{"id":11939,"date":"2016-12-12T10:39:02","date_gmt":"2016-12-12T09:39:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/?p=11939"},"modified":"2016-12-12T10:39:02","modified_gmt":"2016-12-12T09:39:02","slug":"gjinia-femerore-force-dhe-vlere-e-shoqerise","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/?p=11939","title":{"rendered":"Gjinia fem\u00ebrore,  forc\u00eb  dhe vler\u00eb e shoq\u00ebris\u00eb"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/albina-osmani-markasheviq.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-11940 \" src=\"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/albina-osmani-markasheviq.jpg\" width=\"560\" height=\"361\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/albina-osmani-markasheviq.jpg 400w, https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/albina-osmani-markasheviq-300x194.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 560px) 100vw, 560px\" \/><\/a>Shkruan Albina Osmani Markasheviq<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Ne si shoq\u00ebri gjithmon\u00eb e m\u00eb tep\u00ebr po p\u00ebrpiqemi t\u00eb promovojm\u00eb barazin\u00eb gjinore dhe po p\u00ebrpiqemi t\u2019i v\u00ebm\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb peshore ku do t\u00eb peshojn\u00eb dy gjinit\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00eb si femrat ashtu edhe meshkujt, por sa po arrihet q\u00ebllimi dhe sa fort po angazhohemi ne si shoq\u00ebri p\u00ebr t\u00eb arritur k\u00ebt\u00eb q\u00ebllim?<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7do fem\u00ebr duhet t\u00eb angazhohet n\u00eb kontributin e dituris\u00eb, urt\u00ebsis\u00eb dhe agjend\u00ebn sociale t\u00eb shoq\u00ebris\u00eb. Egzistimi i feminizmit \u00ebsht\u00eb kuptuar n\u00eb shum\u00eb aspekte, \u00ebsht\u00eb d\u00ebgjuar n\u00eb tregimet e femrave, \u00ebsht\u00eb ndje n\u00eb betajat e tyre p\u00ebr barazi gjinore. Feminizmi \u00ebsht\u00eb pjes\u00eb e energjis\u00eb, arritjes dhe forc\u00ebs s\u00eb \u00e7do femre, por sa jemi t\u00eb p\u00ebrkrahur n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb shoq\u00ebri n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb bot\u00eb mashkullore?<\/p>\n<p>Shoq\u00ebria jon\u00eb duhet t\u00eb siguroj dhe t\u00eb arrij\u00eb at\u00eb pik\u00eb q\u00eb femrat \u00a0t\u00eb jen\u00eb n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb jetojn\u00eb jet\u00ebn q\u00eb ata e zgjedhin p\u00ebr vehten e tyre, t\u00eb ken\u00eb qasje n\u00eb kujdesin dhe burimet p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetshme dhe t\u00eb q\u00ebndrueshme n\u00eb kuad\u00ebr t\u00eb shoq\u00ebris\u00eb s\u00eb tyre, t\u00eb jen\u00eb n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb p\u00ebrmbushin potencialin e tyre individual dhe krijues n\u00eb baz\u00eb t\u00eb d\u00ebshirave t\u00eb veta dhe aft\u00ebsis\u00eb, mos t\u00eb ken\u00eb frik\u00eb nga burrat, nga besimi fetar, apo nga rrethanat shoq\u00ebrore dhe politike.<\/p>\n<p>Progresi dhe arritja e barazis\u00eb reale gjinore n\u00eb tri fushat baz\u00eb, n\u00eb familje, n\u00eb fush\u00ebn social-ekonomike, si dhe n\u00eb jet\u00ebn politike dhe publike, nuk mund t\u00eb vij\u00eb spontanisht dhe as vet\u00ebm n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet shpresave p\u00ebr iluminimin e shoq\u00ebris\u00eb. Sigurisht q\u00eb n\u00eb promovimin e t\u00eb drejtave t\u00eb gjinis\u00eb fem\u00ebrore dhe parandalimin e formave m\u00eb ekstreme t\u00eb shkeljes s\u00eb k\u00ebtyre t\u00eb drejtave, sikurse \u00ebsht\u00eb dhuna gjinore, lipset m\u00eb shum\u00eb angazhim p\u00ebr sensibilizimin dhe