb\u00ebngulja p\u00ebr mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb barabarta, p\u00ebrtej rezistenc\u00ebs s\u00eb fort\u00eb t\u00eb patriarkalizmit, ka frym\u00ebzuar dhe vazhdon t\u00eb frym\u00ebzoj\u00eb gjeneratat e reja. Mir\u00ebpo, idet\u00eb e drejta nuk mbizot\u00ebrojn\u00eb prej vet\u00eb virtytit q\u00eb kan\u00eb. P\u00ebr t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtuar shoq\u00ebri t\u00eb sh\u00ebndosha, t\u00eb bazuara n\u00eb respektimin e shanseve t\u00eb barabarta, kemi ende rrug\u00eb t\u00eb gjat\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Ndryshimi nis te nj\u00ebsia baz\u00eb e shoq\u00ebris\u00eb, familja. Shoq\u00ebria malazeze duhet t`i p\u00ebrqaset me p\u00ebrgjegjshm\u00ebri t\u00eb vecant\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtjes s\u00eb barazis\u00eb gjinore brenda strukturave familjare. Roli i vajz\u00ebs n\u00eb familje apo n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri nuk kusht\u00ebzohet prej karakteristikave biologjike, sepse k\u00ebshtu e predikon nj\u00eb besim i bartur dhe ideologji diskriminuese. P\u00ebrkundrazi, diferencat biologjike plot\u00ebsojn\u00eb spektrin gjinor dhe unifikojn\u00eb. Por n\u00eb asnj\u00eb m\u00ebnyre nuk duhen par\u00eb si faktor kusht\u00ebzues p\u00ebr rolin e individit n\u00eb familje dhe n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri.<\/p>\n

Nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb ka t\u00eb drejt\u00ebn t\u00eb edukohet dhe t\u00eb trash\u00ebgoj\u00eb nga familja, nj\u00ebjt\u00eb si nj\u00eb djal\u00eb. Nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb mund t\u00eb udh\u00ebheq\u00eb po aq suksessh\u00ebm sa nj\u00eb djal\u00eb. Kjo fryme instalohet q\u00eb n\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebri, pik\u00ebrisht n\u00eb gjirin e familjes dhe nga aty bartet m\u00eb tej n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri. Dhe t\u00eb mendosh q\u00eb k\u00ebto duhet t\u00eb ishin standarte gj\u00ebr\u00ebsisht t\u00eb pranuara n\u00eb vitin 2018, sot n\u00eb Mal t\u00eb Zi p\u00ebrballemi me nj\u00eb realitet tjet\u00ebr. Vajzat tona po i varf\u00ebrojm\u00eb dhe po i lejm\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebshir\u00ebn e kompromiseve jo t\u00eb ndershme. Po e d\u00ebmtojm\u00eb zhvillimin e shoq\u00ebris\u00eb duke e privuar nga realizimi i potendcialit t\u00eb gjysm\u00ebs s\u00eb popullsise. Kjo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e drejt\u00eb dhe duhet t\u00eb ndryshoj\u00eb!<\/p>\n

E ardhmja dhe progresi i shoq\u00ebris\u00eb malazeze nuk duhen mbajtur peng nga patriarkati. Duhet t\u00eb vazhdojm\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e aspiratave per\u00ebndimore, me n\u00eb qend\u00ebr motorin e progresit t\u00eb shoq\u00ebris\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb individi me kapitalin e tij intelektual dhe krijues. Kjo esht\u00eb detyra dhe sfida e brezit t\u00eb ri sot, q\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb frym\u00eb progresiste, me kuraj\u00eb t`a transferojm\u00eb n\u00eb cdo qeliz\u00eb t\u00eb shoq\u00ebris\u00eb, n\u00eb institucione dhe n\u00eb vendimmarrje. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb shoq\u00ebria malazeze do t\u00eb jet\u00eb m\u00eb e sigurt\u00eb, do t\u00eb g\u00ebzoj\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb paqe dhe prosperitet.<\/p>\n

Dhe pse ky eshte nje marshim, protest\u00eb e pak\u00ebnaq\u00ebsive t\u00eb shumta q\u00eb ne si vajza i gra ndiejm\u00eb n\u00eb p\u00ebrditshm\u00ebri, un\u00eb ftoj sot djemt\u00eb dhe burrat, q\u00eb t\u2019a zot\u00ebrojm\u00eb kuraj\u00ebn dhe t`i japim fund k\u00ebsaj marr\u00ebzie. Le t`a fillojm\u00eb ndryshimin nga familjet tona.<\/p>\n

P\u00ebr shanse t\u00eb barabarta p\u00ebr vajzat dhe grat\u00eb. P\u00ebr nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri t\u00eb drejt\u00eb dhe t\u00eb qendrueshme.
\nFaleminderit.\u201d<\/p>\n

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\u201cNdihem e privilegjuar q\u00eb gjendem p\u00ebrpara jush, si p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsuese e brezit t\u00eb ri t\u00eb aktivisteve, p\u00ebr t\u00eb rikthyer n\u00eb v\u00ebmendje r\u00ebnd\u00ebsin\u00eb e fuqizimit t\u00eb gruas, n\u00eb familjen dhe n\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb malazeze. Si fillm, le t\u2019i kujtojm\u00eb me mir\u00ebnjohje t\u00eb thell\u00eb grat\u00eb dhe vajzat nd\u00ebr shekuj, t\u00eb cilat nga luft\u00ebtare p\u00ebr barazin\u00eb gjinore, jan\u00eb kthyer n\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":18201,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"","_seopress_titles_title":"","_seopress_titles_desc":"","_seopress_robots_index":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[2,12],"tags":[1738,261,194],"class_list":["post-18200","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aktualitet","category-opinione","tag-8-marsi","tag-drita-llolla","tag-podgorice"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18200","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=18200"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18200\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":18202,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18200\/revisions\/18202"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/18201"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=18200"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=18200"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=18200"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}