nd\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsimin e shoq\u00ebris\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Fakti q\u00eb t\u00eb drejtat e gjinis\u00eb femrore jan\u00eb legalizuar si pjes\u00eb integrale e t\u00eb drejtave t\u00eb njeriut, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb hap progresiv n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e zhvillimit demokratik t\u00eb vendit. Por retorikat patetike p\u00ebr respektimin e t\u00eb drejtave nuk mund t\u00eb fshehin realitetin gri, disavantazhet, pengesat dhe problemet sociale me t\u00eb cilat ballafaqohen femrat n\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekjet e tyre p\u00ebr pjes\u00ebmarrje dhe status t\u00eb barabart\u00eb n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri.<\/p>\n<p>Shoq\u00ebria \u00ebsht\u00eb e nevojshme q\u00eb te gjinia femrore \u00a0t\u00eb shoh\u00eb fuqi dhe t\u00eb mb\u00ebshtesin njejt\u00eb si gjinin mashkullore. T\u00eb ndalojn\u00eb diskriminimet dhe padrejt\u00ebsit\u00eb ndaj femr\u00ebs. Femrat jan\u00eb natyr\u00eb ndryshe, kan\u00eb madh\u00ebshtin\u00eb p\u00ebrbrenda, kan\u00eb intuita, instikte dhe \u00e7do situat\u00eb din\u00eb ta kthejn\u00eb n\u00eb favor t\u00eb t\u00eb tyre, pastaj t\u00eb qenunit n\u00ebn\u00eb i b\u00ebn shum\u00eb natyr\u00eb t\u00eb dhimb\u00ebshme dhe ua shton\u00eb m\u00ebshir\u00ebn dhe i p\u00ebrmbush n\u00eb \u00e7do aspekt.<\/p>\n<p>Shprehja se pas \u00e7do burri t\u00eb suksessh\u00ebm q\u00ebndron nj\u00eb grua q\u00eb punon fort duhet t\u00eb ndryshoj\u00eb. Kjo grua q\u00eb punon fort duhet t\u00eb punoj\u00eb p\u00ebr vete, duhet q\u00eb veten ta ngrit\u00eb aty ku e meriton e jo nj\u00eb burr\u00eb. Femra duhet t\u00eb punoj fort\u00eb p\u00ebr karrier\u00ebn e vet e jo t\u00eb dikujt\u00eb tjet\u00ebr, pa marr\u00eb parasysh t\u00eb bashk\u00ebshortit, v\u00ebllaut apo dikujt tjet\u00ebr. Prandaj \u00a0krijoni jet\u00ebn n\u00eb bazamente t\u00eb forta.<\/p>\n<p>Femrat nuk duhet t\u00eb pajtohen me gjendjen e krijuar, pamarparasysh se kan\u00eb pikpamje t\u00eb ndryshme, kultur\u00eb, gjendje socio-ekonomike, relegjioni, orientimi, aft\u00ebsia ose besimi p\u00ebr t\u00eb kuptuar se grat\u00eb n\u00eb nevoj\u00eb jan\u00eb gra n\u00eb nevoj\u00eb, dhe se t\u00eb gjitha grat\u00eb meritojn\u00eb respekt dhe p\u00ebrkrahje nga shoq\u00ebria. Femrat duhet t\u00eb punojn\u00eb s\u00eb bashku kund\u00ebr diskriminimit gjinor\u00eb dhe t\u00eb p\u00ebrqafojn\u00eb: kultivimin dhe p\u00ebrdorimin e talenteve femrore, p\u00ebrvojat unike kulturore dhe politike, aft\u00ebsit\u00eb dhe angazhimin n\u00eb solidaritetin me t\u00eb gjitha femrat tjera, brenda dhe jasht\u00eb vendit.<\/p>\n<p>Shoq\u00ebris\u00eb ton\u00eb do t\u2018i duhet t\u00eb p\u00ebrshkruaj\u00eb nj\u00eb rrug\u00eb ende t\u00eb gjat\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb mb\u00ebrritur n\u00eb at\u00eb \u201cstacion\u201d t\u00eb historis\u00eb, ku barazia gjinore t\u00eb jet\u00eb pranuar si nj\u00eb realitet i ri, ku burrat dhe grat\u00eb t\u00eb ken\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtat detyrime dhe t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtat privilegje, t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtat mund\u00ebsi reale p\u00ebr afirmim t\u00eb personalitetit dhe pjes\u00ebmarrjes n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha sferat e jet\u00ebs shoq\u00ebrore.<\/p>\n<p>P\u00ebrfshirja m\u00eb gjer\u00ebsisht e shoq\u00ebris\u00eb civile, pjes\u00ebmarrja e komunitetit dhe marrja e p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsive nga pushteti vendor, fuqizimi i familjes dhe nxitja e nj\u00eb kulture t\u00eb re t\u00eb respektimit t\u00eb t\u00eb drejtave t\u00eb gjinis\u00eb femrore, jan\u00eb \u00e7el\u00ebsi p\u00ebr t\u00eb \u00e7uar p\u00ebrpara aksionin civil p\u00ebr arritjen e barazis\u00eb gjinore n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha fushat e jet\u00ebs. Vet\u00ebm n\u00eb kontekstin e k\u00ebtij aksioni permanent dhe gjith\u00ebp\u00ebrfshir\u00ebs do t\u00eb mund t\u00eb parandalohen dhe eliminohen gradualisht krimet n\u00eb familje dhe format e dhun\u00ebs gjinore.<\/p>\n<p>Femrat \u00a0n\u00ebse duan sukses\u00eb dhe n\u00ebse duan ta prekin lavdin\u00eb at\u00ebher\u00eb nuk duhet t\u00eb ndalen, duhet t\u00eb ecin p\u00ebrpara dhe t\u00eb mos u kushtojn\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi dekurajimeve q\u00eb vin\u00eb nga nj\u00ebr\u00ebz q\u00eb kan\u00eb d\u00ebshtuar ose q\u00eb duan t\u2019i fshehin mang\u00ebsit\u00eb e tyre duke v\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb pah t\u00eb tonat. T\u00eb nderuara duhet q\u00eb t\u2019i arrijm\u00eb q\u00ebllimet tona dhe s\u00eb pari t\u00eb krenohena me veten, kur kjo ndodh edhe t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt s\u2019kan\u00eb nga t\u2019ia mbajn\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>E pra, t\u00eb qenunit fem\u00ebr n\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb ton\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb vet\u00ebvete nj\u00eb sfid\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb. K\u00ebt\u00eb v\u00ebsht\u00ebrsi se kupton \u00e7do lloj injoranti q\u00eb mund t\u00eb flas\u00eb \u00e7ka mos p\u00ebr nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr, por as nj\u00eb dit\u00eb t\u00eb vetme s\u2019do mund ta p\u00ebrballonte n\u00eb l\u00ebkur\u00ebn e saj. Ne femrat jemi natyr\u00eb luft\u00ebtare dhe besoj se k\u00ebshtu do jemi deri n\u00eb fund&#8230;Gjithmon\u00eb do t\u00eb ket\u00eb sfida me t\u00eb cilat duhet t\u00eb p\u00ebrballemi !<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Shkruan Albina Osmani Markasheviq &nbsp; Ne si shoq\u00ebri gjithmon\u00eb e m\u00eb tep\u00ebr po p\u00ebrpiqemi t\u00eb promovojm\u00eb barazin\u00eb gjinore dhe po p\u00ebrpiqemi t\u2019i v\u00ebm\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb peshore ku do t\u00eb peshojn\u00eb dy gjinit\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00eb si femrat ashtu edhe meshkujt, por sa po arrihet q\u00ebllimi dhe sa fort po angazhohemi ne si shoq\u00ebri p\u00ebr t\u00eb arritur k\u00ebt\u00eb [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":11940,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"","_seopress_titles_title":"","_seopress_titles_desc":"","_seopress_robots_index":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[12],"tags":[499],"class_list":["post-11939","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-opinione","tag-albina-osmani-markasheviq"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11939","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=11939"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11939\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11941,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11939\/revisions\/11941"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/11940"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=11939"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=11939"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ulqini-online.com\/sajti\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=11939"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}